Hello nairalanders ...
Its my first time posting I just need an advice...I just wonder why wat u desire sometimes hardly comes to u...
Okay so I met Guy A...2018...my sis actually introduced us..in fact she liked d guy cuz he was her husbands friend and colleague...tall dark handsome wit a good job and living comfortably...so d dude and I started talking at a point we dropped communication. ...cuz we weren't really communicating well..later on we started communicating again...before we knew it I started falling seriously for this guy ...lemme say I fell in love...not knowing d dude wasn't on d same page wit me...as at last year September he revealed to me that he needed to tell me d truth that he had a gf...I felt bad...I cried cuz I tot I had found d perfect man...this dude spends on me takes me out all d time ...tho he never introduced me 2 any of his friends as his Babe...I didn't care tho I was just blinded by love...he does everything at my bec and call...wen I found out about his gf who he even claimed to love ...I was devastated...he started telling me to move on...that am meant to be d center of another mans world...I deserve a man who will worship d ground I walk on...etc...but he still helps me wit my upkeeps ..calls me to check up on me sends me money wen I need and invites me on dates.....so as at December last year i met someone else ...very.tall dark and averagly handsome he isn't from my tribe tho....he doesn't have much tho.he had but had financial relapse..but he tries his best to impress me...he doesn't have good oral English cuz he grew up in another state...he shows me love like no other ...always introducing me to anyone he knows as his babe...calls me all d time..d problem is am trying to love him...but My heart is still lingering for Guy A who I met earlier...why cant one just have it all in life..love d one in which u desire...

I will be back

Because no one knows tomorrow

Rozaytee:
Hello nairalanders ...
Its my first time posting I just need an advice...I just wonder why wat u desire sometimes hardly comes to u...
Okay so I met Guy A...2018...my sis actually introduced us..in fact she liked d guy cuz he was her husbands friend and colleague...tall dark handsome wit a good job and living comfortably...so d dude and I started talking at a point we dropped communication. ...cuz we weren't really communicating well..later on we started communicating again...before we knew it I started falling seriously for this guy ...lemme say I fell in love...not knowing d dude wasn't on d same page wit me...as at last year September he revealed to me that he needed to tell me d truth that he had a gf...I felt bad...I cried cuz I tot I had found d perfect man...this dude spends on me takes me out all d time ...tho he never introduced me 2 any of his friends as his Babe...I didn't care tho I was just blinded by love...he does everything at my bec and call...wen I found out about his gf who he even claimed to love ...I was devastated...he started telling me to move on...that am meant to be d center of another mans world...I deserve a man who will worship d ground I walk on...etc...but he still helps me wit my upkeeps ..calls me to check up on me sends me money wen I need and invites me on dates.....so as at December last year i met someone else ...very.tall dark and averagly handsome he isn't from my tribe tho....he doesn't have much tho.he had but had financial relapse..but he tries his best to impress me...he doesn't have good oral English cuz he grew up in another state...he shows me love like no other ...always introducing me to anyone he knows as his babe...calls me all d time..d problem is am trying to love him...but My heart is still lingering for Guy A who I met earlier...why cant one just have it all in life..love d one in which u desire...

because a guy rejected you you cried now you see why it is said women cannot handle rejection but you guys reject 99% of guys that come you way and to us rejection is normal .women s.m.h

Bros no disturb us this night abeg

Mkmoney:
Bros no disturb us this night abeg

Laughing........

Cos the unattractive pit might be a smooth express road covered with irritable to dissuade human... only the wise will be able to endure.

Secondly, we must learn to "GBEJE FUN ORI"

Mkmoney:
Bros no disturb us this night abeg

mumu no body beg for ur comment go sleep abeg

at least he owned up to u dat he had a babe nau..abi na sidechick u for prefer to be?
u would get other tall dark handsome guys with good job

dem full street

From your description of guy A, I can see that you're looking for the perfect mugu; one who'd be at your beck and call. Guy B isn't much of that, so you're not comfortable with him. Now, let me tell you: Guy A knows the kind of person you are and what you want, and that's why he wouldn't wife you. He would rather have you as a sidechick or a pal. Consider his opening up to you a huge favour. The reason he didn't do that earlier is because he was checking you out. And now, he knows where to place you.
You ladies can be funny sometimes. You think guys don't keep options too? While you where busy being Queen Elizabeth, he was checking you out. And even after he told you he has a girlfriend, you still taxed him for upkeep of yourself.

You can't eat your cake and have it... Anyway, good luck on your search for the perfect mugu who will always be at your beck and call.

With your story, you already have the answer to your question.
That's life for you. You can't everything you desire.