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Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 10:25pm On May 19, 2020 |
ElasmoBranchii:so this is what you have been doing with my pics. No wonder you refused to call me over. |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by ElasmoBranchii(m): 10:47pm On May 19, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe: So you decided to follow me here. Nice try. I still won't call you. |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Fidelismaria: 11:10pm On May 19, 2020 |
I dey come |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:07am On May 20, 2020 |
ElasmoBranchii:More like the opposite of me I'm 1. Somewhat shy, not much. 2. I am not really a stylish person, If that's what charming means. 3. I'm more of a laid-back guy and like people who takes control. |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by ElasmoBranchii(m): 8:32am On May 20, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: From what I know. Shyness is not so exactly opposite to confidence, they are considered as near antonyms. The stricter antonym of confidence is self-doubt. 1. To be confident takes more than not being shy. To be confident you need to be dominant, shameless, optimistic, selfish, ambitious, feel important, not feeling inadequate, never seek approval etc. 2. Charming is the ability to make people around you feel good about themselves. When you are around people they get positive vibe. To be charming you need to be happy, caring, funny, protective, selective etc 3. Well you need to change. A girl will expect you to take charge so you won't see them as cheap. That is they expect you to approach, go for first kiss, isolate them, initiate sex, persist etc. When you lead they can just follow along, and in case things they are caught doing something they are not "supposed" to do, they can blame it on someone else, specifically, you. |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Kentursky(m): 9:05am On May 20, 2020 |
Many of them and they were devastated. |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Mavinsoladele(m): 9:23am On May 20, 2020 |
Deicide:i like you bro. Reason always with each opportunity |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Dfynboi: 9:53am On May 20, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4:baba na so u ugly reach??lol |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by kizwid(m): 9:56am On May 20, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe:lady, you know, there is fantasy of me walking through your body someday. i have things you need, how you do say them. ama wait for ma turn!! |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Stephenmoka4(m): 9:56am On May 20, 2020 |
Dfynboi:Not ugly, I think it's personality |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:03am On May 20, 2020 |
ElasmoBranchii:Oh, then number 3 is my problem. here. 1. is like 59% and 2 is likely to be 95%+ according to the definition there but, 3 is likely to be 30% of control/dominance/charge. Reason is that I don't want to be seen as a jerk, player or trying to take advantage of... |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by ElasmoBranchii(m): 10:42am On May 20, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: And yet players have better luck. I'm not saying you should be a player in fact if they sense you are one they will put up more resistance. Doing no. 3 shows you are confident and that you want them and they want to feel wanted. Besides that you are attracted to someone doesn't mean they are right for you. You have to keep sampling till you find the one |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by Stephenmoka4(m): 12:01pm On May 20, 2020 |
ElasmoBranchii:I think I'll try that, I'm good at handling rejection (just in case), I'm a pessimistic person, so I can get over it. |
Re: Have U Ever Turned Down A Girls Proposal ? What Was Her Reaction? by ElasmoBranchii(m): 1:24pm On May 20, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: Being pessimistic has it's advantages, that is you'd hardly get disappointed. But you need to be optimistic that girls will like to meet you. Sometimes what you call rejection is resistance that is why you need to persist. Don't take no for an answer. But don't go overboard, if you persist and she still says no then that is rejection, just divert your attention to someone else. |
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