SweetCunt97:
Is it difficult to simply be a man, be considerate? Just look at d archiac guy that said women are created to serve men, if na so, men are created to take care of women.

pocohantas:
Alfa males done use tears full this thread.

Sorry, you guys can’t change nothing.

pansophist:

I think its wife before children, otherwise, your post is on point.

Zoie:

Yes o. Ebony fantasies. Thats how one white guy kept pleading that I should come abroad to see him, he wants me to be his gf. For where? Even if I want to, I no get money for visa.
Dude unfriended me later on

Jaqenhghar:

So true. I think we need to borrow a page from the Asians on this. Over here I hardly see any Chinese guys dating white girls. They keep to themselves and fate their own.

XhosaNostra:



Asian women love white men though lol. It's like they feel like they've made it in life when they date or marry one.
I really don't have a problem with interracial dating, it only disgusts me when people act like it's an achievement marrying someone of a different race.

tiptoe1:
Let me chip In a little. If you successfully get your papers and decide that you want to pick a girl from home, please and please you need to open your eyes and be careful cause it's also as deadly as getting married to an akata.

The western law have made husbands completely infim. You don't expect her to stay the same way and knowing laws in the Western world lets her own the house, the children and majority of the things you have. Many Nigerian wives realize their potentials once they get to tge US. Some of them do worse thing to their husband just to prove a point to their husband that they aren't in Nigeria where husbands has upper hands. So once their eyes tear, they over do it and torment their husbands with it.

Eniolakiite:
My view is many Africans don’t have a good cultural identity.

We move to Germany, we behave like them. We move to UK, we behave like them immediately. We move to US, France...and so on and we keep behaving like them. It’s unfortunate.
I see Indian men and women who immigrated here who still act their values and culture irrespective of how much dollars they earn or where they work.

But Africans, immediately they cross that Atlantic ocean like this, we change everything and no originality again. It’s unfortunate.

Stop changing your real self because of change of location.

Kazeemakeem:


Hook me with a friend for marriage,i stay in nigeria

emmaodet:


Are you saying our laws enslave our women? is there any part of the law that enslaves women? why are we quick to demonize our country? is there anything nigerian men are doing that the women dont have access to? Most times we talk, open threads on how to travel to abroad etc, some even do thanksgiving in church for getting a visa and somehow look at others as unfortunate for been in nigeria and i wonder where are we getting this mentality from? who told these guys people in nigeria are suffering while the ones in abroad are the fortunate ones?
And that is how some of my friends will come home and be sneaking/hiding from people as if we way they here dey hungry, even with your coming home i will still flex you and host you so what the fvck?
Like what the op said in his first statement that - ''leave that your native brain'' to HELL with him if he thinks he is better off than some here because he thinks like a native fowl too. Leave your yeye bride and bigboyism too etc
I dont know his family or background but i believe he his part of the people who scream ''moti bo - Am free'' when he got his visa at walter carrington in VI

XhosaNostra:



Yeah, with them it's always about sex & they're very vulgar about it, which I find offputting. Lol, he didn't even have the decency to offer to pay for your travel arrangements if you're going to be his sex slave? Smh.

eduwizard:


What is Akata? Can't you guys ever write something in plain English without including native slangs.

RamessesIV:
Liberals took over government,same people that gave blacks rights,gays rights too

Kobojunkie:


Nigerians laws and cultures have women living as subhumans aka slaves.
Why do you think women continue to fight for equality in the eyes of the law ? Have you not been able tp put 2&2 together by now on that ?

lenghtinny:

Oh! Life’s all about the free sex now.....

f na whitey Dey share puna up and down, she’s liberal but if na naija or black babe, she’s loose ( you people love to call it ashawo).

I still don’t get how you hail the white babes yet bash the black babes for the same thing.

It’s called hypocrisy....

Jaqenhghar:

Hahaha. Iknow right. That reminds me. I was having lunch and 2 of my colleagues, white girls were there gisting. I think they were talking relationships. Then I overheard one tell the other something like. "You know black men cant resist white women...". Out of the corner of my eye I saw the other nudge her and gestured her to keep it down. I did the poker face thing but deep inside I was really angry. But then whose fault is it really we act like coons around them.

Sterope:


I don't know of that woman that wants her husband to respect her as another adult but who would prefer a doormat for her brothers. Example, is me. My brothers don't want a doormat and their masculinity is not threatened because of fear of treating another human being with respect, kindness and understanding.

Dollywood:


Hahahahaha, I'm literally laughing my ass out �

Zoie:

Do you mind the guy? Lol. He was looking for black skinned Africana to fvck. But God pass am.

MOnkeyBabe:
my brother is married to one

XhosaNostra:


Would you ever settle for one though? I don't know why I don't find them attractive. Maybe if I didn't have to kiss one I could give it a try. There's just something about the inside of their mouth I find repulsive, every single one

eduwizard:


What is Akata? Can't you guys ever write something in plain English without including native slangs.

Eniolakiite:
My view is many Africans don’t have a good cultural identity.

We move to Germany, we behave like them. We move to UK, we behave like them immediately. We move to US, France...and so on and we keep behaving like them. It’s unfortunate.
I see Indian men and women who immigrated here who still act their values and culture irrespective of how much dollars they earn or where they work.

But Africans, immediately they cross that Atlantic ocean like this, we change everything and no originality again. It’s unfortunate.

Stop changing your real self because of change of location.

One4me:
Everyone should be happy with the way Technology is helping shape human relations.
Women like you want to "subdue" men by all means necessary, hiding under the pretext of "equality and protection", when in actaul fact, what you are aspiring for is "subjugation and oppression" of the men folk!

The trend has been on the rise for sometime now, especially in the West.
And a lot of people wonder: Why do men go into this arrangement called MARRIAGE, that seeks to emasculate, subjugate and oppress them?
The answer is that most Men are created to want "Love/Sex and Children.
Most men see Women as THE ONLY MEANS fo realising those two things.

What else does a man want froma woman, apart from those two, think about it for a minute?
Your wife will give you regular sexual satisfaction (as much as you would give her too though they like to pretend that it is just for your own benefit!) and then she will be pregnant with your child and bear children for you, to continue your lineage.
That is what majority of Men cheirsh in marriage that keeps them falling into the same trap of marriage, despite the very visible dangers it poses to their health and life. But that is changing radically now and l am loving it McDonalds
Men is very desperate situation who lose their mind when they cannot take the female oppression of their wife anymore, resort to violence as a counter-measure but l think and see it as an act of weakness in that losing control of yourself will always be a negative, an act weakness over "self".

Now, l am certain that in about five years or ten at the most from today, a man will no longer go into marriage solely because he thinks he cant have SEX or CHILDREN, unless he marries or engages a woman in any manner that requires responsiblity ot a woman.
This is the best thing that can happen to women, since the invention of The Pill.

A man can have unlimited Sex and have his own Children, .....yes, his own children, without the need for the drama and dangers of women!
You dont need a WIFE to have sex children and ensure your family name is carried to the next generation.
From surrogate Mothers, to outright in-vitro ferterlisation of a donor egg (which we can soon be buying off Amazon or Ebay, in afew years time ) with your own sperm!
Who needs to bother his head with laws that seek to cage men or give his sweat to an ex-wife or make him pay Child support to fund the wayward lifestyle of a bitch?
I watched Andersen Cooper on CNN the way he held his baby and there was not single mention of "his Mother"....... and that blew my mind!
Women will just have to live in their own lane (Yes, have their own Children and sex, without Men) and Men to will live in their own lane.
No more taking advanatge of any law to "protect women" or give them a leg-up.

And l also forsee one thing: Very soon, just like the clash of the planet of Apes, we are going to have an open, physical, bloody war between men and Women, and at the end of that war, one gender will be conquered and out in their place.
It could be the male or it could be the female gender!

Zoie:

Lol. What happened to his mouth?
I don't think I'm as attracted to white guys as I am to dark skinned black guys.
Though there's some element of attraction, I prefer dark guys.

AfroKnight:
See, marriage is a lose-lose situation for any straight manly man in the US.

Two ways to be happily married as a man.
1. Be lucky to find a good wife. ( Good luck finding one)

2. Learn how to be happy with (and for) yourself regardless of good or bad energy from your wife. Derive your joy from your everyday small wins.

There’s one last option but it involves being a foôl
3. Be a simp.


Women have arm twisted that society to hand them the keys of the kingdom. Being masculine puts you at a disadvantage. You must take shît or they’ll grind your àss. It’s so bad that raising your own son to be a man is deemed toxic. But you’d see them applauding you if your little boy grew up to be a woman.

Hierarchy of importance in the American home:
1. Your children
2. Wife
3. Pets
4. Furniture
5. And finally You, the man.

emmaodet:


Lol.
Ok i get you now.
I also believe they are getting wiser now not to come home and pick a woman.
There was a time people in Lagos too do go back to their villages or hometown to pick women with the excuse that cities girls are bad but now such is no more again

Sterope:
Sarcasm is lost on you
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Amazo1:
a story is told of a man who wanted to marry, I will never marry any of this city girls, they are too wayward he would say.he contacted his mother who quickly found him a bride. Bride price was paid all marriage arrangements concluded. The new bride moved to Lagos to live with her husband. Night came and the husband was expecting to unveil his virgin bride. pre-intimacy started, the husband casually touch his pubic hair, he noticed a large growth,why not think of shaving it one of this days ask the husband. No no no I will not touch it , that's why I am called afro baby by all the village boys

Kingarthur21:
aside the court of law(due to divorce or child support) they can't treat you wrongly. You don't have to spend a kobo on them,enjoy free sex because they are liberal (you can go a whole year without paying ashawo).

Just don't get them pregnant,or marry them, you are safe