Regain Trust? long thing!

My partner said she has forgiven me but dt she wont forget. Where does this leave me (us)?
But b4 u kick me, it has nothing to do wt dating someone else nor cheating on her,

How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? Rule 1: Never break it in d first place; Rule 2: Read rule 1 again

REGAIN indeed

akbtunes:

How Does One Regain Trust In A Relationship? Rule 1: [b]Never break it in d first place; Rule 2: Read rule 1 again[/b]

LOL! Funny but true.

On the other hand, it's kind of redeundant since the person is asking how to REGAIN trust, not how to maintain it, and there's no point crying over spilled milk, is there?

only God knws,

just cry,go to a studio and sing "forgive me",don't eat,don't bath,put on sack clothe and pour ashes on ur head, wah lah!u'l be 4givn!If not?Move on!

@poster

Have you heard of St. Paul's second missionary journey? In summary, he was beheaded and thats what you will get if you do not back off rather than asking on how to regain trust in a broken relationship

Got an article on this topic on my blog that may be of interest to you guys. Check it out here; http://datingessays..com/2010/12/5-steps-on-how-to-build-trust-in.html

I personally don't think that trust lost can be regained, but with time many things can be possible.

TIME HEALETH ALL WOUNDS.
WITH TIME, TRUST CAN BE REBUILT AND THE PAST WILL BE FORGOTTEN FOR EVER.

@phate07, 2weeks to ur wedding and u are caught cheating on ur wife? that means u are not ready for the marriage cos u should be thinking of only ur wife at that time and the marriage plan. Kidding.
if she continue with the wedding she will trust u back, but, don't expect her to trust u before the wedding if she caught u 2 weeks to the wedding.
Trust can only be built with time.

you learn to trust but its one of the hardest thing to do

both patnr drawing close to God n 4geting the past

This thread is funny. Everybody is saying "what if she caught him" now lets reverse it to "what if you caught her" sleeping with somebody you have been suspecting and yet she kept denying it. and not just f u c k only but have been f u c k ing lol. what will you do? true life experience

Never lose your trust in the first place.

but if it's lost, how it was lost will put things in perspective. care to tell us how u lost yours?

take it from me, never

It really depends on the other person whose trust you ate trying to regain. With some people forget it , others you go work tire.

Sisi_Kill:

Okay, here's another question. . . How big of an eediot are you? Don't answer that, it quite evident you don't have two brain cells to rub together or you'd know the question is a legitimate one. He must have done something to lose the trust, knowing what to do to correct it goes a long way to restoring the trust.

Does he lie to her? Does he cheat? Does he make promises he doesn't keep? Is he cagey about things? The key is to understand what made him lose her trust in the first place Everyone is saying give it time, give it time. . . What's the point of "giving it time" if the root of the problem isn't being addressed?!

Does it make sense to you now lame brain or do you want me to draw you pictures! Stupeeed!

I think you're the one with the lame brain cos he may not have been in any relationship.
If he wants to know something, he doesn't have to be a part of it to know.
He may not be in a relationship but it crossed his mind and he thought he should ask.
His Question is, HOW DOES ONE REGAIN TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP?
He never said anything about being in relationship so you need to read and understand well before you run your mouth.
One more thing, tell your mama to teach you the home training lessons you skipped.

^^Nigerians, why can't you just post your contributions without resorting to name calling

lightest:

This thread is funny. Everybody is saying "what if she caught him" now lets reverse it to "what if you caught her" sleeping with somebody you have been suspecting and yet she kept denying it. and not just f u c k only but have been f u c k ing lol. what will you do? true life experience

Addendum, what if the very suspect kept f u c k ing her and eventually got her impregnated at the verge of her two weeks intended wedding schedule? and the suspect even denied the pregnancy when the truth was revealed, leaving the lady with no home she could call her's. true life experience

only the truth

@coolpapa

aye le but life goes on as they say

Broke up with my then fiancee in october because i couldnt bring myself to fully trust her again after i made some discoveries about her and one dude. The fact is, if they did it once, they'll do it again.

Sorry, you can't regain trust in any relationship. Its one of those things that are beyond human.

By never trusting anyone.
You should not trust yourself in the first place, not to mention another human being like yourself.
All are guiity till proven innocent. . . especially Nigerians who claim to be Christians.
Beware of the "Redeem" and "MFM" ones especially.

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Blazay:

By never trusting anyone.
You should not trust yourself in the first place, not to mention another human being like yourself.
All are guiity till proven innocent. . . especially Nigerians who claim to be Christians.
Beware of the "Redeem" and "MFM" ones especially.

What do you mean by Redeem and MFM ones This thread doesnt require anyone's opinion concerning churches. Dont cause wahala here oh!
About trust, it depends on what made the trust get lost in the first place. It takes time for a person to trust his / her partner but during that so called time, na doubt go wan kill the other person cos you'll start wondering what your spouse's doing. It's such a nasty experience. Every minute u think, your blood pressure goes up. You feel so uncomfortable yet you dont want the other person to feel you're trailing him / her so u dont call to find out where or what he/ she's doing. Its crazy!
Good thing is that it can be regained but you're gonna work your ass out to prove it!!!!

If one of my male friends asked me the question,  I would simply tell him to cover his tracks better next time. The truth is if you are the perpetuator you can never regain the trust, so instead of stressing yourself with all that building bridges crap either bounce out or continue as per usual.

If you are the injured party, you need to 'get even' and not wallow in self pity. This will at least lessen the blow of a betrayal.

And this final point applies mainly to women. Never ask your girlfriends to advise you on issues of trust with your bf/husband. They will only succeed in giving you the worst possible solutions, which will at first lead to confusion and ultimately failure.   

you must be honest to yourself and if you do that then and only then will you be trusted and trust in

trust is earned, its nothing you can buy, when you lose trust in somone it changes you anf them forever