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| Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by samix(m): 7:22am On Jan 05, 2011 |
I started a relationship with the girl in question back around 2002 or 2003, we dated for over 3 years only to break up after i went for NYSC due to some reasons I now find so silly. The break up was so horrible that families were insulted, but soon after the bust up, we got back into talking terms and remained passive friends. After I finished NYSC I got into a relationship with another girl only to break up about 2 years after, during this period I relocated abroad for my MSc degree precisely september 2007. Since I relocated I never came home to Nigeria only to return in december 2010 for my younger sister's wedding. I was in frequent contact with the first girl over the years and as fate would have it we saw again when I came home to Nigeria and we soon began a relationship in no time after some heart to heart talks. The main issue now is that we are or were both in other relationships with no doubt that she is 90% off the relationship, I even went ahead to ask her to marry me "it might sound funny and stupid but its true". Now I am back where I have been living since 2007 and I feel like relocating back because of her. My questions are could it be infatuation or is it that i really love this girl? I am really confused Please all request for is your honest opinion as regards this |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by MaJBlige(f): 7:35am On Jan 05, 2011 |
only a dog returns to his vomit. after three years, and in another relationship, it is obviously the flesh talking, not love. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by tolahood9(m): 8:06am On Jan 05, 2011 |
bro, look within u |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by samix(m): 2:10pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
Ma_J_Blige: I was actually expecting an odd reply rather sooner than later, but thanx i aint a dog. come to think of it, what if the present relationship is heading no where and the fact that i need to settle down myself? the flesh ain't talking because if thats the case it should be off my mind now that i can't and won't see her for a while. could it be the fact that i browsed it first? tolahood9: bro i have done serious soul-searching and my heart seems to be going in the direction i had always wanted it before the break up. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by 190: 2:29pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
Its very possible But what about y'all both current relationships, what happens, u gon dump them both cos of old flame rekindled, please let her go, she's not worth it no more! |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Beync(f): 3:13pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
OP follow ur heart,only u and urself no wat u want as a man. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
use your head,follow ur heart if all seems rt follow the road. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by jfking2005(m): 4:00pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
my friend, forget the girl and move on fast. you are only trying to find fault in your present R/shp. if you hadnt seen her lately will you be considering the failure of your present R/ship?? NO The succes of every r/shp depend on the two party involve. my friend Think with your head and stop allowing what you just enjoyed recently to control you. Just by seeing her in December and immediately you 've started proposing marriage to her and all of a sudden you can't let go off her just in less than 1 month  and you 've started thinking of relocating ?? i dont even know whether you have other plans again where you are abroad rather than just packing your load and come back to stay with the woman, NA WA oooo!! You left someone more than 5years ago even though you keep contact with her doesn't mean you are the best man in her life but you still feel she is still as innocent as those days and i sensed it very well that She must have told you all that you wanted to hear since she already knew you very well before, now you keep imagine those and you cant sleep except you be by her side. My friend, i pray you dont make the greatest mistake of your live. but My advise---Think with your Brain and look around you once again. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
190: Finally I agree with you lol  I have tried it and I am knocking it! Don't do it. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by 190: 5:31pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin:Coconut head You always agree with me, if not no  for you!!  |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Omolola1(f): 5:36pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
OP, Its possible to still have feelings for your ex but my dear, knock it down its not worth it, focus on your current "catch"  |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
@ 190 so? keep ur sloppy kisses!  i dont care! *sticks out tongue and runs away, looks back to see if he is chasing me* |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by 190: 5:49pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin:  faints, |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
^^Slaps 190 |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by 190: 9:36pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
^^evidence of what crack can do 2 a happily married girl, |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
^^on the verge of DIVORCE you mean. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by Spclst900: 11:14pm On Jan 05, 2011 |
190. You don start. |
| Re: Old Flame Rekindled, Is It A Possibility? by samix(m): 5:46am On Jan 07, 2011 |
jfking2005: you could be right she's telling me what i want to hear, but come to think of it, what if the initial break-up was totally my fault? what if its destiny at work?. in everything i do, i think with my head with little contributions from my emotions. 190:the present relationship as now become a past relationship cos trust me, i've been wasting my time and energy. its been destined for the rock right from the onset cos of too many differences. |
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