Can a girl ask a guy she really admires out, without being considered too foward or cheap?

i think there has been a previous topic on this. look around you . anyway to answer your question,i think it depends on the society and its values, and the individuals.

Mssfyne. Don't mind ThoniaSlim oooo. The answer is right here in my post. It's alright to ask a guy out whether you like him or not . You know what? You can start with me . I'm waiting. Even before you ask sef, I don say capital YES!!!!!

@sillyboy
Olboy you are one hell of a womanizer

the way you put ur self is the way people take u, most of the guys dont tink the same way, so asking a guy out is not the best cos he will treat u as a slave (afterall she came to meet me)

i don't see anything in a gal askin a guy out. as a matter of fact i like it when it happens cos its unexpected and leaves the guy lost for a while. i had my fare share of that in secondary school. also ladies are more outgoin now than before. if u dig a guy, let him know. u can use body language it u can't spit it out and pray the guy's radar is compliant with urs.

I asked my present BF out, and we still together, 6 months down the line

uhnnnnn dats nice to hear but be careful

@ sillyboy, you are cute sha, so tell me what you want,you could make me your girl. hope you would say yes to me

@ sillyboy, you are cute sha, so tell me what you want,you could make me your girl. hope you would say yes to me

what do u have to say silly boyaccept and i will tell oreofemi

Leave him alone, am not his girl anyway, but if i see him with another girl, am going to kill him , because am still trying to shut him up of all these stupids things he says.

SILLY BOI IS REALLY SILLY, AINT NOTHING BAD BOUT IT, DEPENDS ON HOW MATURE THE guy is.Start by asking Obasanjo or kola olawuyi out, feel me?

hustla:

SILLY BOI IS REALLY SILLY, AINT NOTHING BAD BOUT IT, DEPENDS ON HOW MATURE THE guy is.

I agree, its high time ladies started voicing out their emotions,and the guys should give 'em a chance.Women too can fall in love at first sight and that should not be killed. The only thing is our society

I dont see anything wrong with it. I think the girl just needs to be smart if it's Naija.

Dont be too forward, be nice and indirectly attract his attention. That's the hint for our society,

I do not mean silly boy is silly.oo

yeh, i dont see any problem in askin a guy out,

Crazy_babe:

yeh, i don't see any problem in askin a guy out,

have tried it before??

i think i wll appreciate a girl that lov me. if a girl ask me out, i wll ponder why she does that, maybe she loves. i ve been a victim of going after girls that didn't care later realised my mistakes. it's usually happens for guys to go after girls that re not after them.
For me any one can propose, it doesn't matter who does, what matters to me is love. True love. If u love, you say it aloud otherwise the moment wll passes by.

I see nuffin wrong neither. In our world of today, anythin can happen. So babe, you can ask a guy out. It very important to kill a burning fire inside the heart with water than to let in burn your heart and out-grind ya. Good luck heh

this topic is very close to asking a guy will u marry me? check it out guys

I would go for it if I see a guy that I like. I see nothing wrong making the first move. Make sure we both eye each other up and down first that usually breaks the ice. Let the eyes do the talking.

One thing is key; the world is changing! Take the leap if it is to your advantage and does not hurt anyone. It is a free world.

i dere is noting rung with ask a guy out

Wow. Do beautiful ladies ask guyz out with d so much attention they get?

Well it depends some men are still in the dark ages while others are 21st centuried men.

People would say that it is not ok because we are "Africans" and blah blah blah,
But in this day and age, it's not such a big deal. Personally, I would ask a guy out if I really like him and if he has shown signs that he feels the same way oh, I can't allow one son of man like that blow me off oh!!!!!!!!!!!

Ebonyeyes:

Well it depends some men are still in the dark ages while others are 21st centuried men.

I know that I shouldn't be saying this for some reasons best known to me but i must admit that @ times, the way u used to classify some men sometimes seems to crack me up.
@Topic. There's nuffin wrong with that, missy. Just be smart.

Donvilo:

I know that I shouldn't be saying this for some reasons best known to me but i must admit that @ times, the way u used to classify some men sometimes seems to crack me up.
@Topic. There's nuffin wrong with that, missy. Just be smart.

Why?

Tipsy85:

People would say that it is not ok because we are "Africans" and blah blah blah,
But in this day and age, it's not such a big deal. Personally, I would ask a guy out if I really like him and if he has shown signs that he feels the same way oh,  I can't allow one son of man like that blow me off oh!!!!!!!!!!!

Hmmm, That's a wise girl.

Cos' some of ma fellow dudes might take my admittance (although am seeing it as a joke) as some sort of 'betrayal" to them instead of opposing u.