MansoryMX:
Knacking..... I feel is the hardest part.

Lamanii22:
Staying faithful.... I respect my mom on that part... She's so faithful to my dad, truss me some other women would have left since or cheated.. I wanna be like her...

Jaubdu:
For me I feel staying in love is so much more difficult than falling in love....Every reasonable opinions counts.

Jaubdu:
For me I feel staying in love is so much more difficult than falling in love....Every reasonable opinions counts.

SweetCunt97:
I tell you. Most of these seemingly meek loyal women are so cos they have nothing to fall back on, so they can swallow nonsense.

Kingpele:
Well being married for 9 years now makes me to come to the conclusion only God can keep legally married people happy throughout the duration of the marriage, am still very much in love with my wife and whenever we made love is like the first time, again faithfulness in marriage helps a lot to keep a couple attracted to each other till the end of time

asahnwaKC:
Too much boredom ......most married ppl are just living together cus of the kids.....that's why I love the western world....once its boring...everybody go their separate ways and look for fresh excitement

Ivebeenbanned:

You sound like a fragile man.

Quit talking about submission. Its 2020

byinks:


I wish all husbands were as ball less as you..

The typical naija male sees side chicks and away match as right of passage

bigpicture001:
Financial compatibility....

This does not mean being rich by the guy,instead it means being able to share na be of help financially in marriage..,.

Women are non not to be supportive in this aspect nd that see it as their right....

This is a silent home breaker especially for the middle income spouses.


A guy I know divorced his wife straight after sh delivered of their first child... He saved for the D- day..but still fell short of 95k cuz there was complication of deliverering that no one expected.....

While he run from pillar to post to his friends seeking a soft loan pending wen he is paid..the wife still held at the hospital sent her younger sis,who stays with them to secretly go to the house go nd to her matrimonial room nd collect the 65k sh kept in her bag b4 d hubby mistakenly sees it

Unfortunately for her the hubby went home nd met his teenage in law with 65k cash....sh TLD him her elder sis instruction....


He was shocked...nd told the gal to go ahead nd deposit d money to d wife's bank as sh was instructed by her. He continued his nuzzle nd two days later he got them out of the hospital paying 126k additional from the first delivery cost...

Sh came back home nd can't look him in the eyes...quarell after quarelk ensued DT led to divorce exactly one month later....

Gals of this days are too stingy nd mny of them take d Character into marriages.....never ever Marry a lady DT will not b supportive..as a guy,u can't solve all them financial problems in marriage...

This is a big p,no one talks abt

zed7:
Successful marriages are successful because one or both parties put sentiments aside. Marry whom you like, not necessarily love. Don't go for beauty or shape or wealth, go for compatibility, similar values, one whom you know will give you peace and you're good to go.
However a man or woman has to like his or her spouse. Having the best partner in the world without being attracted to them will not work.
As for the question, the hardest part of marriage is staying faithful for most men and remaining submissive for most women, especially this generation of women. It's not easy to be earning your own income and not be forced to disregard or challenge your husband from time to time.

tripplephi:
Well, I do not know what you mean by LOVE in your own language, BUT LET ME BE BRUTALLY HONEST....

The dreadful part where ALL BUTTERFLIES HAVE EITHER DIED OR FLOWN AWAY and HORNnINESS is now a memory AND THE PRESENCE of your spouse feels like a burden cos singleness become so so attractive again like a LIFE GOAL, yet you have to just KEEP FAKING IT AND DOING EVERYTHING when you know it is no longer how it felt like in the beginning.

its Haaaarrrd

CheedyJ:

How do you know she might not have cheated, do you follow her everywhere or if she does ,would she sit u down & tell you?


Just kidding, there are few faithful women perhaps ur mum is one of them just like mine...

PreetyAngel4U:


Seriously? Please don't just say anything because you can.

Your mum's prayer for her children is for them to have better in life. Abi you want to marry a cheating spouse as well or have one already?

All the cheaters are busy liking this comment.

You can have a faithful spouse. Please do not inherit bad things from your parents.

Lamanii22:



My mom is a full time housewife... She sells stuff at home... The only time she goes out is when she has a cooking job... If you know how stressful cooking job is eehn.. You won't think about sex... You'd just wanna have your bath and sleep... Plus my mom have always been a disciplined person.. In every aspect of life... My mom has never cheated, I can bet to that.... She's rare...

Jaubdu:
For me I feel staying in love is so much more difficult than falling in love....Every reasonable opinions counts.

A305:
Your mom has no financial freedom hence the loyalty, Tell your story to a woman on the same financial level as her husband.

bonnyhope:


Don't come here and be advertising yourself indirectly

Lamanii22:



She does have financial freedom... She just doesn't want a divided home...

tobidipity:


Dude 'Awwwwn' happens to be one of my mumu buttons. Can U bake me a bread?

bukatyne:


Is there something wrong with your dad that you believe he deserves to be cheated on?

Lamanii22:

Loool... Yeah... How do you like it? Savoury, buttery or sweet....

A305:
* The Sex (Mismatch libido)

* Not giving each other space (Don't come near me, cuddle, grope me or touch me all the time. I need some (me time) alone, I have been alone before you showed up in my life - the alone craving is still there sometimes.

* Silence (sometimes, I need silence to concentrate and think about next business deal, bills, our family affairs, my out family and relatives and NO wiffy, i'm not ignoring you, I just need silence)

* Women always getting emotional to make logic seem invalid and then emotionally blackmailing their spouse.

* Men inability to flee from free sex.

*Men inability to satisfy their wife. (Always thinking banging her hard is what she want NOT knowing climax is what she needs - Also not paying attention to her sexaul need.)

*Women ranging hormone/mood swings (please women; learn to always deal and communicate with your spouse when your hormone begins to determine your mood such as; Ovulation, menstruation, financially broke, insecurity, sex starved, Pregnancy, Post - pregnancy, Stress, Depression and anxiety.)

*Lack of communication from both end.

tobidipity:


Crisp and golden on the outside, rich and buttery on the inside. Savoury.

Lamanii22:
Staying faithful.... I respect my mom on that part... She's so faithful to my dad, truss me some other women would have left since or cheated.. I wanna be like her...

Lamanii22:



So many things.. Lol.. But my mom have got this "when I'm married, I wanna be very married" kinda mentality... But she cares for him still... Even when we are complaining, she'd be like "baba yin ni now( he is your father)... My mom has this heavenly patience like that... I can't explain it...

byinks:


You're going to have a wonderful marriage if the above is actually true