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Re: closed by AarewaMafia: 8:57am On Mar 26, 2020
Tell her to get a pregnancy test tool kit.Its cheap,plus it'll solve the problem of doubt,giving you a clear sight of the next line of action..sha stay away from pre marital sex next time.
Re: closed by Nobody: 8:57am On Mar 26, 2020
Sexytincoll:
Why would you want to abort an innocent foetus,there are risks involved.Be responsible for your actions

Unfortunately, I can't be responsible for now
Re: closed by Nobody: 8:58am On Mar 26, 2020
AarewaMafia:
Tell her to get a pregnancy test tool kit.Its cheap,plus it'll solve the problem of doubt,giving you a clear sight of the next line of action..sha stay away from pre marital sex next time.

Like how much does it cost?

I had sex that condom eve broke and notin like pregnancy with a lady b4 her.. So I am surprised
Re: closed by AfroKnight: 8:59am On Mar 26, 2020
ProfDview1:


Yes I didn't reuse any condom.. I used fresh condoms all tru... Even the one I wore and did use, I disposed it and didn't re use it.. I am always been careful with condoms...


BTW, don't wana hurt her with words even though I was sure That CD didn't leaked...



That’s most probably not your baby. But tell her to keep the child if she wants but let her know you’d conduct a paternity test right after delivery.
Re: closed by Nobody: 9:01am On Mar 26, 2020
AfroKnight:



That’s most probably not your baby. But tell her to keep the child if she wants but let her know you’d conduct a paternity test right after delivery.

Those word may hurt her if I tell her... Apart from. Her BF that they stopped dating last December, I don't think she had sex with anyone until we met this March... And she went home then..


I can't keep a child now. I can't for now...

Maybe abort it to avoid stories... Mehn, I can bring a child now that I am not okay.. I am not okay for now at all and I am not ready
Re: closed by AarewaMafia: 9:04am On Mar 26, 2020
ProfDview1:


Like how much does it cost?

I had sex that condom eve broke and notin like pregnancy with a lady b4 her.. So I am surprised



Its like 50 naira,no need to get the expensive one.You can find it at any chemist or tell her to buy it herself instead of waiting around,and remember, the earlier, the better.
Re: closed by AfroKnight: 9:12am On Mar 26, 2020
ProfDview1:


Those word may hurt her if I tell her... Apart from. Her BF that they stopped dating last December, I don't think she had sex with anyone until we met this March... And she went home then..


I can't keep a child now. I can't for now...

Maybe abort it to avoid stories... Mehn, I can bring a child now that I am not okay.. I am not okay for now at all and I am not ready

Hurt her? Lol. Women will hurt you for the smallest stupidest reasons. If she is hurt by your decision to determine the paternity of this child then so be it.

Also, let the woman decide if she wants an abortion or not. It’s her body and she bears the risk of death or complications. However, start gathering money for the test. No matter the urge, don’t sleep with her for the next 9 months, that’s if she decides to keep the baby.

Don’t let her feelings drive you to shoot yourself in the foot. Tell her you will conduct the test if she keeps the baby. If I were you, I’d insist on keeping the baby.

Also, do not agree to marry her before receiving a positive paternity result. This world is full of scheming women. They’d appeal to your pride as a man to get what they want. Be circumspect when dealing with women.
Re: closed by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 26, 2020
ProfDview1:
Wanna mention some of the ladies that are active here... I need your advice. Pls u guys shud not break my heart, you can ignore insult and give me good advice..

Jeweltz Beckysexy Jewessgratitudd Pocohantas sassysure


Has she done pregnancy test or she's just speculating?
Let her go buy #100 PT strip and do pt test at home before concluding.

Secondly, that her menses dalayed doesn't mean she's preggy. It could be a change in her cycle or a hormonal imbalance. So let her relax and wait until the end of this month, if she doesn't see it, she can see a doc.

Thirdly, to totally rule out the fact that you're responsible for it just in case she's preggy, I'll like to ask this few questions.

During pre-intimacy, did you play around her VJ without condom? Cos there's something called precum. that is the fluid that comes out from a mans p at pre-intimacy. It usually plain transparent fluid at the tip of the P and studies hsve shown it carries some spermatozoa and can swim from the surface of the VJ when the woman is wet and fertilize the egg. I have also seen someone it happened to.

So if you played around the outer part with a naked P, then there's possibility that you are the father. Otherwise you're not.

Hope this helps.
Re: closed by Nobody: 9:39am On Mar 26, 2020
Jewessgratitudd:



Has she done pregnancy test or she's just speculating?
Let her go buy #100 PT strip and do pt test at home before concluding.



OK, I will tell her



Secondly, that her menses dalayed doesn't mean she's preggy. It could be a change in her cycle or a hormonal imbalance. So let her relax and wait until the end of this month, if she doesn't see it, she can see a doc.

Thirdly, to totally rule out the fact that you're responsible for it just in case she's preggy, I'll like to ask this few questions.

During pre-intimacy, did you play around her VJ without condom? Cos there's something called precum. that is the fluid that comes out from a mans p at pre-intimacy. It usually plain transparent fluid at the tip of the P and studies hsve shown it carries some spermatozoa and can swim from the surface of the VJ when the woman is wet and fertilize the egg. I have also seen someone it happened to.


No.. This didn't happen. I am aware abt precum.. It didn't happen



So if you played around the outer part with a naked P, then there's possibility that you are the father. Otherwise you're not.

Hope this helps.


Yes it helped

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Re: closed by Nobody: 9:45am On Mar 26, 2020
If she should missed her period should April not now less she was already pregnant before seeing u.
Re: closed by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 26, 2020
[quote author=ProfDview1 post=87776082][/quote]

Okie's then. grin
Re: closed by Blakjewelry(m): 9:53am On Mar 26, 2020
ProfDview1:

Maybe 2 or 3 days
it's too early to panic na
Re: closed by Nobody: 10:02am On Mar 26, 2020
ProfDview1:
I will as much as possible to be straight and brief.

We had sex on 4th of March, used condom and I cum into the condom. Later on, we continued but on condom. 2nd and 3rd round, we used condom. She msgd me yesterday dt she missed her period, Mehn I am scared.
I disposed the condom myself and b4 disposing, I poured water in it to flush out th sperm and there was no sign of leakage..

How could she have missed her period? Mehn I am dumbfounded.. I am not ready for a baby for the next 3 to 4 years, not even now. That's why I used ccndom, instead I wud av dive in raw and watch it flow like a boss but I gat to be careful..
1. Was scared incase of any infection
2. I don't wantu hear any story like belle


Guys, I am confused so confused very confused.. I don't need a baby now, not now..

What could be happening?
What can be done if she is truly pregnant?
How can she be pregnant when we didn't have close raw contacts coz i wore a condom.


Pls b4 u shout Belle, note that I used condom all through... I didn't dive in raw at all. Notin flowed inside like a boss here. Plsssss


She broke up with her partner last year December as per what she told me... Ys what she told me..

And we had protected sex on March 4... Yes protected sex and I didn't think the condom leak coz I usually dispose condom by myself..


I will pour water to fill it and see if it leaking.. I didn't dt but notin leaked.. So I am surprised now


Mehn I am scared oooo. I don't see myself advising her to go abort it and at the Same time, Mehn, I aint ready for any of these.... No, not this time mehnnn..

Cc: Lalasticlala abeg help me push go front page

You didn't need advice before you bleeped her 3 times, how did your dick rise when you're not ready for pregnancy.

When you are doing it, you didn't realise you're not ready to be a father (your own child or someone else sold to you) but you are still approaching ladies, fucking them but don't want a result.

You're doing well, just call her to continue fucking. A missed period is more opportunities to have extra more round of sex.

She only said she missed her period not pregnant for you.

Na to just find where she keep the period now, no be her be the custodian of the period abi you're the one guiding the period ni.

Na she miss period abi na you.
Re: closed by ordainbuzz(m): 10:10am On Mar 26, 2020
I think she's has infections especially candida albican or yeast like infections. Go for lab testing
Re: closed by Nobody: 10:10am On Mar 26, 2020
azimo:
If she should missed her period should April not now less she was already pregnant before seeing u.


Hmm
Re: closed by Nobody: 10:11am On Mar 26, 2020
BestAccessories:


You didn't need advice before you bleeped her 3 times, how did your dick rise when you're not ready for pregnancy.

When you are doing it, you didn't realise you're not ready to be a father (your own child or someone else sold to you) but you are still approaching ladies, fucking them but don't want a result.

You're doing well, just call her to continue fucking. A missed period is more opportunities to have extra more round of sex.

She only said she missed her period not pregnant for you.

Na to just find where she keep the period now, no be her be the custodian of the period abi you're the one guiding the period ni.

Na she miss period abi na you.






I for laff but laff no dey come bro
Re: closed by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 26, 2020
ordainbuzz:
I think she's has infections especially candida albican or yeast like infections. Go for lab testing

OK sir
Re: closed by wizdomnzube(m): 10:52am On Mar 26, 2020
Bros she's not pregnant, but if she e be say she don gather belle den just know say nor be ur own.

This bitches ain't loyal.

Use ur head
Re: closed by Nobody: 11:27am On Mar 26, 2020
wizdomnzube:
Bros she's not pregnant, but if she e be say she don gather belle den just know say nor be ur own.

This bitches ain't loyal.

Use ur head

But she has seen her period before we met...

I just Dont get.. How come when condom no leak.. I was careful to make sure no mistake
Re: closed by OtotoC: 3:39pm On Mar 26, 2020
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post=87774285:
CONGRATULATIONS in advance to the latest incoming father and his baby mama of Nairaland!

We will celebrate the birth of your twins with you come December 2020.

We shall all hear the sound of twins and their mom in joy and happiness.

CONGRATS once again Baba Ejima! wink
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Re: closed by OtotoC: 3:39pm On Mar 26, 2020
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post=87774344:

Lol cheesy
That was a joke btw..

Now on a serious note......


Brb.......
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Re: closed by enuk80(m): 4:19pm On Mar 26, 2020
Op Listen carefully.

There are two things that may cause this..

1., She could either be pregnant

2. Her period may be delay due to stress or hormonal change.

Now, if no 1. is true, it means the pregnancy does not belong to you. She might have other fling elsewhere. Also, you said you used CD, there is no way the pregnancy is yours.

I remembered when my gf got pregnant for me, I was so confused because I asked myself how come. Me and my gf have been having raw sex for 2yr and she wasn't pregnant. Though, I used withdrawal method all the time and it worked for me.

I was surprise when she told me she was pregnant. I later realised that it might be that I may have cum inside her a little while I brought the rest cum out.

So, your case is different from mine because you used CD that did not break.

Ask her who is responsible for the pregnancy if truly she is pregnant.

For now, conduct a pregnancy test for her. The earlier the better.

Abortion is more safe in the first trimester... That's if conducted by a well specialise Doctor who can flush out the foetus with vacuum aspiration. I'm not advising you guys to do abortion. The choice is yours
Re: closed by Freelane33(m): 4:24pm On Mar 26, 2020
Daddy freezes, Baba ikoko lol , bruh go do test #1500
Re: closed by QuinModah(f): 4:28pm On Mar 26, 2020
sorry i dont do pm
Freelane33:
Daddy freezes, Baba ikoko lol , bruh go do test #1500
Re: closed by Freelane33(m): 4:38pm On Mar 26, 2020
QuinModah:
sorry i dont do pm
Re: closed by Nobody: 2:48pm On Mar 27, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
This is my default response to such insipid threads.


Start buying baby things.

start saving for the baby's upkeep.

God bless ur new Family.

Useless boy
Re: closed by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 27, 2020
enuk80:
Op Listen carefully.

There are two things that may cause this..

1., She could either be pregnant

2. Her period may be delay due to stress or hormonal change.

Now, if no 1. is true, it means the pregnancy does not belong to you. She might have other fling elsewhere. Also, you said you used CD, there is no way the pregnancy is yours.

I remembered when my gf got pregnant for me, I was so confused because I asked myself how come. Me and my gf have been having raw sex for 2yr and she wasn't pregnant. Though, I used withdrawal method all the time and it worked for me.

I was surprise when she told me she was pregnant. I later realised that it might be that I may have cum inside her a little while I brought the rest cum out.

So, your case is different from mine because you used CD that did not break.

Ask her who is responsible for the pregnancy if truly she is pregnant.

For now, conduct a pregnancy test for her. The earlier the better.

Abortion is more safe in the first trimester... That's if conducted by a well specialise Doctor who can flush out the foetus with vacuum aspiration. I'm not advising you guys to do abortion. The choice is yours

Thanks bro.. She was joking
Re: closed by Nobody: 2:51pm On Mar 27, 2020
BestAccessories:


You didn't need advice before you bleeped her 3 times, how did your dick rise when you're not ready for pregnancy.

When you are doing it, you didn't realise you're not ready to be a father (your own child or someone else sold to you) but you are still approaching ladies, fucking them but don't want a result.

You're doing well, just call her to continue fucking. A missed period is more opportunities to have extra more round of sex.

She only said she missed her period not pregnant for you.

Na to just find where she keep the period now, no be her be the custodian of the period abi you're the one guiding the period ni.

Na she miss period abi na you.

Thanks bro. She was joking. M. Kindly unquote and remove the quote sir

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