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Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:06pm On Apr 16, 2020
May someone not take what is paining you as a joke ooooo angry
Stillthebest:
cry

You are just promoting the site nothing more !
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Misscongenialit: 10:07pm On Apr 16, 2020
Dont let the issue of her being a runs girl deceive you, there are no special women created and known as runs girl. The person u see as runs girl are sisters, girlfriends, fiancee , nieces and sometimes wives to men like you.
Mant mem like u have married them and live with them not knowing they are or were runs girls

My concern if your stort is true is that you are blinded by lust u re only interested in the sex cos thats all you have told us no other qualities.

Forger love n forget marriage, stop seeing her for sex and liok for something to keep u busy. Theres more to life than sex , dont sell your life over sex wey never finish for market. Men who have allower lust control them dont have peace
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by jagaban002(m): 10:08pm On Apr 16, 2020
What’s the difference between those girls with 3 boy friend and hooker . 90% of Nigeria girls have more than 2 Nd and 80% of them settle down and have a family . I don’t know her and what she had gone through so I can’t condemn her . My advise is follow ur heart . Most of the guys here give there gf money after sex is that not hookup too and most girls here expect something in return when they have sex with there bf there are all coded Olosho and we all have our past . Focus on ur present and don’t judge someone by der past
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:08pm On Apr 16, 2020
Just so you know, I deal with website designs and all of them are using a theme from https://escortwp.com/demo/ so thats not the issue here sir
Kekereekun123:
Website is a clone of codedruns
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:15pm On Apr 16, 2020
Oh wow! I actually only mentioned the sex part because that was what brought us together, not like I toasted her and all. But thinking of it now, some days I dont call her and she does call me to check up on me. Almost every week, she sends me message to pray for me out of the blues. I am really confused to be honest sad
Misscongenialit:
Dont let the issue of her being a runs girl deceive you, there are no special women created and known as runs girl. The person u see as runs girl are sisters, girlfriends, fiancee , nieces and sometimes wives to men like you.
Mant mem like u have married them and live with them not knowing they are or were runs girls

My concern if your stort is true is that you are blinded by lust u re only interested in the sex cos thats all you have told us no other qualities.

Forger love n forget marriage, stop seeing her for sex and liok for something to keep u busy. Theres more to life than sex , dont sell your life over sex wey never finish for market. Men who have allower lust control them dont have peace
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:15pm On Apr 16, 2020
Thank you Jagaban, you have spoken some real facts right there.
jagaban002:
What’s the difference between those girls with 3 boy friend and hooker . 90% of Nigeria girls have more than 2 Nd and 80% of them settle down and have a family . I don’t know her and what she had gone through so I can’t condemn her . My advise is follow ur heart . Most of the guys here give there gf money after sex is that not hookup too and most girls here expect something in return when they have sex with there bf there are all coded Olosho and we all have our past . Focus on ur present and don’t judge someone by der past
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Nobody: 10:16pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:
Just so you know, I deal with website designs and all of them are using a theme from https://escortwp.com/demo/ so thats not the issue here sir
lol
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Emekaossai(m): 10:30pm On Apr 16, 2020
There's nothing wrong getting married to her. We all have a past. Just check very well whether it's lust or love that's dragging you.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by unmask: 10:33pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:


She promised me that she will not do it again. Sadly I had that discussion with her sad but don't know how I can be sure she will stop
She is doing it for the money.....if she has assurances why should she go back? If you love her then go ahead and date her

At the end it is personality you enjoy marriage with....and all those talking about throwing your destiny away.....I am sure the lady would be a much better person in marriage than any of them.

Sex workers are humans too and they have feelings too and good hearts too
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Sixfeetbelle: 10:33pm On Apr 16, 2020
Follow your heart.

But don't rush anything despite what your feelings might be. Let everything go slowly and use that opportunity to know her better. Date her, go to public places, invite her codedly to friends hangouts where prospective clients of hers might be and watch if she'd succumb to her ways. Wait, there's even lock down sef.

Sha, play everything by ear and remove all doubts before committing to her. To avoid stories that touch. I won't lend you my shoulder when the tears come ooh
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by unmask: 10:36pm On Apr 16, 2020
Angelacruz:
So y cant she apply for jobs?i guess she has been doing runs during her undergraduate days.I dnt judge but it will end in tears.
but you have judged her already.....most times we need to know the other person's story to understand what they have been thru
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:46pm On Apr 16, 2020
I think it is lust that has turned into love actually.
Emekaossai:
There's nothing wrong getting married to her. We all have a past. Just check very well whether it's lust or love that's dragging you.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:47pm On Apr 16, 2020
Thanks for the straight advice unmask. I appreciate
unmask:
She is doing it for the money.....if she has assurances why should she go back? If you love her then go ahead and date her

At the end it is personality you enjoy marriage with....and all those talking about throwing your destiny away.....I am sure the lady would be a much better person in marriage than any of them.

Sex workers are humans too and they have feelings too and good hearts too
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 10:49pm On Apr 16, 2020
Hahahaha thanks jare. Surely, I will try see if she will fall for other guys but my fear is that the unexpected should not happen oooo. Cos some guys are the real Yoruba Deamons.
Sixfeetbelle:
Follow your heart.

But don't rush anything despite what your feelings might be. Let everything go slowly and use that opportunity to know her better. Date her, go to public places, invite her codedly to friends hangouts where prospective clients of hers might be and watch if she'd succumb to her ways. Wait, there's even lock down sef.

Sha, play everything by ear and remove all doubts before committing to her. To avoid stories that touch. I won't lend you my shoulder when the tears come ooh
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by raphemmanuel(m): 10:55pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:


Funny thing is I never thought of having anything to do with people around me since I met her.
Mehn undecided
Your case is strong
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 11:09pm On Apr 16, 2020
Very strong thing mehn
raphemmanuel:
Mehn undecided
Your case is strong
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by fredopareto(m): 11:21pm On Apr 16, 2020
donbachi:
When nights comes...the hustle begins!!!!
great word....he who ve hear let him hear wat d spirit say in parable..d NIGHT;-DIFFICULTIES PERIOD
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Uka15(m): 11:26pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:
Hello everyone,

I met a girl on this site strictlyhookup.com and we have had sex like 5 times already. I cannot seem to want another girl which I think means I am falling in love.

Her sex seems to be the best (maybe because that is what she does) but I now have a big issue.

I am having thoughts of marriage with her. Can I marry someone like that? Seeing that I met her on a hookups site? What will I tell our kids or even friends on where and how we met?

She really seems to be a cool girl sha.

Please I need your advice.

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Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Sixfeetbelle: 11:30pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:
Hahahaha thanks jare. Surely, I will try see if she will fall for other guys but my fear is that the unexpected should not happen oooo. Cos some guys are the real Yoruba Deamons.

Not fall per say, more like try her hookups with them. You have to be sure she won't go back to her occupation whenever wherever. A leopard never changes its spot
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Naijacounselors: 11:36pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:
Hello everyone,

I met a girl on this site strictlyhookup.com and we have had sex like 5 times already. I cannot seem to want another girl which I think means I am falling in love.

Her sex seems to be the best (maybe because that is what she does) but I now have a big issue.

I am having thoughts of marriage with her. Can I marry someone like that? Seeing that I met her on a hookups site? What will I tell our kids or even friends on where and how we met?

She really seems to be a cool girl sha.

Please I need your advice.
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Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Rickmann: 11:36pm On Apr 16, 2020
InternetUser:


Please put me in prayers oooo... Funny thing is she doesnt ask me for money and all. She uses her money to come to my house and leave. I only paid her the first 2 times sad

Looking on the bright side, I think she likes you..but don't raise your hopes yet. Systematically engage her in questions and find out if she truly wants to turn a new leaf and build a relationship with you. It doesn't matter d life she s lived in the past. Girls like dat turn out to be wonderful wives and mothers.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 11:41pm On Apr 16, 2020
Yes, you are right. That is what I will do.
Sixfeetbelle:


Not fall per say, more like try her hookups with them. You have to be sure she won't go back to her occupation whenever wherever. A leopard never changes its spot
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by InternetUser: 11:43pm On Apr 16, 2020
She wants a relationship with me and even when people chat her up for hookup, sometimes she shows me the chat and I see the decline response she gives.
Rickmann:


Looking on the bright side, I think she likes you..but don't raise your hopes yet. Systematically engage her in questions and find out if she truly wants to turn a new leaf and build a relationship with you. It doesn't matter d life she s lived in the past. Girls like dat turn out to be wonderful wives and mothers.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Austine567(m): 11:46pm On Apr 16, 2020
relationship is sweeter when its daring, think about it.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by emmanuelpopson(m): 12:20am On Apr 17, 2020
when age don dey comot for her side.she reason say she needs settle down.. u want Carry public utility for house.. okay

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Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by ugolinze123(m): 1:03am On Apr 17, 2020
Lol...I know what you are tryna do. Promoting the website on NL free of charge abi. Mugu make MOD catch you.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Nobody: 1:42am On Apr 17, 2020
Eulalia:
undecided

Because of sex, you want to throw your destiny to the dogs?

grin grin
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Enavie(m): 2:17am On Apr 17, 2020
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Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by keycash: 3:00am On Apr 17, 2020
Hmm bro I forbid it for u in Jesus name. . Thus is lust not love .. maybe her jazz don couch u .. don't start weting g u go fit end ooo �
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Emekaossai(m): 2:20pm On Apr 17, 2020
InternetUser:
I think it is lust that has turned into love actually.
Then good luck.
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by divineappo(m): 2:38pm On Apr 17, 2020
the question is, does she love you? are u just want to marry her because she sabi Bleep?

What is the real reason u want to marry her?

Also, stop judging her. I can marry a prostitute, if she loves Me, gives me her word that she want to quit the life, if am personally convinced she truly wants to quit that life and settle down, if am convinced she loves me, what else should stop me

Bros, if she loves u, love her too, love is all that matters
Re: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by Rickjordan(m): 3:08pm On Apr 17, 2020
Imagine your wife been a porn star telling you she had a great day at work cheesy cheesy cheesy

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