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You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by contumely2: 7:36am On May 11, 2020
You are not meant to chase ladies, you attract them, initiate a valuable conversation in a cute way every other thing falls into place.

You get what you want by bringing VALUE in exchange of her time invested, friendship & relationship sets in effortlessly but distinctively defined.

Work on yourself first; Build capacity, build strong but admirable character, be comfortable in your skin, carve a niche for yourself and you won't have troubles getting ladies attention, take my word for it.

"When you chase the cat it will run away, but when you have what the cat want it comes to you" and that is the power of ATTRACTION.

Finally, learn to take them out to fun places, ladies love the sight and smell of a serene environment, and spend a little bit of cash to make them have fun, some guys are just too stingy when it comes to that.

Do that without attaching or expecting anything in return for the little cash spent. Some guys get it wrong, once they make a little financial commitment the next thing their mind tells them is to try to sleep with her.
Chill, everything will take shape once you are calm, friendly and expect almost nothing back, that's how it works.



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Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by Davash222(m): 7:38am On May 11, 2020
Some guys get it wrong, once they make a little financial commitment the next thing their mind tells them is to try to sleep with her






So, after spending money, one still have to kill himself before the girl can surrender the smelly kpekus
Talk to your Nigerian girls, if they're not ready for a sexual relationship, they shouldn't lead a guy on by siphoning his money!

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Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by KaideeGee(m): 7:39am On May 11, 2020
Don't you guys have anything beta to think about.

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Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by evanso6226(f): 7:39am On May 11, 2020

Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by contumely2: 7:40am On May 11, 2020
KaideeGee:
Don't you guys have anything beta to think about.
NO
Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by donbachi(m): 7:50am On May 11, 2020
if u like apply all the Laws of attraction,consult the spirit incharge of attraction...the spirit will advice you to use money.that's the only thing that attracts women.

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Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by tobby20: 7:53am On May 11, 2020
donbachi:
if u like apply all the Laws of attraction,consult the spirit incharge of attraction...the spirit will advice you to use money.that's the only thing that attracts women.
The law of attraction is shit I swr
Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by OscarJaden(m): 8:00am On May 11, 2020
if you like swallow magnet,it won't still attract an average Nigeria girl...the only thing that attract Nigeria girl is money

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Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by Nobody: 9:36am On May 11, 2020
But how come king Solomon have 300 concubine and gave them no fúcking money
No horse wagon no beautiful designer how come
The guys sense was truly from above cool
Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by Toks2008(m): 9:56am On May 11, 2020
contumely2:
You are not meant to chase ladies, you attract them, initiate a valuable conversation in a cute way every other thing falls into place.

You get what you want by bringing VALUE in exchange of her time invested, friendship & relationship sets in effortlessly but distinctively defined.

Work on yourself first; Build capacity, build strong but admirable character, be comfortable in your skin, carve a niche for yourself and you won't have troubles getting ladies attention, take my word for it.

"When you chase the cat it will run away, but when you have what the cat want it comes to you" and that is the power of ATTRACTION.

Finally, learn to take them out to fun places, ladies love the sight and smell of a serene environment, and spend a little bit of cash to make them have fun, some guys are just too stingy when it comes to that.

Do that without attaching or expecting anything in return for the little cash spent. Some guys get it wrong, once they make a little financial commitment the next thing their mind tells them is to try to sleep with her.
Chill, everything will take shape once you are calm, friendly and expect almost nothing back, that's how it works.



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ubunja
panspohist
martinez39s

ilegend.toks2008

pcguru
mrfuckallday totonarubber

You are right
Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by TOMSY(f): 10:46am On May 11, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
But how come king Solomon have 300 concubine and gave them no fúcking money
No horse wagon no beautiful designer how come
The guys sense was truly from above cool
You're talking of someone who had Looks, Money and Status (LMS) going for him at the same time.
Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by Nobody: 11:15am On May 11, 2020
TOMSY:

You're talking of someone who had Looks, Money and Status (LMS) going for him at the same time.
Babe with those things you mentioned
If a guy have everything
He will still have to give girls of nowadays money
Before they love him or have feelings for him
You all niaja girls generally like money walai cool
Re: You don't Chase Ladies, You Attract Them by kiddoiLL(m): 12:06pm On May 11, 2020
while this post us somewhat right it's also basically crap. I think there has to be a balance between both.
If you want her, you go for her. Tell her your intentions, try to win her over. Don't just expect to be Leonardo DiCaprio and expect then to fall in your laps like manna while labelling it attraction.
If you go for her and she doesn't respond well, then you be a man and leave her behind.
Simple as that, men will always go for who they want.
Rich, Smart, Caring, loving or not, every single guy will go for the woman they want, or at least show they want the woman.
Attraction has to work both ways, haven't you seen good and bad guys that females are attracted to yet they act like it's nothing?

Let's say you achieve everything, you're Leonardo DiCaprio, most girls are attracted to you, but the woman you want ain't attracted to you. Would you keep waiting for that attraction to sprung out of no where or would you vet your ass up and at least give it a chase?


Look at it this way, Arsenal FC is one of England's biggest football club, in the best city in England, Amazing Club Facilities. In simple term, Arsenal FC irrespective of their recent failures remains an attractive club worldwide. Players would be attracted to the club, but if Arsenal FC don't go chasing for those players to come. Do you think the players will approach Arsenal? Do you think it'll work out?
The players would only give signs in public statements, Arsenal still have to do the chase, except it's not a player they want.

It's almost like that with good relationships.

you will have to chase and go after any woman you want.

Now you can take everything I've said and put it in the trash if your post is meant for guys looking for just fun and sexual encounters.

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