HRHQueenPhil:
e pain u like dat? Calm down inugo

its called calling a spade A SPADE... what you described is the Oxford dictionary definition of a cheap golddigging pay as you go olosho.

My HOD back then in school told me to always help guys who are in need instead of helping ladies, he said ladies will not even act like they know you anymore when they see u some other time but guys no matter how long they will always reciprocate one way or the other... from that day I’ve tried it out With guys and ladies to see results and it turns out he was right after all

mytime24:
No generous

Gentleman in naija

How did you arrive at this conclusion?

emmarocks:
So I'm usually like this 99.9 %
But do ladies actually have a name for these categories of men...?
I call us gentlemen...
I hope you ladies don't call us Brother wey mumu�

They call them gay smh

MrBrownJay1:


the above is the definition of being a cheap golddigging pay as you go olosho.... you dont find a man attractive but if he spends money/gifts on you, suddenly you find him attractive and will value him as a possible mate?!?!?!?

...this is the summary of how most Nigerian women behaves.

Money gives them INSTANT AND AUTOMATIC FEELINGS for you.

Good samaritan. But they are rare

Iceyjays:
You this girl again

Shibaraba:
Oga no reason their matter. Just do your own. Last year one small girl Wey I say make I dey help came from school. No attachments nothing. I don't even see her sexual traits sef. Her mom sells moinmoin down the road and I just picked interest in her because she is too brilliant. She hangs around my office anytime she's around. People even calls her omo Oga. Ogas daughter. Girls. She scattered my heart. I wanted someone to transfer call credit to my number but I don't know the number so I flashed her phone that she was charging in my office so I can retrieve it. Guess my name on her phone? UBA.
I was like no ooo. Make I use my normal line wey I sabi maybe na mistake.... Ring I dial am. First bank. I nearly mad. Confronted her when she returned she just dey look. I kuku told her to get more banks as my own bank Don liquidate.

Moral of the story, then no get sense. Sense of entitlement kee them

. Seriously, it would break the heart to know what the average fine girl labels you when you turn yourself into her provider or 'ever present help in times of need'. The names are not nice at all!

I was tending to my matter when a girl came with a ware needing me to patronize. Unlike me, I listened to her; she made a few more visits and in one of them told me her story. Touched, I committed to raising close to 50% of her fees. Then any time she came around, which was becoming like thrice a week, she gets something decent to fare back to school.

So, it happened one day, she got really carried away and was raving about how she would have nothing romantic to do with a married man.

Mehn, after fire baptism on the last relationship before getting married, e no go make sense make thunder strike for one place twice. I needed to extricate from the leech. Note, my intentions were noble, not because I want to stay righteous but because I don't want to be entangled with a girl that may be having sexual relationship with yahoo ritualists and be trapped in some sort of spiritual complications. I have enough on my plate already.

So I said Sister, I already made a commitment, I would redeem Insha Allahu, but I am careful not to be tagged inappropriately going forward, so I won't like you coming around since I cant ask to be compensated with sex.

Help guys instead!

Jesus Christ

coldFLARES1:
. Seriously, it would break the heart to know what the average fine girl labels you when you turn yourself into her provider or 'ever present help in times of need'. The names are not nice at all!

I was tending to my matter when a girl came with a ware needing me to patronize. Unlike me, I listened to her; she made a few more visits and in one of them told me her story. Touched, I committed to raising close to 50% of her fees. Then any time she came around, which was becoming like thrice a week, she gets something decent to fare back to school.

So, it happened one day, she got really carried away and was raving about how she would have nothing romantic to do with a married man.

Mehn, after fire baptism on the last relationship before getting married, e no go make sense make thunder strike for one place twice. I needed to extricate from the leech. Note, my intentions were noble, not because I want to stay righteous but because I don't want to be entangled with a girl that may be having sexual relationship with yahoo ritualists and be trapped in some sort of spiritual complications. I have enough on my plate already.

So I said Sister, I already made a commitment, I would redeem Insha Allahu, but I am careful not to be tagged inappropriately going forward, so I won't like you coming around since I cant ask to be compensated with sex.

Help guys instead!

Bros. The guys I've helped. All of them, didn't help me when the time came. I was broke like a rat for a few months, I saw their colour.
Now na just random people o. In fact people I'm sure I'll never meet. Like random account numbers on Nl. When I push money to them I'm more at peace than these leeches. Before anyone gets my cash again either male or female, e go go through rigorous trials o. I Don learn

Newmanluckyman:
...this is the summary of how most Nigerian women behaves.

Money gives them INSTANT AND AUTOMATIC FEELINGS for you.

golddiggers typical reaction...

Shibaraba:
Oga no reason their matter. Just do your own. Last year one small girl Wey I say make I dey help came from school. No attachments nothing. I don't even see her sexual traits sef. Her mom sells moinmoin down the road and I just picked interest in her because she is too brilliant. She hangs around my office anytime she's around. People even calls her omo Oga. Ogas daughter. Girls. She scattered my heart. I wanted someone to transfer call credit to my number but I don't know the number so I flashed her phone that she was charging in my office so I can retrieve it. Guess my name on her phone? UBA.
I was like no ooo. Make I use my normal line wey I sabi maybe na mistake.... Ring I dial am. First bank. I nearly mad. Confronted her when she returned she just dey look. I kuku told her to get more banks as my own bank Don liquidate.

Moral of the story, then no get sense. Sense of entitlement kee them

Hahaha this one weak me

Alao046:

Oga fellows man too dey do him fellow man bad thing. Niggas dey also collect money from their fellow man, them go con dey tag their fellow man as mugu, maga. The only reason that's hasn't been noticed is that guys tend to save their fellow guys number with real name or Nick name, but deep down they take him as a fool, person wey no wise. So this your story is similar to both boys and girls. Infact some guys are more devilish

This ur assersion no follow abeg, i'v never meet such guy. No guy that u helped will do such. I mean a guy that is seriously in need of help

Shibaraba:
Bros. The guys I've helped. All of them, didn't help me when the time came. I was broke like a rat for a few months, I saw their colour.
Now na just random people o. In fact people I'm sure I'll never meet. Like random account numbers on Nl. When I push money to them I'm more at peace than these leeches. Before anyone gets my cash again either male or female, e go go through rigorous trials o. I Don learn

fair enough!

na fat fool we dey call dat kain person

HRHQueenPhil:
one thing some men don't know is, some women don't find some men attractive so they use the tactic of asking for something they know you won't give them even though u can afford it, so when u say no..they are happy that u have gotten pissed and u will leave them alone. But for a serious guy that is persistent and determined, if he shocks her by giving her, it's tell her that although he is not physically attractive..his character of generosity is attractive and they begin to take u seriously

Nigerian Thieves.....I trust una..

UwaMmebii:


This ur assersion no follow abeg, i'v never meet such guy. No guy that u helped will do such. I mean a guy that is seriously in need of help

Even me too.....Perhaps the guy Is high on oshogbo Weed...

odysey:


They call them gay smh

So, a gay man who helps a straight man without asking for anything in return is called what then?

emmarocks:
So I'm usually like this 99.9 %
But do ladies actually have a name for these categories of men...?
I call us gentlemen...
I hope you ladies don't call us Brother wey mumu�

Big Brother
BB

Toseenlove:


Nigerian Thieves.....I trust una..

;Dspoken like one.with the mentality of a poor.man

chiommy123:
why not allow them ladies to answer your question?

So that they can continue to lie abi.
We know the answer already - Maga

Phenomenal16:
A virtuous man who can find

Maga.
I'm pretty sure you have no idea how many women ask men for help these days. You wouldn't want your bf or brother to start granting all of them the favour.

HRHQueenPhil:
one thing some men don't know is, some women don't find some men attractive so they use the tactic of asking for something they know you won't give them even though u can afford it, so when u say no..they are happy that u have gotten pissed and u will leave them alone. But for a serious guy that is persistent and determined, if he shocks her by giving her, it's tell her that although he is not physically attractive..his character of generosity is attractive and they begin to take u seriously

That's true.

Depends on you. You know when you're a mumu and also when you're helping with wisdom. Wisdom is profitable to direct!

HRHQueenPhil:
;Dspoken like one.with the mentality of a poor.man

Still doesn't change the fact that you are a damn thief lol, Argue with your keyboard.....

Mugu, Maga

Toseenlove:


Still doesn't change the fact that you are a damn thief lol, Argue with your keyboard.....

theif.. do u have what someone can steal, u are so funny

HRHQueenPhil:
theif.. do u have what someone can steal, u are so funny

Yes I have so many things Oooh I'm afraid you might even want to steal my blokos sef lol.....I don't Joke with you ladies of nowadays. Una be Lion+Lioness combined together....

HRHQueenPhil:
one thing some men don't know is, some women don't find some men attractive so they use the tactic of asking for something they know you won't give them even though u can afford it, so when u say no..they are happy that u have gotten pissed and u will leave them alone. But for a serious guy that is persistent and determined, if he shocks her by giving her, it's tell her that although he is not physically attractive..his character of generosity is attractive and they begin to take u seriously

but e no go still last

Allaboutkatiee:

Why did you remove your picture?

Such men don't exist

Preshieben:
Such men don't exist

then you haven't met me