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Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by cooooooks(m): 2:26am On Apr 19, 2020
I like your gf.

One ex gf said this to me. We had an awesome relationship after that.

Be happy when you have a strong woman and one who's not scared or fake needy.

WhiteNigerian:
I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend that i have been dating for abt 2yrs now. She accused me of cheating on her just because her friend told her she saw me paying for the meal of a lady i met at the restaurant last sunday. The lady in question was my coursemate during my uni days and it's been a while since i saw her last. i think close to 4years now so we were both excited when we saw each other at the restaurant and i offered to pay for her meal. When my babe confronted me with the allegation, i explained myself to her and concluded with dis statement "i didn't mean to hurt your feelings" and her reply was "U're too small to hurt my feelings". i was shocked but i acted kul. I love her but i hate insults most especially when it has to do with my personality.
Should i break up with her? pls I need your candid advice. thank you.
Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by Albertone(m): 2:54am On Apr 19, 2020
cooooooks:
I like your gf.

One ex gf said this to me. We had an awesome relationship after that.

Be happy when you have a strong woman and one who's not scared or fake needy.

Only your contribution is odd here lol
How does what his gf said translates to her being strong ,not scared nor needy
Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by cooooooks(m): 3:00am On Apr 19, 2020
She was told that her man paid for another woman's food at a restaurant. She had every right to think he was cheating.

She confronts him and he gives her his excuse (which could be true) then he proceeds to tell her that he didn't mean to hurt her.

That can be seen as a subtle put down. A declaration that she is lesser without him. A psychologist friend of mine says it is a natural instinct of ours to try this tactic and that the other person could feel that you mean so much to them that they should suspend logic for your case.

Anyways, I like her response and he should appreciate it too. Ballsiness is good.


Albertone:
Only your contribution is odd here lol
How does what his gf said translates to her being strong ,not scared nor needy
Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by frozen70(f): 4:17am On Apr 19, 2020
WhiteNigerian:
I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend that i have been dating for abt 2yrs now. She accused me of cheating on her just because her friend told her she saw me paying for the meal of a lady i met at the restaurant last sunday. The lady in question was my coursemate during my uni days and it's been a while since i saw her last. i think close to 4years now so we were both excited when we saw each other at the restaurant and i offered to pay for her meal. When my babe confronted me with the allegation, i explained myself to her and concluded with dis statement "i didn't mean to hurt your feelings" and her reply was "U're too small to hurt my feelings". i was shocked but i acted kul. I love her but i hate insults most especially when it has to do with my personality.
Should i break up with her? pls I need your candid advice. thank you.

You want to break up with her because of a mere statement

Are you new to words from women?

You have explained to her, don't expect her to accept your explanation automatically

Keep calm and be a avoid a similar situation

No man is too big or small for a woman to handle

Even if you don't sleep with the woman

Relax and things will set it
Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by Omar09(m): 7:55am On Apr 19, 2020
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LOL, OMAR09 IF YOU REPLY TO PEOPLE LIKE THAT IN REAL LIFE, BOTH MEN AND WOMEN, THEY'LL ALWAYS LEAVE. THAT'S SO DISRESPECTFUL MY MAN.

WHAT DO YOU VALUE THE MOST?
A BRIGHT RELATIONSHIP OR THE "ALPHA MALE BIG BALLS TAG"?

MYSELF
Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by KingWarri: 6:30pm On Apr 20, 2020
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If your girlfriend tells you that you are too small to hurt her feelings, just know you"re actually her side boy grin
This one gat me..... grin

Re: My Girlfriend Said Am Too Small To Hurt Her Feelings What Should I Do? by MissKudoswrite(f): 10:51am On Mar 26
First of all ask her what she meant by the words, then let her know you felt insulted, if she apologize the you guys can resolve issues

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