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How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Phate07(m): 4:40pm On Dec 28, 2010

How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship?
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:22am On Dec 29, 2010
TIME, TIME and more TIME!!!!
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by femmy2010(m): 10:23am On Dec 29, 2010
Hard but with time it sure can be regained.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Dyt(f): 10:29am On Dec 29, 2010
Always tell d truth
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by femmy2010(m): 10:34am On Dec 29, 2010
When trust is lost,its not always easy believing the truth was said.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by huntamania(m): 12:35pm On Dec 29, 2010
Thats going to be quite difficult oh.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Mudley313: 12:46pm On Dec 29, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

TIME, TIME and more TIME!!!!

this, and you need the active (and sincere) participation of both partners in rebuilding that trust
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by jaydeemib: 1:05pm On Dec 29, 2010
reminds me of hw my girl made me doubt her,
its been close to a year nw and we have broken up and made up thrice since then.
b4 d incident we neva broke up,
am still wit her, and i am trusting her back by d day, wit time we can always grow in trust.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by otukpo(f): 1:06pm On Dec 29, 2010
Work hard on it an with time, the trust will come back.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Iysayah(m): 1:22pm On Dec 29, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

TIME, TIME and more TIME!!!!
some partners just dont forgive, neither forget. Time only makes them stalkers- always suspecting you. better apart than compromised[b] trust[/b]. me think.

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Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by DAY12(m): 1:24pm On Dec 29, 2010
shocked

Heaven only knows
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by NeroPapas(m): 1:25pm On Dec 29, 2010
Regaining trust is like trying to heal a wounded flesh. It takes Time. Even when the wound is healed, the scar is there and it still requires lots of time for the scar to completely vanish.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Yorubah(m): 1:31pm On Dec 29, 2010
By telling the truth and nothing but the truth.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Angelfish1(f): 1:51pm On Dec 29, 2010
Be transparent and make yourself accountable. with time, things will be fine.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by OvieE: 2:14pm On Dec 29, 2010
It will only take time and time, and let your partner tell the truth.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by SisiKill1: 2:20pm On Dec 29, 2010
@Topic
How/Why was it lost in the first place?
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by cantell(m): 2:50pm On Dec 29, 2010
Phate07:


How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship?

You don't. Once you lose it, you've lost it forever.
Its like trying to join a torn rope.
You may join it together but the length is never the same again.
Sisi_Kill:

@Topic
How/Why was it lost in the first place?
Typical african.
Answering question with a question.
just answer the damn question or shush!
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by lonelypal(m): 2:58pm On Dec 29, 2010
Now this is a tough one, Make it a point of duty to be honest n truthfull henceforth. This goes for both parties
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Iysayah(m): 3:20pm On Dec 29, 2010
cantell:

You don't. Once you lose it, you've lost it forever.
Its like trying to join a torn rope.
You may join it together but the length is never the same again.Typical african.
Answering question with a question.
just answer the damn question or shush!
yeah, she is right to ask. how you lost the trust determines how soon you get it or if you will get it at all.
if you lost it by dating her friend, then MAYBE
if you lost it by dating her sister- FORGET IT
if you lost it by lying about your past- thats less trouble
the list is endless
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Omolola1(f): 3:22pm On Dec 29, 2010
if u've lost it, u can never regain it
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Iysayah(m): 3:28pm On Dec 29, 2010
Omolola1:

if u've lost it, u can never regain it
thats not true for all ladies/guys. some sincerely forgive. but if you meet a typical wiintch- forget it grin
just be truthful, ladies forgive more easily than guys. if he is a guy, then he will want to get back at you
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by chihakeem(m): 3:48pm On Dec 29, 2010
some partners just dont forgive, neither forget. Time only makes them stalkers- always suspecting you. better apart than compromised trust. me think.

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Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by oluagness(m): 3:51pm On Dec 29, 2010
When credibility is lost, it can hardly be regained. Toju iwa re
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by cantell(m): 4:01pm On Dec 29, 2010
oluagness:

When credibility is lost, it can hardly be regained. Toju iwa re
my point exactly.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by dankofa: 4:04pm On Dec 29, 2010
1. Maintain high level of integrity: that is, going forward, let your yes be yes and your no be no. What ever, you tell your partner must be the truth and found to be so.

2. Share your passwords to facebook, yahoo etc with your partner. This helps to show you have nothing to hide.

3. Don't be in the habit of hoarding your phone as to make your partner think you are trying to hide anything. Leave your phone at times with your partner.

4.Transparency. be opened. No secrets.

5. Pray.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by Nymphnode(m): 4:42pm On Dec 29, 2010
Iysayah:

yeah, she is right to ask. how you lost the trust determines how soon you get it or if you will get it at all.
if you lost it by dating her friend, then MAYBE
if you lost it by dating her sister- FORGET IT
if you lost it by lying about your past- thats less trouble
the list is endless

That will work for the simple minded ladies I presume, the once I roll with, Nah! Once you are out of the circle, dont expect to come back in. Be glad if she still want you as a friend and trust me at that point you are basically considered as dat. They stop caring if you lie or not. Thats the part where you dont matter no more
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by kingbru(m): 4:54pm On Dec 29, 2010
very difficult but possible,, I don't really know how undecided
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by SisiKill1: 4:58pm On Dec 29, 2010
cantell:

Typical african.
Answering question with a question.
just answer the damn question or shush!

Okay, here's another question. . . How big of an eediot are you? Don't answer that, it quite evident you don't have two brain cells to rub together or you'd know the question is a legitimate one. He must have done something to lose the trust, knowing what to do to correct it goes a long way to restoring the trust.

Does he lie to her? Does he cheat? Does he make promises he doesn't keep? Is he cagey about things? The key is to understand what made him lose her trust in the first place Everyone is saying give it time, give it time. . . What's the point of "giving it time" if the root of the problem isn't being addressed?!

Does it make sense to you now lame brain or do you want me to draw you pictures! Stupeeed!
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by SisiKill1: 5:19pm On Dec 29, 2010
Iysayah:

yeah, she is right to ask. how you lost the trust determines how soon you get it or if you will get it at all.
if you lost it by dating her friend, then MAYBE
if you lost it by dating her sister- FORGET IT
if you lost it by lying about your past- thats less trouble
the list is endless
Thank God! Someone with sense!!!

God Bless you!!

Dealing with numb skulls can be a pain, it's nice to have people like you who can think beyond the obvious.
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by MrCork2: 5:21pm On Dec 29, 2010
Phate07:


How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship?


Ask James Bond angry
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by jokingmary(m): 6:35pm On Dec 29, 2010
%Mr Cork:

Ask James Bond angry
U are wicked
Re: How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? by sexylogan(m): 9:19pm On Dec 29, 2010
Phate07:


How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship?

It's as easy as a camel passing through the eye of a needle. undecided

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