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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 6:56am On May 21, 2020 |
Ishilove: We agreed on something ... i owe you a cold chilled bottle of harp i can't afford peppersoup so bring it along from home.two plate two spoons. 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Alaganature(m): 7:02am On May 21, 2020 |
Shugavee: Hmmmm Are you saying you don't cheat? cos I know people like you care those who go after married men..may God deliver us from women |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by andyanders: 7:03am On May 21, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:On sport. Any woman that cannot handle marriage, shouldn't get into it. When on your wedding day and you are been told for better for worst, why not stop the officiating minister at that point and ask what the word 'worst' stands for. Why kill a man or man, why kill a woman? At the end when you kill, have you gotten the freedom to live? Why not walk away through divorce rather than prison where you either be killed or wasted behind the prison walls? Killing by either party is not the solution to your domestic issues. 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 7:09am On May 21, 2020 |
Etfash: Once you're truly regenerated, challenges will never make you succumb to evil or sin. I'll tell you why, the Holy spirit will never allow you to do it. As in.. He'll block all means of you ever doing such. Jesus said something that " those that my father had given to me, no one can snatch them from me and I'm a living testimony. My testimony. Some time 4 years ago, there was this man who was an american returnee then and was always pestering me. He would ship in ladies stuffs and ask me to follow him upstairs to his flat ( he owns the 3story building) to pick anything but I'll refuse cos of the conditions attached to it. He even said he was going to marry me, bla bla bla. But because I can't marry a non born again I refused. He also told my twin to help talk to me, still no way. Though he gives me things sometimes and kept pestering me to come upstairs for something better lol... Then one day, I had nothing ( wasn't working then) on me. After thinking for so long on what to do, the devil began to wishper this guys name to me. "Why not go to him. He likes you and will take care of you" ( this was around 8pm) I said ok let me go and meet him. After all I've had a boyfriend in the past. Hmm... What happened next really proved what Jesus said in ....... As I began to wear my clothes (sweating in the process and shaking) and took my top off the hanger I heard a loud noise... A Heavy rain.. Like seriously, it was not a rainy season, there was no sign it was going to rain that night, and for a rain to start pouring down so heavily immediately it started without the usual little patterings it starts with was just baffling. I rushed out to see and heard people complaining how the rain never showed signs bla bla. I just went back inside and began to cry on my knees and ask for forgiveness. Do you know, it rained from that 8pm through 11 pm ( when its no longer safe to go out) I was dazed all through that night. The next day, someone just called me up and sent me something ( someone i never told anything) and before I could exaust what was sent to me, I got a job. So as a Christian, it gets to a point in your life that sin can no longer have dominion over you due to the level of your walk with God. After then, I learnt to rely on God no matter how tough cos he won't even allow me do it even if I decide to do any rubbish cos he has kept me for himself. So it's not by power or might but by the spirit of God and His grace. When you have such a spouse, no matter the challenge, he or she will never cheat except they were never really born again and given to Jesus to keep until rapture. Shalom. 6 Likes |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Rolexjerry(m): 7:12am On May 21, 2020 |
yomi007k: Bros did u read everything? Summarize it to us mbok. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:13am On May 21, 2020 |
Yet another treatise on how the woman should adapt to an undeserving partner... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by EPIJOE: 7:13am On May 21, 2020 |
LONG EXPLANATIONS, BUT ON POINT. 80% OF MARRIED WOMEN ARE RIGID . A VALID POINT. WAHALA FOR NAIJA IS THE ISSUES O. WOMEN ARE GOING THROUGH HELL TO SURVIVE IN THIS COUNTRY. TO ASSIST THEIR HUBBY. AND DEVIL HAD TAKING OVER OUR TECHNOLOGY. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 7:14am On May 21, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: LoL !! why am i not surprise there is no self defense positioning that can give a woman easy access to cut a man"s dick, you can only cut off a man's dick when he as been sediated or deep asleep. self defense my burnt ass 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by AfroKnight: 7:14am On May 21, 2020 |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by wany(f): 7:17am On May 21, 2020 |
Freeeanijor:So why do men cry a river when women cheat or don't you think what is good for the goose is equally good for the gander.to be honest to you feeling is same.the same urged you have towards the opposite sex is the feeling your woman has too even double.and with this present generation cheating is free for all. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Ishilove: 7:27am On May 21, 2020 |
ericsmith:Lol. Smh 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Liftedhands(f): 7:30am On May 21, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust:God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by ABOVEDELAW: 7:32am On May 21, 2020 |
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY MEN OF GOD (PASTORS/BORN AGAIN) WHO HAVE DIVORCED THEIR WIVES? Eulalia: |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 7:33am On May 21, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: You can't tell men not to marry, it like buying an honda accord and not expecting a bad hand, so also are men, cos the bitter truth is we are prone to cheat, its more like factory defect, most times we just cheat 4 the fun of it or lust of it. Don't be tew focus on whether your man cheat or not, rather be more focus on things that you can do to earn more & more respect from him. Since its more of a defect to cheat, any woman that can't stand it should remain single or join a lesbian club. even lesbian cheat just marry a pet |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by scify364(m): 7:34am On May 21, 2020 |
Many thanks op, This is indeed a great show of emotional Intelligence. I love the part when you said If you you dont seek a counsellor you will see a lawyer latter. I spoke for almost 3 hours on the phone with a friend about a troubled marriage. These things happens but lack of information is why we have high rate of divorce mostly from tender marriages. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 7:34am On May 21, 2020 |
wany:hahahaha.. Watch out how women will be freely butchered by men in the coming days.. Men are well prepared 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by SmartMen: 7:36am On May 21, 2020 |
Shugavee:stop being a hypocrite. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 7:36am On May 21, 2020 |
So much ado about male cheating. There's no evidence married men cheat more than the female counterpart. The DNA results from different countries shows up to 30 - 40% of babies belong to men other than the husband of the woman. This put Nigeria at number one position and by extension, the number country with the most cheating women. 80% of Nigerian women don't hate sex. They want it with other men 2 Likes |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by enemyofprogress: 7:37am On May 21, 2020 |
yomi007k:I ate reading. God punish the person that introduced education and books |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by larry2015: 7:43am On May 21, 2020 |
very interesting write up but don't you have a recommended ebook(s) too for men. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by larry2015: 7:47am On May 21, 2020 |
very good write up but any recommended ebook for men too. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 7:53am On May 21, 2020 |
bamasite2:Okay sir and that will be when I get married. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 7:55am On May 21, 2020 |
tiswell:It is a way of greeting. Gush!! |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 7:56am On May 21, 2020 |
Awol1:And ur name is Awol? |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Etfash(m): 7:58am On May 21, 2020 |
Eulalia: Thank you for your post and the testimony. I agree that the Lord makes a way of escape for us. Before you were about to succumb to the pressure of lack, why did you always refuse to go upstairs with the man? Was it because anybody will beat you? Or was it because of your parents? I believe it was none of these. You didn't do it because you feared God. Meanwhile, you could still have called that man to come pick you even if it was raining. You concluded that the rain started because God didn't want you to go there. But in the real sense, once again, you decided to yield to God, because you feared him (reverential fear). Having said the above, a real man isn't really attracted to a woman because of possession. He strives to acquire wealth and masters the art of creating wealth. But once the wealth starts coming, the vultures begin to gather. It takes again, the fear of God to refuse these things. One reason he said, work out your salvation with fear and trembling. My advice to every Christian is to make up their minds not to destroy their relationship with God on the altar of adultery or fornication as the case may be. I have not had the experience before, but I'm certain it will limit one's liberty in the place of prayer and open one up to avoidable attacks. Please the above is for Christians. If you are reading this but do not believe in the existence of God, it is not for you. If I am to engage you, it would be from another level. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 7:58am On May 21, 2020 |
piamily:If you are a christian please read 2 cor 13:12 |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 7:59am On May 21, 2020 |
Dpaulie:I bet you didn't understand the metaphor I used there. 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 8:05am On May 21, 2020 |
wany:Your question should have been, if I was still dating somebody when I decided to pounce on her according to you. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Mariangeles(f): 8:05am On May 21, 2020 |
Randy100: Keep kissing you hear? Until you kiss a poisonous snake! Oko ashewo oshi |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Mucheer(m): 8:05am On May 21, 2020 |
God Will Bless You For This Write-up. And May God Increase Your Wisdom For This Good Job In Jesus Name Amen. |
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by newdawn2017(f): 8:05am On May 21, 2020 |
francisisking:Ah my dear. I know what I used my eyes to see. |
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