Vyvyanvyvy:

Thanks am going to pick him up this Sunday I will bring him to the house and let him do his worst. I pay the rent if he is not happy then he has to leave me with my children . This thing has been stressing me my bp is already high which is not good for my pregnancy I need to be alive for my children and I won’t let him stress me anymore

What a woman!

You are a joy to read. Very polite yet very firm.
May you live very long to eat the fruit of your labour/sacrifices...

Vyvyanvyvy:
I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children.

Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife.

Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him.

I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him.

What happened to the father of your 2 children?

Vyvyanvyvy:

He is not in Nigeria

Send. Him. To. His. Father.

Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

lolaluv1:


What a woman!

You are a joy to read. Very polite yet very firm.
May you live very long to eat the fruit of your labour/sacrifices...

Amen in Jesus mighty name

Dbrawllm0098:
Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

I didn't allow him to suffer , I choose him over my husband because my son will always come first at all the time.

Vyvyanvyvy:


I didn't allow him to suffer , I choose him over my husband because my son will always come first at all the time.

Congratulations! You will live to enjoy the fruits of ur labour and also see them prosper. Amen

Easier said that done. Are currently in a marriage?

Dbrawllm0098:
Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

Easier said that done. Are you currently in a marriage?

Dbrawllm0098:
Me I can never allow my son to suffer like dat while am still alive,instead I will leave dat marriage carry my children,hustle to take care of them,who marriage help
Mcheeee

Vyvyanvyvy:


I didn't allow him to suffer , I choose him over my husband because my son will always come first at all the time.

How did you handle it? How is the boy now?

As a man, i know the husband's fear would vanish if you are able to sustain and control the kid. Having access to you and seeing your smiling face regularly as parent will help the boy grow confidence and good character.

Madam e b like sey you no dey like condom now now you don born 3 still carry another one for belle, continue

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God bless you sir.

Put your son in boarding school.
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