If you get another man again, pls don't forget to test him also with another friend of yours. It's good to test for true love.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Life would be boring without Men or Women, we need eachother. To quote some musicians

1. "Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
It's not warm when she's away
Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
And she's always gone too long anytime she goes away"- Bill Withers.

2. "This is a man's world
This is a man's world
But it wouldn't be nothing
Nothing without a woman or a girl"- James Brown.

u are so old

i am very sure her friend anita told the guy everything and even told some lies to make her friend the villian .any wise lady should know when she is getting serious with a guy the least ppl she should allow getting close to her man are her friends

Imagine seems she has been waiting for it all these while that she was single and married.

Huge betrayal of trust. I guess you learnt the hard way.

MelaninSkinGirl:


, I dont believe men and women can be platonic friends.

a man can be platonic friends with a lady he"s not sexually attracted to.lets say a guy who likes slim and curvy girls can be best of buddies with a fat curveless chick .but a man being platonic friends with a girl he feels a sexual connection with is deceieving himself.sooner or later they will have sex .

lefulefu:
a man can be platonic friends with a lady he"s not sexually attracted to.lets say a guy who likes slim and curvy girls can be best of buddies with a fat curveless chick .but a man being platonic friends with a girl he feels a sexual connection with is deceieving himself.sooner or later they will have sex .

Hahahaha so a beautiful girl cannot have a male bestie?

MelaninSkinGirl:

Hahahaha so a beautiful girl cannot have a male bestie?

wat i might consider beauty in a girl might not be considered beauty by another guy.sure a guy can have girl he is sexually attracted to as a friend but sooner or later they will definetly be fuking.u have heard about besties having sex together countless times havent u?

lefulefu:
wat i might consider beauty in a girl might not be considered beauty by another guy.sure a guy can have girl he is sexually attracted to as a friend but sooner or later they will definetly be fuking.u have heard about besties having sex together countless times havent u?

Of course silly, friends with benefits. It doesnt always end well though. If it goes wrong the friendship is over forever.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Of course silly, friends with benefits. It doesnt always end well though. If it goes wrong the friendship is over forever.

sometimes the guy might not be sexually attracted to the girl but the girl is.she gets angry and jealous wen she sees him making out with other girls and she tries her best to chase such girls away even making angry utterances when she sees him with a girl.there is no how now feelings wont start flowing wen u doing besties excpt if there is no attraction b/w the two.

lefulefu:
sometimes the guy might not be sexually attracted to the girl but the girl is.she gets angry and jealous wen she sees him making out with other girls and she tries her best to chase such girls away even making angry utterances when she sees him with a girl.there is no how now feelings wont start flowing wen u doing besties excpt if there is no attraction b/w the two.

Either way it doesn't end well. I love men as friends but they always want to shoot their shot when my defences are low. So now I unfortunately do not have male friends, too risky and not worth it.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Either way it doesn't end well. I love men as friends but they always want to shoot their shot when my defences are low. So now I unfortunately do not have male friends, too risky and not worth it.

always create a boundary b/w u and ur male friends .for example if u have a male visitor reciieving him at home in only ur underwear can give him a wrong message.wen he is around make sure u fully clothed and also body contacts as well.wen a lady observes this the guy will respect his boundary and if he has any sexual attaction from u he will cut off or make the friendship as less close as possible.thats how smart ladies tend to give out the message to guys that they aint available .

lefulefu:
always create a boundary b/w u and ur male friends .for example if u have a male visitor reciieving him at home in only ur underwear can give him a wrong message.wen he is around make sure u fully clothed and also body contacts as well.wen a lady observes this the guy will respect his boundary and if he has any sexual attaction from u he will cut off or make the friendship as less close as possible.thats how smart ladies tend to give out the message to guys that they aint available .

I have done all of that, they try to.force body contact with lingering hugs, changing the conversation to s....e......x....u..a..l innuendos. Ah no more male friendships for me.

MelaninSkinGirl:


I have done all of that, they try to.force body contact with lingering hugs, changing the conversation to s....e......x....u..a..l innuendos. Ah no more male friendships for me.

lol change d guys u make friends wit

JOACHINpedro:
It ended at the alter

ALTAR

lefulefu:
lol change d guys u make friends wit

Yes blame the victim

lefulefu:
lol change d guys u make friends wit

Lessons have been learnt.

hardluck

JOACHINpedro:
It ended at the altar

nt d end in tears quote. lol

MelaninSkinGirl:


Life would be boring without Men or Women, we need eachother. To quote some musicians

1. "Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
It's not warm when she's away
Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
And she's always gone too long anytime she goes away"- Bill Withers.

2. "This is a man's world
This is a man's world
But it wouldn't be nothing
Nothing without a woman or a girl"- James Brown.

Writes sth looking like support of men and women.
Then goes on to bring two feeble quotes supporting women.

#MentalGymnastics#Women101

MelaninSkinGirl:


I have done all of that, they try to.force body contact with lingering hugs, changing the conversation to s....e......x....u..a..l innuendos. Ah no more male friendships for me.

Local girl realized she couldn't replicate movies in the real-world... to many variables.

lol this thingy is risky..a friend once asked me to help him test his girl's faithfulness...I ended up hitting her once...but lied to the guy that she was a faithful type and I was unable to break her defences... crazy

MelaninSkinGirl:


Yes blame the victim

not necessiraly blaming a victim.just for the would be victim to take precaution

lefulefu:
not necessiraly blaming a victim.just for the would be victim to take precaution

Noted!!!