Don't know that love is too hard to find.

The last time I was in a serious relationship was like years ago. These days, I find myself craving for something serious, I've searched online and offline yet to no avail.

Last year, I hooked up with someone here, she said lets start with friendship, after some weeks she just oblitrated, even when I sent her card of 1k she never called to acknowledge receipt of it, I just had to cut my loss and move on.

This year, I met another one here, It took off very well, but later got cold, noticed she developed cold feet, it shatttered me once more as I was willing and ready.

I don't know what else to do, work is boring, life is boring, too many contacts yet, few friends.

Is it a crime to seek something serious and fall in love?

You need to love yourself first before others can love you

Don't even try to use money to buy love

Now back to your Question

After this lockdown make sure you meet minimum of 1 girl every day be it offline or online

You will pass this phase na you go dey run for women later

A deep person in a shallow world. What's yours will find you.

XhosaNostra:
A deep person in a shallow world. What's yours will find you.

Thanks for d compliment, I hope so.

It is what it is. When you want something solid and permanent, you'll have to wait it out. Enjoy yourself, love will come.

There's nothing like genuine romantic love from a woman; all you have is sexual attraction and transactional relationships. The frustration you are having is similar to the frustration many gullible christians who pray to God for healing or a financial turnaround have. You can't acquire what isn't there.

excuse me sir you said you came to nairaland forum to find serious girls.

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Obingene:
Don't know that love is too hard to find.

The last time I was in a serious relationship was like years ago. These days, I find myself craving for something serious, I've searched online and offline yet to no avail.

Last year, I hooked up with someone here, she said lets start with friendship, after some weeks she just oblitrated, even when I sent her card of 1k she never called to acknowledge receipt of it, I just had to cut my loss and move on.

This year, I met another one here, It took off very well, but later got cold, noticed she developed cold feet, it shatttered me once more as I was willing and ready.

I don't know what else to do, work is boring, life is boring, too many contacts yet, few friends.

Is it a crime to seek something serious and fall in love?

Start by deleting all your contacts, leave only the business partners. Start all over again.

Don't go looking for love bro, let love find you.. sometimes you find what you seek in the unlikeliest of places...Be open, make more friends, have fun, go out more often.... Don't always start up with the mindset that you desperately need to find love, start up on a platonic note, i mean friendship level cos by so doing you not only find love but true friends who make up for the emptiness you feel inside...Lastly work more on yourself, women are attracted to men who let out an inspiring aura, it holds them spell bound..

God is telling u to wait.Ur dream girl will locate u at d right time.Dnt rush into any relationship.

Everyday I visit Romance section after a hectic day...


Not to learn.
But to ease myself reading people's relationship Lamentations.
There is always a Nairalander to lament
And they never learn.

Maybe you're a boring person because in your lamentations, you met another girl this year, after giving you the green light, she suddenly developed cold feet?

Ask yourself why they are all leaving.

Obingene:
Don't know that love is too hard to find.

The last time I was in a serious relationship was like years ago. These days, I find myself craving for something serious, I've searched online and offline yet to no avail.

Last year, I hooked up with someone here, she said lets start with friendship, after some weeks she just oblitrated, even when I sent her card of 1k she never called to acknowledge receipt of it, I just had to cut my loss and move on.

This year, I met another one here, It took off very well, but later got cold, noticed she developed cold feet, it shatttered me once more as I was willing and ready.

I don't know what else to do, work is boring, life is boring, too many contacts yet, few friends.

Is it a crime to seek something serious and fall in love?

Probably you were expecting too much from them

Or you are not looking for your class

Or you are being too regird for relaxation


Or your are too traditional, authoritatively or too commanding

Look deep into your self with the above mentioned attitudes that women don't like in men

ambivert27:
Maybe you're a boring person because in your lamentations, you met another girl this year, after giving you the green light, she suddenly developed cold feet?

Ask yourself why they are all leaving.

Do you mean he must provide some sort of entertainment for them so that they won't leave?

OP, when you find the partner that is meant for you, you won't have to jump through any hoops or try so hard before it'll happen. A genuine relationship will flow naturally with equal efforts from both you and your partner. Stop trying too hard.

Obingene:
Don't know that love is too hard to find.

The last time I was in a serious relationship was like years ago. These days, I find myself craving for something serious, I've searched online and offline yet to no avail.

Last year, I hooked up with someone here, she said lets start with friendship, after some weeks she just oblitrated, even when I sent her card of 1k she never called to acknowledge receipt of it, I just had to cut my loss and move on.

This year, I met another one here, It took off very well, but later got cold, noticed she developed cold feet, it shatttered me once more as I was willing and ready.

I don't know what else to do, work is boring, life is boring, too many contacts yet, few friends.

Is it a crime to seek something serious and fall in love?

Don't give up yet.

You're on a journey, allow people who doesn't want to be part of that trip alight at the nearest bus stop but never stop keep moving.

You keep failing forward, keep walking and never get too attached so soon to any lady.

You also need to re-access and re-evaluate yourself, what you need, where to meet them and a common ground.

Remember, all girls are in a relationship (kind of) and never ever force a lady that doesn't want to stay to stay with you.

Never give up. Discover yourself first and finding the right lady that would complement you becomes very easy.

Until you find yourself, you can't find a girl that would complement you.

The problem is that you neglect those low class girl you see on the street, they are the good wife material you are looking for. Meet them polish them to your taste and see wonders.

Obingene:
Don't know that love is too hard to find.

The last time I was in a serious relationship was like years ago. These days, I find myself craving for something serious, I've searched online and offline yet to no avail.

Last year, I hooked up with someone here, she said lets start with friendship, after some weeks she just oblitrated, even when I sent her card of 1k she never called to acknowledge receipt of it, I just had to cut my loss and move on.

This year, I met another one here, It took off very well, but later got cold, noticed she developed cold feet, it shatttered me once more as I was willing and ready.

I don't know what else to do, work is boring, life is boring, too many contacts yet, few friends.

Is it a crime to seek something serious and fall in love?

Maybe you should try another approach, dnt give up bruv!

the girl u sent 1k recharge card to was it a nairaland girl?
if its a nairaland girl then oga sorry to break it to u its probably a dude u sent it to pretending to be female
majority of the female monikers u see here are guys so dont be fooled

Omar09:


Start by deleting all your contacts, leave only the business partners. Start all over again.

Why should I?

lefulefu:
the girl u sent 1k recharge card to was it a nairaland girl?
if its a nairaland girl then oga sorry to break it to u its probably a dude u sent it to pretending to be female
majority of the female monikers u see here are guys so dont be fooled

Not a guy, we talked on d phone and on watsap.

Obingene:


Why should I?

Cause they're all useless

Omar09:


Cause they're all useless

You are not wrong.