Before going into marriage, there are significant things to discuss with your lover to make your journey easier and gain a better understanding of each other. These will definitely pave way for the greatness and the success of your marriage.

1) Your Spouse Relationship With God.
Who is God in his or her life? You need to discuss this and the roles he wants God to play in his life, starting his relationship with him. If you don’t agree on this, your marriage may be turbulent if you go ahead. How sure are that your partner doesn't pretend to go to church just to escape your questions of why didn't you go to church today. How sure are that your partner is not just a churchgoer who goes to church only on Sunday just to please you. Be sure that he or she puts God first in their lives, with this, God will be made a priority at the center of your marriage which is very crucial.

2) Discuss Your Partner's Purpose In Life With Him Or Her. We all have purpose, goals, objectives, dreams, who we really want to be in life, how we want to be heard in society.
What is your purpose in life? What is the reason why you are on earth? You need to know by now and it has to be discussed with your spouse before marriage and listen to his or her too. After revealing it to each other, is your spouse in support of your dream or against it? Be convinced that it will not sprout out a challenge in the future when you are already married.

3) Make Your Values Clear To Each Other.
You need to discuss your values and set of moral beliefs.
Everyone has their own set of values. Although most values don’t differ too much. One thing to discuss before marriage is what values are most important to both of you. Then you can decide what values you will share as a family and build your family on that. Remember If you bring up your children in two different directions of life, it is going to negatively affect their social lives and that will be a disaster to your family and the society at large.

4) Do You Both Believe Or Have The Same Vision.
Does he know what your vision and goals in life are? Do you know him? If you are career-minded and plan to put all you have into work for the next six years so you can get a certain promotion or make a certain amount of money in life, he or she needs to know about these. Share your vision about the future, finances, and about your children together before you get married. A married couple after 5 years of marriage got divorced because of children's issues. The man does not want to have children meanwhile the woman desperately needs children and not that any of them is not medically okay. For failing to discuss this at the right time, they got divorced.

5) Does Your Partner Keep Secrets From You?
There is no best time to share these intimate and secret things than now. As you look ahead to marriage, share family secrets and challenges. Don’t keep your partner in the dark about your family issues. He or she should marry you for your liabilities and assets if he or she truly loves you. Discuss personal choices, health challenges, problems, mental health concerns, debts, past relationships, addictions, if any. This is the time to share things big and small, paving the way for honesty, transparency, and openness as the foundation of your marriage. Secrecy destroys marriage no matter how deep he or she loves you. If you have any child out of wedlock, or you removed a fetus and later had issues with your womb, now is the best time to open up. Hiding it will only endanger your love with each other. The secrets will one day be open and that's going to be at the wrong time then the marriage you have built for so many years will be history.

6) Your Career Should Not Be Left Out.
You need to talk about your career, educating each other about its demands, challenges, and the importance of it to the marriage. The reasons it should be taken care of, and the benefits of it to the marriage in the next few years. Remember if resources will be a challenge for you guys, it can be suspended but if not, it should be considered, and also if there is an alternative for it, which can be of immense benefit to you guys, it also has to be discussed as well.

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