badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

SweetCunt97:
Whoever you beg beg for relationship, you go beg beg to keep... It's not like they had genuine emotions and accepted you. If they develop such emotions along the way, lucky you.

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?