Omar09:


No doubt there are single mom with cash, and they are those I advice men to go for. As for this one on this thread, she's after money and you know it. Don't lie to yourself...

if you where a juge how fair is your judgment to this case?did she openly say she needed his money as a sign of responsibility? or you just as the rest is just assuming?

omale88:
if you where a juge how fair is your judgment to this case?did she openly say she needed his money as a sign of responsibility? or you just as the rest is just assuming?

Bro I am not assuming. What do you know is a man's responsibility in a family?

omale88:
Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

Fr33born:

Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

omale88:
Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

Omar09:


Bro I am not assuming. What do you know is a man's responsibility in a family?

a man's responsibility in the family is to guide and mentor the young ones through their chores to learn to make right choices and decisions in the future and offer protection.the role of a man is to provide when necessary.but this is a relationship let's not ditch the topic,In a relationship it is based on agreement or terms,a man can decide contribute to help financially or not based on what they agree.

Fr33born:

Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

Hahaha I thought you said you won't reply again.
Olodo rapata

omale88:
I was backing a point which you missed,the person I replied was saying this single mum was after his money,was only saying there are single mum's out there who are only looking for men who can help them father their children while in the relationship,which means responsibility,not him necessarily spending his own money.

you are very daft.. you should only talk based on situation on ground ( the discourse) .. you were not asked to cite examples( even if you were gonna do that , it should be in sync with what OP posted). judging by the chat up there, the lady in question is looking for a fatherly-figure for her children..and I'm sure you know what that comes with MOST ESPECIALLY.. so in the process of you trying to sound sensible, you stupidly exposed your ignorance.. deal with your folly first!

Comedian2019:

If it was the other way round, the man's children would be in serious trouble.

I swear down, she ll turn them to slaves in their father's house.

Fr33born:


You are the one that is very stupid and miserable. Illiterate fool.

infact, you get time to dey reason the dumbass who will go any length to justify his inanity.. I don dey read him comment from page 1.. rubbish!

Martinez39s:
Hmmmm. So in the beginning she hid her status as a single mother with three kids. She waited until she had gotten him in the strong web of the illusion called love (and probably great sex) before letting him know of her single-mom status. She hoped he would find it hard to leave the relationship (betray the love), and hence take responsibility of her and another man's three seeds. The bait and switch technique.

What a manipulative and bold lying bitćh! Sweet combination of shaming and victim playing. So taking care of another man's seeds is his responsibility? Refusing to take care of another man's seed and shoulder another man's burden is cowardly and hatred of responsibility? Oh my! Awww, the manipulative boldness of acting with all conviction that any man you date is responsible for your children (another man's seeds and responsibility).

If I were in this situation, I wouldn't bother explaining myself. I would just respond with laughing and taunting emojis, and reply with "that manipulation won't work on me. I will not raise another man's seed and deal with his leftover (you). Go sort yourself out." I would even post pictures of my bank statement and write "for me alone. Not for another man's seed and leftover. IF HE, OR THEY, ARE STILL ALIVE, GO AND SORT OUT THINGS WITH YOUR BABYDADDIES OR GO FIND WORK." I will then end it with more laughing and taunting emojis.


Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet, JONNYSPUTE, CAPSLOCKED, AstroG.... y'all should check out this thread.

Im too late to the party bro.

seanwilliam:
you are very daft.. you should only talk based on situation on ground ( the discourse) .. you were not asked to cite examples( even if you were gonna do that , it should be in sync with what OP posted). judging by the chat up there, the lady in question is looking for a fatherly-figure for her children..and I'm sure you know what that comes with MOST ESPECIALLY.. so in the process of you trying to sound sensible, you stupidly exposed your ignorant.. deal with your folly first!

no you are the son of a daft man and a deaf mother,so obviously you grew up stupid,if your mother could speak you would have learn not to curse in a conversation. fatherly figure? you are sure i know...what?are you talking to your grandfather?a feeble feet try to stand on words,sorry son try harder,patched Barack boy.

omale88:
no you are the son of a daft man and a deaf mother,so obviously you grew up stupid,if your mother could speak you would have learn not to curse in a conversation. fatherly figure? you are sure i know...what?are you talking to your grandfather?a feeble feet try to stand on words,sorry son try harder,patched Barack boy.

God bless you for justifying my assertion... daft entity

seanwilliam:
infact, you get time to dey reason the dumbass who will go any length to justify his inanity.. I don dey read him comment from page 1.. rubbish!

you hurt ba$tard retarded spokewheel,truth kills your kind,wait watch your bp rise crackhore.

seanwilliam:
God bless you for justifying my assertion... daft entity

tail between legs back to your foxhole thing.

seanwilliam:
infact, you get time to dey reason the dumbass who will go any length to justify his inanity.. I don dey read him comment from page 1.. rubbish!

Abi o. I come dey follow am dey mumu.
Thanks jare.

omale88:
a man's responsibility in the family is to guide and mentor the young ones through their chores to learn to make right choices and decisions in the future and offer protection.the role of a man is to provide when necessary. but this is a relationship let's not ditch the topic,In a relationship it is based on agreement or terms,a man can decide contribute to help financially or not based on what they agree.

@bolded above, begs the question;
Why is she sounding like it's a must that any dude who dates her must take care of her kids and be RESPONSIBLE for them (in your terms)? And why are you saying it like the dude didn't do right? Check bolded below.

omale88:
did she tell you she does not have a job?responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending, I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

It is well with single mothers.


And to the single unmarried ladies, be careful. Always insist your men wear condom before riding you, your future is always at stake.

Women bear more of the consequences of unprotected sex, be wise ladies, be wise and stop trying to be equal to men, men don't get pregnant!!

marlow1962:

My guy you're talking rubbish.
So I should be taking care of another man's children then the man will be somewhere enjoying emself and am here suffering,and besides what if the guy now marries her and no child for him.oga think about it before you start posting rubbish.

There are single women everywhere. If of them all the only one you choose is a mother of three, then do what it takes. Your mates are getting married you're there sleeping around. Oloshi!

Really funny. At least let the guy know you have kids and see if he will be willing to take all the assets and liabilities all together not trying to force responsibility or get offensive when they display red flag at such responsibilities. Times are difficult economically.

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maryam123:
Hahaha, this lady is funny!

omale88:
did she tell you she does not have a job?responsibility isn't about money it's about being involved in the important things not necessarily spending,I mean how can you be dating a woman who has a child and not know how to get along with her child? that's the responsibility I thing she is referring too,you are free to think otherwise. I've had similar experience it's not always about your money.

Mtcheeeew.

I told you most of these single mothers are sick...no jokes. This is how most of them think. Meanwhile the fathers of those kids are probably trying to see their kids and even take care of them...They'd rather alienate the fathers while the kids suffer rejection from other men. Sick things.

She's is even telling the guy that we men run away from responsibility
For God sake is he the owner of your children
Women just think we men are stupid like them

Omar09:


@bolded above, begs the question;
Why is she sounding like it's a must that any dude who dates her must take care of her kids and be RESPONSIBLE for them (in your terms)? And why are you saying it like the dude didn't do right? Check bolded below.

this is the last time I would reply to any post concerning this topic it's werisom,if you read my early comment I didn't say the guy was at fault and I didn't fault the lady,I only tried to say somthing that just because she talks about responsibility doesn't always have to mean financial support all the time,children need emotional support for balancing while growing up,a single mum may not understand a boy the way a man would do,if her son is behaving like a girl for example because he admires his mother and the mother seems to be concerned about what her son is growing up to be,then she would need male support to help mentor and influence her son to act like a man and not a woman,you dig? I didn't say she wasn't talking about money,I never said that,all I said was responsibility isn't always about money.because based on my experience o fathered a child for a woman and yes we where very close until I left lagos,our relationship wasn't about money,she needed emotional support and I gave her that when it was time for her to pack she was confident about love and life (hopeful),sometimes a man needs to think beyond his nose.

missimelda01:
One might be a mistake, 2 and above is unacceptable. Nice response from the man. Let her focus on training her children and leave men alone since it's not working for her.

Hey, you again.....

gradeA:



Hey, you again.....

Hey handsome

missimelda01:

Hey handsome

Sent you a pm, but you ignored.

Digmygold what do you have to say about this??

gradeA:


Sent you a pm, but you ignored.

You did? I'll send you a PM.

missimelda01:

You did? I'll send you a PM.

gradeA:


Sent you a pm, but you ignored.

Na dem

missimelda01:
One might be a mistake, 2 and above is unacceptable. Nice response from the man. Let her focus on training her children and leave men alone since it's not working for her.

What if she's a widow , does it still make it unacceptable