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If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by lukui: 9:03am On May 14, 2020 |
WHAT WOULD YOU DO ? A woman tells her husband that she is going to visit her sick mum in the village. She goes on Friday and returns on Sunday, with plenty of fruits and food stuff, saying they are from her mum to the husband and the children. Then, the husband gently asks her about her mother's health and how she was doing, to which she replies that she took her to the hospital in the village and she is recovering and getting better. The wife adds that her mother insisted that she must re-visit the village in a few days, to spend at least a week with her. "I'm worried about Mama" the wife crooned, with tears swelling in her eyes. "She'll be fine, dear." Husband lovingly replied. The husband then politely asks her to take the items to the kitchen. As she enters, she meets her mother preparing food in the kitchen. Apparently, her mum came visiting since the Friday that she left home. *You can imagine the plight of this woman. stuck, shocked, dazed and dumb founded at the kitchen door! whether to go in and drop the item's from mama', or return to her husband in the living room! *How would you handle this case if you're the husband or what explanation will you give if you're the woman? Please your humble opinion is required. |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by DaddyGngeess(m): 9:05am On May 14, 2020 |
This one need serous thinking ooo coming back to answer 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Sunni15: 9:14am On May 14, 2020 |
hmm! for me I think there is no two ways about it than for the wife to used the front door as the die is already cast. although it's kind of individual difference |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Juliusmomoh: 9:17am On May 14, 2020 |
Inside life 1 Like |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Wayne4uall(m): 9:18am On May 14, 2020 |
Make she explain were she go..... This can be so painful..only a real man can control his emotions in this type of situation. I don't pray to expirenced it in my life. The world is really coming to an end, more wifes becoming unfaithful lately,... Leeme sit down and listen to wat married men are ready to say 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by BeerParlour: 9:20am On May 14, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: 1 Share
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Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Sunni15: 9:59am On May 14, 2020 |
Wayne this one doesn't even need any explanation, the purported sick mum is there what will she explain |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Elite14(m): 10:33am On May 14, 2020 |
Kasala don burst |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Starz825(m): 10:46am On May 14, 2020 |
See, I don't know Abt other people, but me as a person, I have actually vowed not to divorce or separate with any woman I choose to be my wife....no matter what!! That's why i will take my time to find the right woman (Dem plenty no doubt am).... because she is the right woman doesn't mean she won't make mistake, she would... definitely, she could lose her mind too ( She's human Don't forget).... However, I said Right woman, because she can easily come back to her right senses by speaking one on one with her(to know her plight).. Not all married women cheats because they are hoes right from their days of being single..some lose focus , maybe because of the pressure within. I am a man with the right senses, so I am looking forward to marrying a woman with the right senses 3 Likes |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Nobody: 10:55am On May 14, 2020 |
My ADVICE: I will simply ask her to pack her things and join her MaMa in the VILLAGE till she recovers fully and she should also keep a Medical Report ready stating what MaMa was treated for and how many days she spent on admission as such Document will form my Legal standpoint .. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Shedrack36(m): 11:19am On May 14, 2020 |
no thing much,I will do the DNA of the kids, then she will park out of my house because if I leave her one day d children will be claimed from me. early the better. |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Israeljones(m): 1:02pm On May 14, 2020 |
Other aspect to this story.... what if the husband was jobless and the wife had gone out to find and lock down a contract job for the husband but doesnt want to tell him becos she wanted to make it a huge suprise..... Sometimes the plot of a story always look like have one direction but in actually sense there are different sides to it 2 Likes |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by MummyIMadeIt: 1:21pm On May 14, 2020 |
If I were the man(husband), I will just play it cool. No shouting, no harassing, no questioning. In fact if she comes to explain things with me, I will be like "Darling, it's okay let's just forget about the past". But me to eat her food, it's a No from that day, cos I can't tell what she can do. Meanwhile I will secretly carry out paternity test on my kids to be sure of that one first. The way I will so shower her with love for the meantime until the paternity Test result comes out, she will run mad with confusion. My final decision will be made after the result comes through 1 Like |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Rickmann: 1:52pm On May 14, 2020 |
lukui: Its going to take God himself to still keep me in that marriage. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Rickmann: 1:55pm On May 14, 2020 |
Israeljones: Bullshit!..All that ridiculous lies for a damn surprise? |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Mprex(f): 1:58pm On May 14, 2020 |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Shukusheka(m): 3:22pm On May 14, 2020 |
I see Op has been watching too many Nollywood movies. You will make a good scriptwriter. |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by willi926(m): 3:51pm On May 14, 2020 |
Starz825:U have not answered the question in any way |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by OlawaleBammie: 3:54pm On May 14, 2020 |
lukui: Wetin u want make i do?? Na to switch on my DSTV and start watching NatGeoWild na, abi a wan kill her?? |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by Starz825(m): 4:03pm On May 14, 2020 |
willi926:The question is what are you going to do in this case, assuming u are the husband? And i have answered that in my statement... keep it a secret from the mother... Then we get down to a one on one talk....(there must be a reason why she cheated).. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by GennyCheta(f): 4:21pm On May 14, 2020 |
This is really hard. Trust is gone what's the essence of the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by BBBells: 11:05am On Mar 28, 2021 |
ok |
Re: If You Were The Husband : What Would You Do? by richmond500: 11:09am On Mar 28, 2021 |
GennyCheta:nice comment |
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