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Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by dre11(m): 10:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
Mrs. Florence Ajimobi, the wife of former Governor Abiola Ajimobi of Oyo State has said she caught her husband having an affair on two occasions.

Mrs. Ajimobi said this while speaking with her daughter, Bisola in a video which was posted on Instagram.

According to Florence, when most men cheat, it is just about sex and nothing more.

Mrs. Ajimobi said, “Even on one or two occasions that I caught him cheating, he will apologise and once he apologises and it ends, I never go back to them (the issues) again. I never, Bisola because what I’m saying is to err is human, to forgive is divine.

“We are friends. Even as a wife, sometimes I fall below his expectations. Sometimes we do something worse than cheating.”

When asked what could be worse than having an affair, Mrs. Ajiombi responded, “There are some women that build houses without their husbands knowing. It is as bad. Why would you do such a thing without telling him? So, there are different things we do. It is not only cheating that is bad in a relationship.”

Florence, who is a grandmother, said as a wife, she also offends her husband and sometimes does not have the courage to see him in person.

The former Oyo first lady said if a husband is caught having an affair, the wife should forgive and not overreact.

She added, “Most men when they cheat they just have sex with the woman but when a man is having relations with a woman he loves, he is making love, it is not about sex. So, if you are cheap enough, give yourself to my husband, he is mine. He will never go away. He will come back. You are eating left over because I have eaten the better part of him.”

Mrs. Ajimobi said it was not reasonable to divorce a man just for cheating, adding that violence should be the only reason for
She added, “The point I will opt for divorce is when it becomes violent. And I cannot take that. But I don’t buy divorce because I look at my background… My mother never married my father. I was born out of wedlock. I grew up with my mum and stepfather. It is not the best for any child.

“So, even before I got married, I made up my mind that this union called married would be forever.”

Florence said domestic violence is sometimes caused by women.

She said women sometimes say horrible things to their husbands and don’t know when to stop

She said, “Sometimes I know I have said horrible things to my husband and I see the look on his face. Before it goes further, I just lock myself in the toilet and he would ask me to come out and I will make him promise me that he will not touch me before I come out.

“You tell a man some horrible things and they get angry and worked up. So, I want us to learn from that and learn what we say because an angry man cannot control himself. Neither can an angry woman control her words

“So, sometimes we provoke the men to that level but when you know you’ve done it, don’t let any man beat you. Don’t allow it.”

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Tissaia(f): 10:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
Women prefer men who have something tender about them – especially the legal kind. ~Kay Ingram

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by GOFRONT(m): 10:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
Chaiii....Florence, what a sweet MILF.

Btw, Men are polygamous in Nature...

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Topleague(m): 10:17pm On Apr 08, 2020
good point ma

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Reichel99(f): 10:32pm On Apr 08, 2020
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by leaculpa: 10:35pm On Apr 08, 2020
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Goodcare(m): 10:35pm On Apr 08, 2020
Children easily forgive and forget

As a matter of fat If you want to enjoy your marriage you must learn how to forgive your partner......

Please check my status for any of your I.T SOLUTIONS

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by edoairways: 11:03pm On Apr 08, 2020
Goodcare:
Children easily forgive and forget

As a matter of fat If you want to enjoy your marriage you must learn how to forgive your partner......

Please check my status for any of your I.T SOLUTIONS
Most men say this to women but do they forgive cheating wife? Can they stand a cheating wife at all?

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by NobleAngell(f): 11:05pm On Apr 08, 2020
Truth is, our parents endured alot just to keep their home. But we kids of nowadays are looking for the perfect man, home and circumstances.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by JosEast(m): 11:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
hmmm

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Cruzzygraphics4: 11:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
Lalasticala

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by SharonLoveth(f): 12:01am On Apr 09, 2020
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Evablizin(f): 12:07am On Apr 09, 2020
leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.
wink

Cheers.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Tomide007: 12:12am On Apr 09, 2020
She makes sense...But i think that the only time where Its easy to forgive is if its both sides that cheat.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Superwave: 12:16am On Apr 09, 2020
Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Marry first now

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.
Evablizin:
wink

Cheers.

Dem no de tell man, make una marry first.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Evablizin(f): 12:24am On Apr 09, 2020
Superwave:


Marry first now



Dem no de tell man, make una marry first.
If we marry first wetin go happen last?

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Nobody: 5:45am On Apr 09, 2020
Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.
Better stay UNMARRIED.
In Fact remove marriage from your plans.
That's the only way to avoid anything called MAN.

OPTIONS FOR YOU are:
U can cleave to your gender.
Get a Plastic diick.
Or U can put up with a Cucumber or Male Mannequin.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by helinues: 5:54am On Apr 09, 2020
As if you had any choice..

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by JAMO84: 6:17am On Apr 09, 2020
I am not for cheating, but if you divorce a man for cheating, what would you do if he marries another woman? would you kill him!

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Ishilove: 6:21am On Apr 09, 2020
This is deep-

She added, “Most men when they cheat they just have sex with the woman but when a man is having relations with a woman he loves, he is making love, it is not about sex. So, if you are cheap enough, give yourself to my husband, he is mine. He will never go away. He will come back. You are eating left over because I have eaten the better part of him.”

It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers angry

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by kingphilip(m): 6:40am On Apr 09, 2020
SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad
I guess you're a razor then that sharpens the pencil

Would have loved to reply the men part you talked about but lemme not bring your dad into this

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by GreenArrow1(m): 6:58am On Apr 09, 2020
leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

It's doing you one kind as if you should just kee somebody abi? That level of vex is the most high. Calm down. Na she get her mouth.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by potbelly(m): 7:09am On Apr 09, 2020
She forgave him cos he's a rich nigga...

Will she have done same if the man no hold bar? undecided

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Cheryph200(m): 7:31am On Apr 09, 2020
See better woman

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by SharonLoveth(f): 7:40am On Apr 09, 2020
kingphilip:
I guess you're a razor then that sharpens the pencil

Would have loved to reply the men part you talked about but lemme not bring your dad into this

You are a sad strange little man, and you have my pity.

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by thelinguist: 7:43am On Apr 09, 2020
That is her view and I respect her for that, however if you cheat on me, we are done!

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by thelinguist: 7:44am On Apr 09, 2020
potbelly:
She forgave him cos he's a rich nigga...

Will she have done same if the man no hold bar? undecided

Hope you know she is not porr.. In fact her parents hold better bar...

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by potbelly(m): 7:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Bar more than a governor who did two terms?
Just asking sir...
thelinguist:


Hope you know she is not porr.. In fact her parents hold better bar...

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by potbelly(m): 7:55am On Apr 09, 2020
So daddy is a pen?
SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

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Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by potbelly(m): 7:56am On Apr 09, 2020
Baba you dey see things sha...
leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.
Re: Florence Ajimobi: My Husband, Abiola Cheated Twice And I Forgave Him by Hoephase: 7:58am On Apr 09, 2020
Twice that you know of. grin grin

She is still a learner your husband is a free giver ooh. grin

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