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Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by NextBuhari: 8:53am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Idoma women are alpha females. Very common to see them exert dominance and control over their husbands. 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Nobody: 8:54am On Apr 10, 2020 |
NobleAngell: �� |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by NextBuhari: 8:54am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Idoma women are alpha females. Very common to see them exert dominance and control over their husbands. It's clear the man isn't in charge of his home. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by alhaji04: 8:58am On Apr 10, 2020 |
donbachi:baba, abeg no make me laugh lol. some of us our mama no dey take shiit. na only eye look o, u don fetch 2 drums.. lol |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Mummymahdi(f): 8:59am On Apr 10, 2020 |
The wife is the biggest contributor to this. It depends on how she regards her husband, the level of respect matters . the kids are seeing him ow his wife regards him. Himself has failed in training the kids. At 6 to 7years each child should have a specific work to be doing for the family each day 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Justbehave(m): 9:02am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Mummymahdi:NICE ONE. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Trovet: 9:04am On Apr 10, 2020 |
[quote author=Fortissimo502 post=88260281]Mind your business. [P/quote] Onye Ara!!! |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Nehemz(m): 9:10am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Some old men like doing some work by themselves but, ask one of the child why are they not helping there parents. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by smokeyupu(m): 9:28am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Its not normal. I'm Idoma and its proper or acceptable for this to happen. He must be under a spell. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by dododawa1: 9:36am On Apr 10, 2020 |
If you believe this story,you are the man. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by valirex: 9:44am On Apr 10, 2020 |
[s] Micky002:[/s] So what's your business. Stupid Nigerians like you will never mind their business that's why you are still a tenant, nonsense. in northern Nigerian it's mostly the men who sell at the market and their women are at home. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by DesChyko: 9:54am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Some men are like that. I know an Igbo man. House chores to him are nothing. He sweeps the compound, washes the clothes of every member of the family, mop house floors, general house chores e.t.c. Note, the children are not lazy. They also fetch water and do various home stuffs but he enjoys doing these things. Does them with a smile. Sometimes, I take some bottles of beer to go keep him company and he gists happily all the while. He has a job though, yet this doesn't stop him from doing this while at home. The lesson here is, life doesn't come with an instruction manual. Do your thing how it gives you joy to. 2 Likes |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by crackland: 9:59am On Apr 10, 2020 |
bukhety:Apart from helping out, she could also be talking to the children to not sit around and watch their aged father do all that work. But of course, she has a hand in the matter. No doubt about it. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Dshocker(m): 10:04am On Apr 10, 2020 |
veave: They could kill him,so its best he/she mind their business |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by zoedew: 10:06am On Apr 10, 2020 |
NobleAngell: I got the first of two slaps ever I got in life from my mum who won’t take nonsense from any of us she raised in our home! At 14 I could make smooth Amala for a family of five! Today am better of for the home training she gave me! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Efiko(m): 10:10am On Apr 10, 2020 |
chii8:This is not a prayer problem plssssssss; Not all problems are prayer problem. A visit from one respected no-nonsense uncle/anty will fix this shit permanently |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Heavance(m): 10:24am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Bluehill1051:Please ban this your opinion... Please do as fast as possible He has irresponsible children, and your opinion is thinking he should help irresponsible children? Probably he didn't let them grow doing chores, or there is more than meet the eyes. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Myself2(m): 10:36am On Apr 10, 2020 |
starbuck: Apart from that, as long as the wife is still alive, then look no further for the source of that problem. She has gone to tie the husband in the spirit realm and turned him to her slave 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by chii8(f): 10:43am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Efiko: And you think that the best way to solve family issues is violenceOk ooo, anyway, this is nairaland. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by sweetrace(f): 10:53am On Apr 10, 2020 |
AFONAMARO: I actually weep for you. You’re obviously not refined, well brought up or well schooled. Instead of coming to Nairaland to wail, if he is so concerned, he should help the man. Maybe the kids will join. Olofofos who can’t mind their business but keep looking for entertainment in the lives of others. Don’t bother with your uncouth response as I won’t read it. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Jadeng: 10:53am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Micky002: I am from that area and I am telling you that, this is NOT normal ! 1. Is his wife of same tribe too? Cus a lot of gold diggers and expert in tying their husbands o! 2. This man could be going through hell at home and the children may have taken sides with their mother due to brainwash. I am sure if you go close to the man and he opens up, you will be shocked. The resultant effect of this, is the children will turnout very bad in society and would not be able to handle marriage. 4. If I were in your position, I will gladly offer to help him fetch the water and do his laundry in the presence of his useless children ! No need engage them in any talk... Let shame come upon them all. I pray that the Spirit of God will locate him and set him free in Jesus Name. Amen ! |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Omobada(m): 11:13am On Apr 10, 2020 |
AFONAMARO:No, he's right. One can deliberately assist the man once in the presence of his children purposely to teach them something or to prove a point or at least to see what their reactions will be. |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Emmani360(m): 11:17am On Apr 10, 2020 |
It's most likely how they were trained. Hopefully this will open the eyes of the so called "progressive parents" that don't believe in disciplining a child when he/she goes out of line but will say "we correct our child with love", well their is no love like tough love. Their is this young mother that always come to buy things from my mom's shop and most times that i have been there and she comes, the small daughter will start pointing at sweet or juice and before you know she will throw a tantrum and the mother will buy the sweet/juice and most of the time she will owe my mom for that because she doesn't work and the only money she gets comes from N-power. Make no mistake, It's good to give your child the good things of life when you have it but it's bad to reward his/her bad behavior. Buying her sweet/juice because she is crying and rolling on the ground is just a way of reinforcing that her bad behavior and mindset that she can blackmail you into buying her anything by throwing a tantrum. Some will say "but he/she is still a child", well that child will grow up and beat you up for not giving him/her money for weed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by silverkings: 11:17am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Bluehill1051:Sense is very far away from you. you no get one atom of sense 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by AFONAMARO: 11:29am On Apr 10, 2020 |
sweetrace: You clearly lack manners 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by AFONAMARO: 11:32am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Omobada: If the man had raised his kids properly, there wouldn't have been need for another person's child to come show his kids example. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Nellykuch: 11:39am On Apr 10, 2020 |
Go check the small bottle inside their mama wardrobe, the man is safely locked up in there. Man with SIX grown adults? Adults that ain't disabled in anyway?? |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Ajibade123(m): 11:51am On Apr 10, 2020 |
since when I have known my dad I have never seen him fetch water or wash ordinary handkerchief before |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by emeone: 12:05pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
It's not acceptable... Fury should blow the adult children..
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Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Efiko(m): 12:09pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Not violent issues, it's just a failure of parenting and over time the parent lost the ability to speak to their kids due to "love" or other reasons. This situation is common in our society. If they could afford they could have hire house help to do the chores to avoid "stressing the kid" chii8: 1 Like |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by iso604: 12:20pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
collitexnaira: Jump inside river |
Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by placeofallure(f): 12:22pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
AFONAMARO: The way some people reason Ehn, you don't need a soothsayer to know their brains are under their slippers |
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