Lol, you definitely don't have anger issues if she's still at your place "sleeping peacefully". She'd have been GONE by now if I was in your shoes! I'd have gone nuts after reading those messages, where they're sounding like modern Romeo & Juliet, as if you're standing in the way of them being together, happily ever after.
Don't be the "obstacle" in their "fated love story", allow them to reunite & bask in their newly-found romance. Wake her up & tell her to go be with her secret lover, no explanations needed because you got proof.

They say if you have nothing good to say, then don't say anything... so i'll be quiet.

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Oh fvck that! when i read the part where the girl said she dated the guy to push him away, i concluded that she was a mor@n and/or a liar, but when i read the part where the op actually believed her story, i concluded that op was desperate and/or an imbec!le. Guys need to wake the fvck up!
~edited again~
why do the mods keep changing my good insults to slowpoke, fvck's a slowpoke? Let's be guided o.

It reminds me of a saga during my school days.

She was a girlfriend to my friend,she was also sleeping with somone else in Abuja while the guy was in Lagos where she schools.

Incidentally, he missed a call from his former boss at the place he had his industrial trainning ( now transfered to their Abuja branch). He called the number back with her fone only to discover that the number was saved on her fone and reply was hello sweetheart.He immediately deleted the call from the call log.

He simply ended the call and got airtime on his phone. He called back using his phone explaining he called earlier with another number.

They had a deep discursion and realised she goes to Abuja every first friday of the month decieving him to go to Redemption Camp for vigil and extends her stay with her aunt that stays at the camp till Sundays.

This was the girl that forms she hates sex with him, the former boss sent a flight ticket to him like he does to the girl on the first friday of the next month.

She got to Abuja and met the two of them at his house and was too shocked. Somone she told she was going to redemption camp.

The three of them spent the night in the same room and ended in a 3some.

She ended up loosing the two guys.

ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.

Hit it one last time and leave...you know the drill.
If U ain't Hit it already, try to and leave that chick for good.

guy , i beg u with everything u have in life , don't break up with this girl. the truth is that, they've been having sex not once or twice and they both enjoyed it .

plz just keep that part of text somewhere safe , because Its so certain that she can't marry the other guy since he has a fiancee,

plz look for another wife but don't break up with her , if u can, wait till your wedding invite is out and give her two days to your wedding attaching a copy of the text u extracted from her . this is the best way to revenge her infidelity and betrayal of your trust .

Davash222:

You're just funny. Lol.
Show her the text and then break up
Break up what? You can't break up when you're not dating. The OP is just forcing himself on the girl. Check the whatsapp chat again, the foolish girl is not even bothered about the OP if she gets pregnant.. She's only bothered about the other guy's fiancee. This shows the OP is not in her list.
OP, I'll advice you don't show her any text. Turn her to sex object, and then marry her best friend.
Do unto others before they do unto thee.
Shalom!

You ve said my mind, I don't know why is it difficult to play love you along, once a girl shows signs of distrust, we have started playing games, I mean it.... Sex her to your contentment, she will leave by herself

ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.

just use her as a sexmate. keep enjoying her and when u see a better lady, marry the Lady. Don't spend on her again as u do before...just sex her anytime u like

benedima1990:
guy , i beg u with everything u have in life , don't break up with this girl. the truth is that, they've been having sex not once or twice and they both enjoyed it .

plz just keep that part of text somewhere safe , because Its so certain that she can't marry the other guy since he has a fiancee,

plz look for another wife but don't break up with her , if u can, wait till your wedding invite is out and give her two days to your wedding attaching a copy of the text u extracted from her . this is the best way to revenge her infidelity and betrayal of your trust .

Bro God bless you, u don give me another good plan for my girl am suspecting

Descortes:
abeg make una no dey talk did is she you wife shit it doesn't make sense! What's the essence of going into a relationship if anyone can cheat? Or una for naija no know the meaning of relationship??! If na you say your babe of 3 years wey you take seriously cheat on you how you go feel?? Isnt from dating you go into marriage or do you just dive into marriage like that? Abeg you people should stop this Is she your wife Bullshit. Anyone who can't stay faithful should stay single

Bros!! God bless you.. If one can't be faithful in relationship is it in marriage? Honestly i don't understand our society anymore. It's better that one doesn't enter into relationship than to cheat.

Wake her stupid ass up,show her what you saw.Dont even bother to hear her side of the story,send the fool away.It is very obvious she is fucking the guy steady steady for them to be talking about pregnancy.

Peacefully sleep kee her there!Some girls are evil Sha.

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Hmmm, please point of correction ladies are not wicked

Onego:
Ladies are not wicked please don't generalize thank you

Another Saint on romance thread....

Onego:
Hmmm, please point of correction ladies are not wicked

what is wrong with this aunty.

Can you swear that you don't have a side guy servicing you.

ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.

She really fvcked that guy to stupor...
If you are looking for advice on what to do...
Prepare Food For Her Before She wakes up, then apologize to her for letting her bang your neighbor...
God Created a lot of people...Simps like you were not left out

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zexy2030:
Calm down u can never take right decisions when u r angry, keep the evidence then act indifferently though sex can continue. if she ask why u r giving her attitude, ask her if she cheats on u and if she denies then show her these, tell her that u stopped loving her from that day. Will she love to continue with a man u will never trust her? let her decide, informing her that u can't continue if she likes call everyone, u r OK without her. Then she will understand that physical fight and emotional fight are not same. You will win her if u fight her emotionally. Let her weep don't feel sorry but by the way u have not paid her bride price, u don't know her family, she is free to date anyone, she stops cheating when a ring is now on it(sometimes some never stops cheating)

All this extra stress for a LovePeddler?

myles16:




Oga no waste your time, they bleeped well...... there's this girl too that we are into something and she's always swearing about her being faithful to me, tho never believed her till i hacked her fb account, what i saw mehn!!! not even Number 5 on her list and she still message me pretending with her yada yada love. Just playing along too

please could you help me with the process you took in hacking her account?

Twoclans:
It's a double cheating,even the guy she is cheating with has a fiance.

@OP this one you are saying anger issues dont go and kill somebodys child.

Wake her up look her in the eyes and tell her the relationship is over,tell her to go to her neighbor.Regardless of your decision it does not mean the next girl you date won't cheat on you.

I know a guy who has been cheated on by every girl he dated .Somehow I got to talk with two different girls he dated and they both said the same thing .Same reason they were all cheating

What reason please?

You need to take the redpill , ubanja miseducation and thank me later

ToyBoyAaron:

Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.

Nothing to worry about boss man, Simps be simping all day everyday

Them done fvck this one babe


Chew MADNESS like....

Leave her.

hmm.

You've eaten the forbidden fruit and your eyes are now open.
Bros see ehn, most of these our Nigerian are not loyal. They tend to cheat and lockup if the opportunity is right. Loving you na scam oo (Kiss Daniel ft davido)

The question is rather unnecessary as a blind man can see and a deaf man can that they had sex and probably still having sex.

My advice- in order not to commit murder, send her the screenshot chats and discharge the lady. She's not worth your headache.

Chikena

rukytaiga:
My brother jst move on with your life...don't even bother requesting for answers. She ain't worth the trouble and stress..so sorry for the hrt break.
As for the question if she had sex...my guy she didn't only have sex with him she has fallen for him...so move on

100% fact

Davash222:

You're just funny. Lol.
Show her the text and then break up
Break up what? You can't break up when you're not dating. The OP is just forcing himself on the girl. Check the whatsapp chat again, the foolish girl is not even bothered about the OP if she gets pregnant.. She's only bothered about the other guy's fiancee. This shows the OP is not in her list.
OP, I'll advice you don't show her any text. Turn her to sex object, and then marry her best friend.
Do unto others before they do unto thee.
Shalom!

Wise one!! You too sharp abeg

Davash222:

You're just funny. Lol.
Show her the text and then break up
Break up what? You can't break up when you're not dating. The OP is just forcing himself on the girl. Check the whatsapp chat again, the foolish girl is not even bothered about the OP if she gets pregnant.. She's only bothered about the other guy's fiancee. This shows the OP is not in her list.
OP, I'll advice you don't show her any text. Turn her to sex object, and then marry her best friend.
Do unto others before they do unto thee.
Shalom!

You're kinda right on this
Yeah she's a LovePeddler turn her to a sex object while you hey someone else, but marrying her best friend is a NO NO

pellummy:



Bro God bless you, u don give me another good plan for my girl am suspecting

My brother_ , inside life

ToyBoyAaron:

Easy to say. I loved this girl to the extent if we have a quarrel I find it hard to sleep.

baba abeg man up...have been in a worst situation than this.I know it wouldn't be easy,but you gats advice yourself.. Never you trust nor believe a girl again,even if na she born Jesus Christ....

Break up with her to save yourself the pains of further fu*ck ups.....Being without a girlfriend for over four years is the best decision I ever made to myself.