Tozic:


Nne...

Married people live longer than single people because married couple can divide their worry - but when you're single, you have to do it all alone.

u think so? there are some married men and women who have their problems multiplied when they get married.no peace of mind,nagging and all.those men that have troublesome wives how many of them have u seeing living long .Some develop high blood pressure which kills them in turn due to the troublesome nagging wife they got married to .some men before the lockdown prefer to sleep in beer palours and when they returning home their hearts start beating faster .men in their bacehlor days who were not acholics suddenly became alcoholics after they got married .

Allsingles:


https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/04/dont-marry-anyone-in-this-category-of.html?m=1

Nice points. However, it will be exteremely rare to find all these qualities and more in one woman or man. You are talking about an ideal person sort of..

Margy:


I agree with you. Like a man who has 97% of his contact to be women. What nonsense!!! And has the guts to say they are just friends or he grew up in the midst of girls. That's the height of irresponsibility.
Same goes to the woman too. Stupid

I strongly believe what you said but it pains me more to see girls do that.

lefulefu:
if he doesnt have a female friend how is he going to choose a mate and court a woman .or u suggesting he tells his friends or parents to look for a woman for him since there is no woman in his life? most relationships that fare better start from friendship cos then u can study the lady and know the type of person she is.

Ayyeee
..i never said don't have but make sure the ratio is 2:8..girls is to boys

Poshriel:
Don't marry someone who still plays soccer bets

calm down joor...it hasn't gotten to that please

Margy:


Ayyeee
..i never said don't have but make sure the ratio is 2:8..girls is to boys

when he is married he can stylishly do away with the other female friends.thats what a responsible man does and when he wants to get married its the one he likes best he gets married to.

xendra:
that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping female close friends, the height of irresponsibility

Hate speech

Nobody is perfect.

That number 9, More Women are into it than men.

But the number 11 case is a must na, all those tests must be done to know whether both are compatible, it's only the foolish ones that won't do those tests.

myles16:







I don't even understand this "bestie" of a thing, some girls would have a boyfriend and still keep another guy as male bestie.....it's either you hold on to me or your bestie, can't be competing with another guy over a girl

Bestie my foot, so that wen the boyfriend is not around , the bagger will transform from her bestie to a beast on her bed.

oloriooko:
OP your categories are good but are you aware marriage is laborious?
You can have a man/woman with all these attributes but still find fault somewhere
Marriage is a work laden project that require both parties efforts
Patience is the greatest attribute needed in marriage.
We can see pastors divorcing today yet they continue to pull crowds in their meetings and I ask myself how can a man who failed to lead his family of 4-6 members successfully lead millions of people; they lack patience! The annoying thing is that some of them still go ahead to marry again!
Marriage is not about who you are when you are single but who you can be when someone joins your boat.

Patience coming from a man.
I am shocked.

Poshriel:
Don't marry someone who still plays soccer bets

calm down joor..it hasn't gotten to that

zimdante:

Bestie my foot, so that wen the boyfriend is not around , the bagger will transform from her bestie to a beast on her bed.

Don't worry too much about the bestie stuff jare, many guys who became besties were once in the babes picture of a perfect guy, in love and all that but were friend zoned after they saw his tiny pencil deek. Unfortunately he's too nice to be completely out of her life hence the bestie position

You are correct Sha.

lasher1:


Don't worry too much about the bestie stuff jare, many guys who became besties were once in the babes picture of a perfect guy, in love and all that but were friend zoned after they saw his tiny pencil deek. Unfortunately he's too nice to be completely out of her life hence the bestie position

Lol you are right I guess

lefulefu:
u think so? there are some married men and women who have their problems multiplied when they get married.no peace of mind,nagging and all.those men that have troublesome wives how many of them have u seeing living long .Some develop high blood pressure which kills them in turn due to the troublesome nagging wife they got married to .some men before the lockdown prefer to sleep in beer palours and when they returning home their hearts start beating faster .men in their bacehlor days who were not acholics suddenly became alcoholics after they got married .

Do you also realise that there are nagging men too?
That some women develop love for work and ambition because they dread going home to the man?
That some women will give anything to avoid situations that put them anywhere near the man?
My brother to be honest, singlehood mosttimes to most people were the happieat periods of their lives.
What some people will give to reverse the clock and change decisions.
Peace of mind is not a joke.

last last.. marriage go still crash.. Abeg no be everybody go marry.. some of us don't av soul mates.. don't force it.. if it happens its okay..

Number 9...

The last is my condition now..... although not marriage....but 3 relationships in a row.... AS isnt funny on me now.... even now... I feel so stressed with all the pain

lefulefu:
u think so? there are some married men and women who have their problems multiplied when they get married.no peace of mind,nagging and all.those men that have troublesome wives how many of them have u seeing living long .Some develop high blood pressure which kills them in turn due to the troublesome nagging wife they got married to .some men before the lockdown prefer to sleep in beer palours and when they returning home their hearts start beating faster .men in their bacehlor days who were not acholics suddenly became alcoholics after they got married .

Are you minding that one, Probably he Is still a Kid. Children wey never see life and their hand never reach their ear sef go dey give Advice lol

Because you need someone that will keeping enduring your bullshit, right?

Nice writeup but i think you should please consider rephrasing the words in the last advice. "Bad medical history"? AS, SS? Maybe you could say something like incompatible medical conditions or something along that line.

Moreover, in relation to the the spiritual aspect, does it also extend to atheists and agnostics?

Allsingles:


https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/04/dont-marry-anyone-in-this-category-of.html?m=1

Don't marry anyone who makes all this check list a priority, ask them who calls the shot? Who made this rules relevant?
Some points are valid, some points needs to be checkmated.
When you get married, your new family matters more than your extended. Argue wisely.

Having male besties, oga you are feeling unsecured, please tell yourself the truth.

Psychologically, we Nigerians dont appreciate counseling before marriage.

There is more to your list

Jubilancy:
The last is my condition now..... although not marriage....but 3 relationships in a row.... AS isnt funny on me now.... even now... I feel so stressed with all the pain

Come feel my warm embrace. Proud AA

xendra:
that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping female close friends, the height of irresponsibility

and vice versa

Don't marry someone that's not black. Unless it's temporary for a green card.

Seriously. You don't want to produce an albino when you can make this

Kingrexyl:
Stay away from broke girls, they never have nothing to offer a man if not their viginas

Don't think with your Anal cavity, some have got Brains to offer, you probably think of S*x as the only good thing u see in her.
Puss romario

Beverlyjean:
Most of all don't marry someone that has an unforgiving spirit.. this one is even against man and God

Experience baby, experience.

Allsingles:


https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/04/dont-marry-anyone-in-this-category-of.html?m=1

Nice one

lefulefu:
u think so? there are some married men and women who have their problems multiplied when they get married.no peace of mind,nagging and all.those men that have troublesome wives how many of them have u seeing living long .Some develop high blood pressure which kills them in turn due to the troublesome nagging wife they got married to .some men before the lockdown prefer to sleep in beer palours and when they returning home their hearts start beating faster .men in their bacehlor days who were not acholics suddenly became alcoholics after they got married .

I know that all these things do happen but take a minute to reflect on what I just said and you'll see some truths behind them.