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Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by robosky02(m): 8:32pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
A single mother ( or parent ) is a person who lives with a child or children and who does not have a spouse or live-in partner. Reasons for becoming a single parent include divorce, break-up, abandonment, death of the other parent, childbirth by a single woman or single-person adoption. Single motherhood has become a part of our society with some coming out successful while some sink down due to stigmatization So ladies in the house share your experience or give a word to a single mother Source: Robosky02 Lalasticlala mynd44 1 Share
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Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by robosky02(m): 8:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Sometimes some slay mama's are mistaken as single mother's Is there any differences |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Jobiski(m): 8:56pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
There is no difference |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by robosky02(m): 8:58pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Lamanii22(f): 10:15pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
I'm gonna share on behalf of my sister.... In life, education is important... Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from going to school, my sister got pregnant when she was about to finish her ND, She told my mom, she was devastated but she Just had to live with it, my mom then told my dad, and he was like she should get married ASAP, but my mom never agreed to that... She was like she can't give her daughter out just like that and that my sister must finish her HND, then they can get married afterwards.... Meanwhile the guy that got her pregnant also attended the same school with her, he was in his finals then, he was like he is not the owner of the child blah blah blah, that it was just once they did and that it was more like a quickie... He was like he is gonna do DNA... He stopped keeping in touch, things were kind of hard and we had not bought babystuffs, when my sister was 6months pregnant he sha sent her some money to buy stuffs, my sister gave birth via CS, He paid up the bills too... He had apologized then... Everything was okay between them. Until I saw a post about a baby through his WhatsApp status, I was jokingly asking that who's this baby, he was like he is the owner, he further posted his engagement picture... He probably had blocked my sister so she couldn't see it... I didn't know what to do, I think I told my brother so he could share the news to my mom and my other siblings... My mom almost had an heart attack, she cursed him oo, oh! The pain of a mother.. I thank God my sister went back to school , she finished her HND successfully, came out with 2nd class honors(upper division) with the help of my mom, she served, she got retained, she currently applied for ICAN.. Her child would be 6 in July... The guy recently chatted her saying he came in peace that he is sorry, that he doesn't want another man to take care of his child blah blah blah... 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Stacyomolola(f): 10:34pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Lamanii22:I say amen to all the curses poured on him Some men are pathetic 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Lamanii22(f): 10:43pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Stacyomolola: I swear... Those times were dark times for my sister, she cried almost every night... Thank God for the kind of mom we had, she really was there for her.. And my sister really loved him, his love really captured her... She's really an independent person, she just fell into the wrong hands... 7 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by robosky02(m): 9:11am On Mar 30, 2020 |
Lamanii22: Wow stuff like this happens But the good thing is she didn't drop out from school, and thanks to wonderful mother you have that was supportive. Mother will disown their daughter's till they get confused and abort and losses their womb 2 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by coolestofall(m): 10:30am On Mar 30, 2020 |
Never have unprotected sex outside marriage them no go hear. 10 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by AstroG: 11:39am On Mar 30, 2020 |
Guys,never ever in your life toll the road of marrying a Single mother f ur not responsible for the pregnancy. A Word is Enough For the Wise 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Alfather: 8:13pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
is realy hard for single mum to get marraid this days 2 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:30pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
How does a woman live alone and cope, o ga o |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by U1(m): 9:42pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:I'm happy you added that word. |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Lamanii22:That's life But your sister isn't serious in the first place sent to school and got pregnant 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Nobody: 9:49pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:Wetin men do now It is women that should use their head not to fall for cheap scope from all this guy |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Martinez39s(m): 9:50pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person go school, e come dey climb diçks without protection. Beside, there is no way to be sure your story is complete and devoid of any bias and misrepresentation. Your sister is not a victim; she is not a hero. She is just carrying the cross she created for herself. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Lamanii22(f): 9:53pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS: Anything can happen... She's serious minded.. She only fell in love... |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Lamanii22(f): 9:58pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Martinez39s: This is not war/blame against gender .... It's just the struggle of being a single mom... And my point is pregnancy shouldn't stop a girl from furthering her education... Lots of parents have disown their girl child cause of this.... 6 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Nobody: 10:06pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
robosky02:That's true But I still blame the girl Your parents sent you to school so you gonna make headway in life and you got pregnant That shows how uncultured you are I know a girl back then in school She can play like we boys that is she can play anyhow with you So one day we are outside playing as usual and one of my guy just touch her in the ass Come and see slap I was shocked the guy later apologize to her and it all ended there So the following day I told her about the scene that happened yesterday that she really caused a movie scene What she told me was that Playing with us doesn't mean she' lost her dignity Now tell me this one now say she got pregnant Her mom was supportive bla bla bla I know a wicked neighbor of mine that will make life miserable for her and her baby nonsense 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Nobody: 10:12pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Martinez39s:How I wish I can give you 5O likes Bro help me tell am That shows how useless and uncultured she is Supposing it's my mom walai she will regret herself 2 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by futuregovernor: 10:15pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:No be everybody curse dey catch. If you mumu open ur leg for a random man,stuffs like this happened,then u come dey curse am. mtchhhhh,e no dey work 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Nobody: 10:16pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Something keep telling me it your story just trying to add your sister to it 4 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Martinez39s(m): 10:35pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Lamanii22:Errrrm... I wasn't engaging in a gender war. You are just seeing things. I have nothing against your sister, I was just a bit disappointed that she played silly games and won stupid prizes. Her situation could have been avoided with sheer common sense and self-control... anyway, śhit happens. An additional lesson (which happens to be the best) one can learn from her case is to be careful when making choices and to consider the long term consequences of one's decisions. Beside, not every parent would lenient as yours. I wish your sister and her child all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Nobody: 11:07pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS:thank u |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Lamanii22(f): 11:55pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Okay... Thank you anyways.. 1 Like |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Lamanii22(f): 12:00am On Apr 01, 2020 |
ZINIBANKS: It's my sister's really... |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Atom007(m): 6:42am On Apr 01, 2020 |
Lamanii22: I have interest in her case. Can we talk in private....my mail is above. 1 Like |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Vega100: 7:08am On Apr 01, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:Those things don't work sear, forget it. |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Vega100: 7:14am On Apr 01, 2020 |
AstroG:Any sensible guy knows this... That was how one girl, sweet fine girl hid it from me, we got to know for a little over a month, she was about 24 then, the first day we had sex I just knew something wasn't right at all... incidentally I got to her phone, saw her chats affirmed she had a boy (from a school BF, u can imagine, no be even better person) , I just told her to dress up I want to take her to her house I insisted, she dressed , I took her to her house, after telling her all my new findings about her. Dropped her at her house, that was the last she heard from me, or we saw, after calling me unsuccessfully, she adviced herself... That's the way my brother., everybody bear your cross and carry the consequences of your action, not delegating it to another man, life doesn't work like that. 5 Likes |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Kingarthur21: 8:13am On Apr 01, 2020 |
AstroG:Dude what is problem?are you mentally stable?are you aware you derailed this thread?kindly read before commenting. Martinez39s:Hey bro,why does the mention of SM gets you triggered?do they haunt you? Will heaven fall if you don't stay clear off this thread? The title is to share success story,no one is talking about marrying them or if they are good,the point of this thread is to encourage them to still pursue their education and don't quit their dreams. Your input was not necessary,you are derailing this thread. Like you promised Capslocked,open a thread talking of the demerits of SM or start a say no to single mothers movement but don't come spoil this thread . This has become trolling. This is so petty,you missed the entire point of this story because you have a passion for pulling those ladies down and heaping blame. My joy is that both mum and baby are safe and that she made a second class honours,you had to pour your negative vibes. The thread is for women strictly,have some dignity please. Please don't bother replying Martinez,I have classified you as someone who is "disturbed".,you are very brilliant,but you are investing your brains in gender bigotry. Not matter how you hide your misogyny it is crystal clear you are one,I know you sugarcoat it with seemingly "speaking the truth" or "saying things as it is" but I wonder how one will invest his time and effort and data into all this gender stuffs,the negative one for that manner,seek help before whatever malady/absurd passion that is bothering you destroy you,you have a bright future indeed,all this distractions are doing you no good,even though you believe so. You are still young,so I guess all this will end soon. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single Motherhood: Share Your Experiences, Challenges And Success Stories by Martinez39s(m): 8:58am On Apr 01, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:I hope you didnt create a new account just to respond to me. If you did, it's a waste of time because I don't care what you think. Don't take medicine over my illness. It's best you start ignoring me because I ain't gonna change. 7 Likes 1 Share
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