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Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by Haynnie: 11:48pm On Aug 31, 2022
There's this couple who has been married for five years now and they both live happily with each other. both of them were working class In two different companies. As it was, the woman had little or no chance to keep up with chores and wife duties. So as the man. It brought unsatisfactory remarks from her husband. It became her idea to bring in a housemaid to help with the chores.
The housemaid came in and start living with them and it got to a year when the housemaid has been serving in the house.

One fateful day, the man was at home after he closed from work early and he was left alone with the maid in the house. The man then called the housemaid to his room and had sex with her.
After a month and two weeks, the maid noticed she hasn't seen her monthly flow and was forced to do a pregnancy test which came out positive. She showed the result to the man and the man insisted she shouldn't keep the pregnancy and keep it a secret from his wife.
As the situation prevailed for a week the man's wife noticed the hostile behavior of their husband towards the maid and how he quickly excuse the maid whenever she cones in.

One day, The man told the maid to pack out of the house so she won't cause trouble for him and his wife. And she did. His wife came back from work to see the housemaid was gone. She asked her husband what happened. He lied to his wife that he saw the housemaid saying some diabolical incantation at their doorpost and was forced to pack her out.
The woman believed him and commend her husband for taking action quickly. On the next money, she took her husband's car instead of hers to work. On her way to work she opened the Pidgeon hole to check if she had the car papers were intact when she saw the pregnancy test result and the name written on it was the housemaid's name. She became very infuriated and called the housemaid and the housemaid apologized for betraying her trust and confidence she had in her. She also said she had to leave the house because her husband told her to as to not cause trouble between the couple and she has already aborted the baby and would not come back to the house as she thought is the best option to do.
After the woman heard from her housemaid, she accepted her apology and drove back home to pack her things, that's literally leaving the marriage to settle elsewhere.

The man was exposed and the man begged for forgiveness involving both his parents and inlaws to help him beg his wife to come back to him that he's a changed person and it would not happen again.

From the story above, if you are the woman will you be able to accept your husband and come back to the marriage for a second trial if really he claimed he is a changed person?

If you are fur woman what will you do?

Nairalanders in the house I need your opinion urgently (Is a serious case)
Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by libertyfather(m): 12:03am On Sep 01, 2022
How come some people are this lucky, any small thing the marriage scarter

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Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by advanceDNA: 12:44am On Sep 01, 2022
What is serious here...he's a cheat....she should leave him and start over with another cheat man
Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by Nobody: 12:48am On Sep 01, 2022
If you can't bear the hurt please leave, we don't want to see anyone on Trucrimedaniel's page.
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Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by Mrscarter(f): 1:24am On Sep 01, 2022
Haynnie:
There's this couple who has been married for five years now and they both live happily with each other. both of them were working class In two different companies. As it was, the woman had little or no chance to keep up with chores and wife duties. So as the man. It brought unsatisfactory remarks from her husband. It became her idea to bring in a housemaid to help with the chores.
The housemaid came in and start living with them and it got to a year when the housemaid has been serving in the house.

One fateful day, the man was at home after he closed from work early and he was left alone with the maid in the house. The man then called the housemaid to his room and had sex with her.
After a month and two weeks, the maid noticed she hasn't seen her monthly flow and was forced to do a pregnancy test which came out positive. She showed the result to the man and the man insisted she shouldn't keep the pregnancy and keep it a secret from his wife.
As the situation prevailed for a week the man's wife noticed the hostile behavior of their husband towards the maid and how he quickly excuse the maid whenever she cones in.

One day, The man told the maid to pack out of the house so she won't cause trouble for him and his wife. And she did. His wife came back from work to see the housemaid was gone. She asked her husband what happened. He lied to his wife that he saw the housemaid saying some diabolical incantation at their doorpost and was forced to pack her out.
The woman believed him and commend her husband for taking action quickly. On the next money, she took her husband's car instead of hers to work. On her way to work she opened the Pidgeon hole to check if she had the car papers were intact when she saw the pregnancy test result and the name written on it was the housemaid's name. She became very infuriated and called the housemaid and the housemaid apologized for betraying her trust and confidence she had in her. She also said she had to leave the house because her husband told her to as to not cause trouble between the couple and she has already aborted the baby and would not come back to the house as she thought is the best option to do.
After the woman heard from her housemaid, she accepted her apology and drove back home to pack her things, that's literally leaving the marriage to settle elsewhere.

The man was exposed and the man begged for forgiveness involving both his parents and inlaws to help him beg his wife to come back to him that he's a changed person and it would not happen again.

From the story above, if you are the woman will you be able to accept your husband and come back to the marriage for a second trial if really he claimed he is a changed person?

If you are fur woman what will you do?

Nairalanders in the house I need your opinion urgently (Is a serious case)

Nope. Cos i used to think it be easy to give second chance n forget. But the forget part too hard. Trust is broken n everytime they online or on a call u think they talking to a woman everytime they go out u wonder if they with a woman. Everytime he kiss u touch u a certain way u wonder did he touch her that way. When he make u laugh u wonder if thats wat he did to her or when he say sweet things is it same he said to her. If u love someone then honestly u don't want to even look at anyone else in that way let alone let em touch u. So nope not in marraige u dont forgive if either husband or wife cheat

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Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by penultimatee(m): 2:17am On Sep 01, 2022
It's a terrible case, but at the same time the wife need to consider the husband and forgive him.They both need a therapist as to restore peace and trust into their home.
Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by Kobojunkie: 2:49am On Sep 01, 2022
Haynnie:
From the story above, if you are the woman will you be able to accept your husband and come back to the marriage for a second trial if really he claimed he is a changed person?

If you are fur woman what will you do?

Nairalanders in the house I need your opinion urgently (Is a serious case)
Nothing wrong with what the woman did. Some folks have what seems a very low threshold for bullsheet whereas some others have high tolerance level for all sorts of bullsheet - you can stab them in the eye even and they will continue to hold on. undecided

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Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by Kobojunkie: 2:53am On Sep 01, 2022
penultimatee:
It's a terrible case, but at the same time the wife need to consider the husband and forgive him. They both need a therapist as to restore peace and trust into their home.
Who tell you say therapists be magicians? undecided

Once trust is iost between two individuals no amount of therapy or medication can restore that which is lost. Some couples pretend trust can be restored but the truth is we humans rarely trust the one we loose trust for again. undecided

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Re: Cheating Husband- What Will You Do If You Are The Woman? (opinions Needed) by Hotchoco4258(f): 7:27am On Sep 01, 2022
Just waka jeje

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