Why do you Make people feel Guilty for being quiet. I will not describe myself as Quiet per say, I'm just very reserved. I allow relationships to form Organically.
People in my society have so many wrong Opinions about people who are quiet, calm or Gentle. Some think you are a Nice person just because you are quiet, others think you are Shy or timid.
Some will say Quiet people are the most dangerous. You hear phrases like "those people wey no dey talk I dey fear Dem oh, Dem be confirm slow poison".
If you are an attractive woman or a Good-looking guy, ah! You are in trouble. Many will say you are proud. Some will just automatically like you, show some sort of Partiality to you and if you don't want to be friends with them, You've made more enemies.
Some think they can ride or bully a quiet person, especially if he/she is gentle.

The ignorance in our society, the stupidity, the rgidity and Inflexibility, the impatience... Needs to Change.
Share your views, observations and comments.

People say that quiet people are the most toxic because they don't say what's on their minds. I get so mad when I hear people say this. They see conservativeness as a weakness and a tool for bitterness. They say quiet people are too proud, they say they are too "this" , they are too "that" .

Since when did it become necessary to be an extrovert? Every extrovert wants people with introverted nature to behave like them, when they don't, they see them as their enemy. Some people are quiet for various reasons, you shouldn't make that a function of their character.

Just as there are advantages and disadvantages of being introverted, there are also the same features for being extroverted. Don't criticize people because of their personality, nor be you create them.

Fear of the unknown

GreaterFuture1:
Why do you Make people feel Guilty for being quiet. I will not describe myself as Quiet per say, I'm just very reserved. I allow relationships to form Organically, naturally.
People in my society have so many wrong Opinions about people who are quiet or calm and Gentle. Some think you are a Nice person just because you are quiet, others think you are just Shy or timid.
Some will say Quiet people are the most dangerous. You hear phrases like "those people wey no dey talk I dey fear Dem oh, Dem be confirm slow poison"
If you are an attractive woman or Good-looking guy or you just have that confident look (like being bearded and all), Many will say you are proud. Some just automatically like you lol. Some think they can ride or bully a quiet person, especially if he/she is gentle SMH.

The ignorance in our society, the stupidity, the rgidity and Inflexibility, the conservativeness, the impatience, is all affecting every bit of our lives.

Share your views, observation and comments.

Doesn't conservatism support be quite and reserved? Abi you are one of these leftist liberals?



PS: not just Nigeria. It's everywhere in the world.

must u force pipu to talk?

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Doesn't conservatism support be quite and reserved? Abi you are one of these leftist liberals?



PS: not just Nigeria. It's everywhere in the world.

I think I may have used that word incorrectly, I've modified the post. What I meant was people who are not willing to accept people and a way of life different from the regular they are used to. Eg like the typical gregariousness in our communities and society. Abeg make English no scatter my brain abeg lol. I hope you get my point sha

They want to know you

OP you are the one bothered. I don't care what people think or say about me.

“Don’t judge me because I’m quiet. No one plans a murder out loud.”
~
Amy Efaw

Quietness is a good way to avoid see finish and at all cost see finish must be avoided

The story of my life

People would always fear, respect or admire whoever they can't unravel.

It sucks. They won't let u be calm in peace.

What is quiet people's problem with Nigerians?
Let people be how they want to be.
Stop feeling special.

Mizwisdom:
They want to know you

Why?

Mariangeles:
What is quiet people's problem with Nigerians?
Let people be how they want to be.
Stop feeling special.

What?

bukatyne:
People would always fear, respect or admire whoever they can't unravel.

Hmmn add dislike to it too

I swear I'm hated or scorned cause I hardly talk.

I have often been stereotyped like that, it's really annoying.

bukatyne:
People would always fear, respect or admire whoever they can't unravel.

Thou art Wise!!

Abeg help me ask them o, we are in same shoes but I no dey send anybody though. Zero friends

Mariangeles:
What is quiet people's problem with Nigerians?
Let people be how they want to be.
Stop feeling special.

You are an idiot!

sacajawea:

You are an idiot!

Honestly, I do not have the answer to your problem, but I pray you get the help you need.