Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

I swear, u no get problems.
See as u just dey oil ur mouth dey go
Instead of u to pray to God make u no spend one decade post-nysc sucking it mama breast u come dey yab satan
So you think after nysc you're financially free? Sister, even marriage no fit endear u d guts to survive dis mission impossible cos na now reality go settle in making it Papa house ur sole refuge.
Even though u no appreciate it parents now, it's better u begin to plan to
Soon na dem go dey push u out n u no go gree

I am a fashion designer so bros concerning financial issue,i can never go broke cause i have a system to financial freedom.i can neuer remain poor when i am industrous.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

Yemi
Yemii
Yemiiii

how many times did I call you?

I understand the dilema you are in, IF YOU MAKE MISTAKE OF OPENING UP TO THEM, THEY MIGHT CARRY YOUR MATTER TO OUTSIDERS... And if you keep being this way, they might label you and begin to suspect you falsely so pls be calm

GOOD NEWS IS= YOU WILL SOON LEAVE THE HOUSE FOR NYSC, so be calm

There is a deep level of patience when you know that you are in a process of becoming FREE.

So here is my advice, FAKE IT... yes, FAKE THE CHIT CHAT they want, FORCE YOURSELF TO ASK THEM QUESTIONS(that you already know the answers to) and listen to them talk happily.....

You must learn to understand that THEY HAVE LOST TOUCH with your generation and personality, and this gives you opportunity to use them to practice RE-BRANDING.... yes o, RE-BRAND your image before them WITHOUT divulging any truth about yourself.

The motive behind this is just to have PEACE OF MIND

If you can download movies they love and set it up for everyone to watch, it would really help.... you have to be wiser and mature enough to make these moves so that their labeling won't become a final stigma on you.

Make friends online and chat or call them all day in the presence of your folks and they may begin to see you in a better light.

LASTLY, I suggest, you read digital books or read books only when they are all sleeping. Ensure when you go for NYSC, make it count and do not return back to live in that house.

REMEMBER- IT IS JUST A PHASE

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

Heh. You have life all figured out, huh?

Yemialade:
I am a fashion designer so bros concerning financial issue,i can never go broke cause i have a system to financial freedom.i can neuer retmain poor when i am industrous.

No one is asking you to go broke
I bet even Dangote is missing the refuge, warmth and security of his parents house. There's really no place like home dear

Ishilove:

Heh. You have life all figured out, huh?

Lol....
Please allow her to detest the freedom she so .... craves for by herself

Same here dear.
My own worst

temblor1:

Lol....
Please allow her to detest the freedom she so .... craves for by herself

Hehehehehe.

Thanks i really appreciate,i will watch tv with them,chit chat with them on general talks,just d way they want it.til i go for my service,its just a matter of time.

Aunty, you too interact with them nah, it's not that difficult, the earlier you learn that the better for you,so you don't become a bore to your future husband.

It's just the things we have to deal with until we can comfortably move out. Yeah you have a fashion business, but are you mentally ready to move out?

Trust me, people have it more worse than you. This is even a "good problem", your parents just want to be closer to you and they are sincerely concerned about you.

Now stop acting like one spoilt oyibo kid and try to make your parents happy

Yemialade:
Thanks i really appreciate,i will watch tv with them,chit chat with them on general talks,just d way they want it.til i go for my service,its just a matter of time.

In years to come, you will grow to value and cherish them.

Money aint a thing. There are things that money cannot buy.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

Oh you'll come back (even if it's just for visits as expected). This is just a momentary outburst many people in your shoes consider. They never quite go through with it. You'd realise some things are more important than others as you age.


If my parents did something like this to me it'll get on my nerves for sure. Just bear in mind that they're your parents and they mean well. Maybe they're still looking at you as a helpless child; they want you to turn out as they've imagined. It might've been so in their generation but things have changed now.

I think you should indulge them as much as you can and are willing to so they'll give you a breather and not ask the same things over and over again.

Don't think you've got your life figured out totally by the way. Surprises happen. Cheers.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

sorry dear,im also an extreme introvert like you, its only online we have mouth to talk lol. Just be patient with them till your nysc

Rozz :
sorry dear,im also an extreme introvert like you, its only online we have mouth to talk lol. Just be patient with them till your nysc

but you dey enter ashewo thread dey ginger guys. Next time I see you on that thread, I go carry bottle pursue you

Morray:
but you dey enter ashewo thread dey ginger guys. Next time I see you on that thread, I go carry bottle pursue you

lol you follow me come ba

Lols.

Yemialade:
Thanks i really appreciate,i will watch tv with them,chit chat with them on general talks,just d way they want it.til i go for my service,its just a matter of time.

pride goes before a fall.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

Your parents only want you to have a good relationship with them so that the entire family can relate well.

Yemialade:
Hello nairalanders,hope you are all doing great.
Kindly advise me,this lockdown period has been tough on me.am an introvert(i make new friends and like to mingle with people especially people i trust cause am selective)i dont trust my parent talkless of confiding in them about my life,this cause d level of communication to drop.my parent were like am having problems,am lonely and this morning i learnt my mother reported me to our neighbour that am too quiet,i dont confide in her and so on.i was irritated..i cant wait for my nysc service to come for me to move out of that house and never come back again.

If you have passed through a negative feelings or experience in life that made you to become an introvert, try and forgive so that you can move on

If you just nurtured yourself to be an introvert then you are the one doing yourself

Introverts are never happy people

NiklauseFred:
Same here dear.
My own worst

create a thread for it naaa please, other people in such Dilemma may learn

temblor1:

No one is asking you to go broke
I bet even Dangote is missing the refuge, warmth and security of his parents house. There's really no place like home dear

The above-mentioned is very easy to say if you're already out of your father's house.
"Money is not everything" na who don make am dey yarn that kyn talk�

Looks like you changed behaviour of late or you grew up this way?@Op

I didnt grew tp like this.

I didnt grew up this way.

congrats,......they still love u

frozen70:


If you have passed through a negative feelings or experience in life that made you to become an introvert, try and forgive so that you can move on

If you just nurtured yourself to be an introvert then you are the one doing yourself

Introverts are never happy people

Learn to talk reasonably, ok?

[quote author=frozen70 post=90034258]

If you have passed through a negative feelings or experience in life that made you to become an introvert, try and forgive so that you can move on

If you just nurtured yourself to be an introvert then you are the one doing yourself

Introverts are never happy people [/quotes.]
Not true
Who told you introverts are never happy people
I wonder where you got your fact from

CsRockefeller:


Learn to talk reasonably, ok?

Are you an introvert