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I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:04pm On May 16
Hi everyone,

I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.

Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.

And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by elmagnifico411(m): 10:07pm On May 16
Wait. People wey go help u dey come. As for me, I don't think I can. You no go fit take my advice.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by OlawaleBammie(m): 10:07pm On May 16
Block her

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by ChiefSosa(m): 10:09pm On May 16
WHAT HELP DO YOU NEED EXACTLY...

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Goldbw122: 10:09pm On May 16
Affection, you need to stop contacting her, just stay away, and get a good woman that will help u if u have already focus your energy on her okk..

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:09pm On May 16
elmagnifico411:
Wait. People wey go help u dey come. As for me, I don't think I can. You no go fit take my advice.
talk wetin u wan talk na
Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:09pm On May 16
ChiefSosa:
Let me call my uncle first
Your uncle na expert for this kind case?

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:10pm On May 16
OlawaleBammie:
Block her
i did that once but I unblock her again

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by OlawaleBammie(m): 10:11pm On May 16
daylay7:

i did that once but I unblock her again
block and delete

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by DropsMic(m): 10:16pm On May 16
Yiur problem is as simple as ABC..

Stop communicating with her

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by doggedfighter(f): 10:24pm On May 16
Hahahahahahaha

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:30pm On May 16
OlawaleBammie:
block and delete

I also did. But I reached out again to someone who reconnected us.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by OlayemiAshraf(m): 10:31pm On May 16
She don use kayanmata for you grin

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:31pm On May 16
DropsMic:
Stop communicating with her
I have tried many times but I can't help it.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:32pm On May 16
OlayemiAshraf:
She don use kayanmata for you grin
I doubt it jare. How i go take know self

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Bola146(f): 10:48pm On May 16
grin grin A typical Oniranu that is who you are. What if your wife is saying this. I pity those who still have feelings for their ex's, why not block all her means of communication It is well ooo undecided

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:48pm On May 16
Bola146:
grin grin
this na serious matter o
Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by mickykhe(m): 10:51pm On May 16
U r not serious as a married man

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 10:53pm On May 16
mickykhe:
U r not serious as a married man
Thank you grin grin

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Vision101(m): 11:05pm On May 16
@doggedfighter
Hahahahahahaha


@me
Why are you laughing. The lady don give am c-caution wey turn his head.

Let him keep calling her. That's how people keep inviting trouble. When his marriage scatter he will come here to complain.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 11:06pm On May 16
Vision101:
@doggedfighter
Hahahahahahaha


@me
Why are you laughing. The lady don give am c-caution wey turn his head.

Let him keep calling her. That's how people keep inviting trouble. When his marriage scatter he will come here to complain.


Na vision u dey see so?

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Ginaz(f): 12:27am On May 17
daylay7:
Hi everyone,
I met this lady long time ago before I got married to my wife and we were in love back then. She refused me when I actually proposed to her and I moved on afterward but each time we were together, our love was quite evident in the air which became noticeable to people around us.
Eventually, I got married and we distant ourselves for the sake of both of us and then, we reduced our phone talks but we were still friends.
And now, each time we were opportune to talk on phone, the feelings keep coming back. It is irresistible! The day we eventually met, we almost make out but we got ourselves under control miraculously and we distant again for a while. The truth is I can't stop talking to her at least we don't even do that often as before.
What is wrong with me? i need help! What do I do?

You know what is wrong with you? Wanna know ? You’re a fool! You’re supposed to be married and act married , not fool around with a jezebel!

Divorce your poor wife and marry the whoreee jezebel so you can live happily ever after cos I prove to you that you will definitely fuvk her.

What I hate most is foolish adults who have no control. I was once in a tangled- affection war with someone who got married but immediately he married I deleted his number cos I won’t want another woman to cry cos her husband can’t get over her fellow woman.

It hurt to pieces knowing your husband is still in love with someone else while being married to you !!!!

I send love and light to your wife and I hope God spare her the trauma of finding out what you have been up to. Useless dick like you.

Modified **

To those mentioning me to ask why I’m angry, yes I am angry . He’s an adult and he’s married . Till people start to take their marital vows seriously then there won’t be children out in the streets, broken homes and no mentors to put them through tough life and life is tough .

Life is tough. You need to see kids having kids, no parental guidance, low self esteems children and its people like the O.P sometimes who set selfish interest ahead of their marital vows without fear of the future and effects to his kids .

I really hate shittt like this. And I don’t have to be married or have husband to feel this hurt .

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Ginaz(f): 12:30am On May 17
daylay7:

i did that once but I unblock her again

Pls don’t unblock her anymore. Fuvk her and have your fun, cos you’re still a kid right? That you can’t do the right thing despite it would affect your home.

Go on and feed the so called affection . I greatly detest men like you who hurt their wives intentionally.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by chlowi(f): 12:54am On May 17
Oh the comments in this thread ...damn

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by Expresswriter: 3:12am On May 17
You need sense to stop talking to her!

Bible said flee, yet you're still talking to her.

What do you expect? That you won't have feelings.

Na you know wetin you de find. Continue.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 3:50am On May 17
Ginaz:


Pls don’t unblock her anymore. Fuvk her and have your fun, cos you’re still a kid right? That you can’t do the right thing despite it would affect your home.

Go on and feed the so called affection . I greatly detest men like you who hurt their wives intentionally.

grin grin grin grin Relax Madam o. It is never what you think. I get your point anyway.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 3:52am On May 17
Bola146:
grin grin A typical Oniranu that is who you are. What if your wife is saying this. I pity those who still have feelings for their ex's, why not block all her means of communication It is well ooo undecided

grin grin grin Madam Bola. It is expected for some of you to fill this way. I just love the way you gurls personalized this story.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by bepositive11: 3:53am On May 17
Why didn't you marry her instead of your wife? It's a sad situation.

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Re: I Think I Am Still In Love With Her But I Need Help! by daylay7(m): 3:57am On May 17
Ginaz:


You’re such a fool , deranged and I spit on you. What the hell is wrong with men of these days? You are married ! You are fuvking married for God’s sake ! What on earth do you want? Is your wife not giving you pusssy? Doesn’t she kiss you? Doesn’t she moan and suck your useless dick enough?

You are a full grown adult and a grown man , ain’t you supposed to put your emotions in order? You want to whoreeee around with a jezebel in a disguise of “attraction and stupid feelings

Ask yourself and please put yourself in your wife’s shoe , if she was the one doing all this with an old flame , would you be happy? Why do you want to make This woman go through emotional trauma? Why did you marry her if you knew you couldn’t get control of yourself or won’t behaved like a grown married man?

Will you die if you delete that jezebel’s number ? Will your useless dick stop functioning if you do away with her? I spit vehemently on your soul and see let me tell you, you will get your karma soon if you don’t leave that bitchhh alone who wants to ruin your marriage and cause emotional trauma for your wife.

That bitch will burn in the hottest part of hell, alongside you. Spit! sad

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin See me see trouble ooo. I love the way you too took it personal. Nice one! Even in the mist of the pains you inflicted on your self, I still get your point.
Thanks

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