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Please How Do I Tell Her. by Bluethong1(f): 3:12am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Good morning bro/sis. Please I just want to make this brief. I have this girl I have been dating for 2years now. She is black bold and endowed behind. But lately she has been getting fat excessively and I'm planning to wife her. But right now I'm scared she might get worst when she start having kids for me. I don't want to offend her. Please how do I tell her to loose some fat without hurting her? She is the type that manipulate things and I don't want it to seems like I'm getting tired of her of trying to quit or body shaming her. Please your advice is needed. Thank you. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Anneka101(f): 3:17am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Una no dey sleep Well my advice. Calm her or sir her down buy Her a favourite meal and be like honey you are black bold and beautiful and you are physically endowed with a good sense of humour but do you know I want us to work on your fat. Please smile when you talk to her and don't be too serious about it. Thank me later. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 3:17am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bro, if you're not open to her now, is it when you guys eventually gets married you'll be open? Two years of dating and you're still asking us "How do I tell her" Now, go back to that girl and look at her in the eyes and say; "Sophia, you're adding weight too much, please control it" No time to twist words, Nah your woman she be nor be your pastor wife. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 3:18am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bluethong1:take her jogging with u |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by ebuk4real(m): 3:21am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Scared of who you wanna wife? Interesting indeed |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 3:22am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bluethong1: Pls tell her... I cant marry a fat wife, so I wunt advise u to marry 1... Tell her to stop getting fat |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Anneka101(f): 3:25am On Apr 16, 2020 |
ProfDview1: Haha! You are funny but that would be somehow rude to say and she would feel uncomfortable around him. He needs to tell her in a cool way. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 3:28am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Anneka101: Okay.. But thank God sha.. The first time I talk abt liking a lady, I tell her that I like in her... Yes I tell her.. Babe I love the way u look so slim.. Yes I love it when a lady is slim or averagely okay with correct boobs n ass... Yes correct boobs n ass.. But dt stature is a compulsory stuff ooo... |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Dyonne: 3:32am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bluethong1: Tread carefully, for landmines are ahead. That said, haven't you been enjoying that endowed behind? How do you think she has been maintaining it? As for adding weight because of pregnancy, it's almost inevitable. I think there's a deeper issue though. This one that you are scared to express yourself because of her manipulative behavior indicates serious problems ahead. You better have an honest, straightforward talk with her before you do for better for worse. Emotional blackmail can lead to resentment and later hatred. Think twice, think well. Finally, there used to be an advice given in the days of yore. If you want to know what your wife will look like after many years, go and look at her mama. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Liposure: 3:44am On Apr 16, 2020 |
come up with a scary lie about obesity. U will c |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by NextD18: 4:06am On Apr 16, 2020 |
It will end in tears if you don't brave up now. 1 Like
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Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Bamz(m): 4:17am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bluethong1 I don't quite understand your post or maybe it just sounds dumb to me. If I get you correctly, you're asking us to advice you on how to talk to a girl you've dated for 2 years, right? 2 fudging years? You lack communication skills from the look of things and you don't yet have a handle on your girl yet. Work on these before you wife her. A man in control would know how best to address issues with his girl. Your relationship is mature enough. Whatever specific advice you get here may not apply to your situation. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Samueleriamiatoe(m): 4:26am On Apr 16, 2020 |
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Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Gofwane(m): 4:36am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Tell her that ogogro cures coronavirus. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 4:37am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Join a gym house, ask her to just escort you there for few a times and then encourage her to join the gym. This is the latest trick. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Belafonte(m): 4:44am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Not being able to speak freely and honestly to your partner is a major red flag especially as it concerns marriage. You might want to pause and reconsider your plans of marrying such a woman or better, work on your communication. This is a disaster waiting to happen. Don’t get railroaded into marriage just to assuage your partner. If you’re not on the same page in terms of communication I’d advise you to discard marriage plans. How you go get wife still dey fear to follow an talk truth. Na wa for guys these days sef. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Tallesty1(m): 6:12am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Anneka101:Buy someone her favorite mean because you want to tell her to watch her weight? Where do you people come? Are we so bleeped that everything has to watered down because it's to harsh; including the truth? Dude tell that girl straight up that she needs to watch her weight. What type of this is this |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by CaveAdullam: 6:52am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Start building up yourself physically with different forms of exercise, tell her you want to look fit on and before your wedding ceremony. When she notices the change in you, she will adjust. Also make her feel jealous by talking more about popular female models and their nice physique during any discussion with her. This one is a fast process because no woman wants to lose a nice catch(man) to another woman. Be persistent about this routine because women respond to feelings and not mere words. Thanks. God bless. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Skmoda(m): 7:08am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Anneka101:Take for instance, you are the babe in question, he toll this your lines and how sure it's gonna work....some women are crazily wired ...it's a 50-50 thang. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Skmoda(m): 7:11am On Apr 16, 2020 |
CaveAdullam:Gbam....this is it but he should not use the latter to the extreme.....she will become extremely jealous and it might lead to insecurity. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Conner44: 7:35am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Hmm, you say she has a fat a** , but do you love her? Do you know that if she goes on eating without exercising she will definitely turn into a whale in the near future. You need to man up and act fast so you don’t lose that ass or worse still spoil it for everybody. See op, don’t act the sissy at times like this. Wake up at 2am one very good morning and go sit on your chair in the parlor. Switch on the lights and sit comfortably but purposefully (tv must be off), grab your measuring tape or a long thin rope on your way. Call her out of bed to you, command her to stand and face sideways in front of you then spank her a** once forcefully with your right hand (to clear the sleep out of her eyes) Then with your left hand take the measuring tape and from the tip of her titts drop it straight down to the ground. There should be a small gap from the point where the tape touches the ground to the tip of her feet (if the tape dropped directly on her feet as you placed it then I really pity you already) This space is measurable and totally dependent on how busty your woman is, MEASURE THIS SPACE IN FRONT OF HER. You see that space ... the exact length of that space is called THE POINT OF NO RETURN. Spank her a** again, draw her right ear and tell her these exact words below; Iya record this measurement. Because any day your belle protrude cross this line na time for my new wife to enter this house too. Then stand up, switch off the lights and go back up to bed and continue sleeping. I swear that woman will know there is fire on the mountain and act accordingly. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by CaveAdullam: 7:42am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Skmoda:Of course! Everything must be done with caution in order to maintain balance. Well done. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by pressplay411(m): 7:47am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bluethong1: You'll be surprised she's aware of it too. So just mention it in your next talk. Blame her recent weight gain on the lockdown.lol 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by mofeoluwadassah: 7:47am On Apr 16, 2020 |
It’s obvious that she’s going to be a fat person weather she loses weight or not It’s better you drop this ‘‘how do i tell her’’ before you come back here to ask us ‘’how do i kill my wife’’ |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by lereinter(m): 7:48am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Samueleriamiatoe: Your full name for research purposes |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 9:24am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Bluethong1: Next time you want to take her from the back tell her that your dick is not entering because she has added some weight there |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 9:43am On Apr 16, 2020 |
I believe you saw her before going for her. And you'll have noticed she has the tendency to become fat but still went ahead. Why are you now complaining? See, it simple.... If someone is not your spec, don't go near them. If for any reason you decide to consider them in spite of your specifications, then learn to accept and love them the way they are. I had a similar experience where I gave specifics on the height I wanted in my man but along the line, I chose and fell in love with someone not up to the required height I wanted and I never for once regretted chosing him because I learned to love and accept him the way he is. And not complain or try to take him to "stretching machine" to make him taller. If you can't cope, let her be. Stop putting some body through a stress you cannot undergo for others. Stop body shaming. An important personality almost died yesterday from surgery, trying to reduce fat. 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Lamanii22(f): 9:45am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Why not start workout programs together, talk to her about the benefits that's init not just the weight loss... Be friendly about it... This lockdown is even in most people's favour for exercising.... |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by ednut1(m): 9:45am On Apr 16, 2020 |
All shades of wrong. Seems na she dey feed you this one you are scared and want to marry a manipulator. |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Ihatefeminist: 9:47am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Dump her and find a new girl |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Cindy95(f): 9:59am On Apr 16, 2020 |
GOOD DAY... BELIEVE ME, IF YOU CAN'T FREELY TELL YOUR WOMAN STUFFS LIKE THAT WITHOUT HER GETTING OFFENDED, THEN YOU ARE IN FOR A DIP SH*T ALONG THE LINE. I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG IN YOU TELLING YOUR WOMAN TO WORK ON HERSELF. SHE OUGHT TO BE HAPPY AND APPRECIATIVE THAT YOU ARE SINCERE WITH HER, UNLESS SHE'VE GOT INFERIORITY COMPLEX ISSUE... WHEN I WAS DATING MY HUBBY, HE CALLS ME SCAR FACE (GOT THE SCARE DUE TO ACCIDENT) AND I CALL HIM K-LEG OR BROKEN TEETH, THAT'S THE REAL FUN IN THE RELATIONSHIP.... IF YOU REALLY HAVE TO THINK IT BEFORE TELLING HER TO WORK ON HERSELF, THEN SHE MIGHT KEEP MANIPULATING YOU EVEN IN THE MARRIAGE... PLEASE WORK ON YOUR COMMUNICATION BEFORE WIFING HER, TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH... |
Re: Please How Do I Tell Her. by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 16, 2020 |
Cindy95:You made a very brilliant point.... But aunty, why are you shouting in Capital letters? |
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