I'm on my early thirty I've a gf , we have been dating 1 year now and I love her but i notice something strange because we have been staying together since the locked down , I notice she password her phone and don't get comfortable if I'm going through her phone . She wont upload my pictures on facebook or whatsapp saying because her previous relationship she upload his pictures and he broke her heart wish was truth but she refuse to tell me the real reason why he broke up with her , she only told me he traveled to SA and stop keeping in touch with her , wish dont sound right to me

She keeps telling me she want us to get married but I have never been introduce to her sister or mom because they live in north and she stays with me in Lagos , she tends to ask me for everything she needs and I try my best to make her happy but recently I felt I'm giving too much and I dont know what to do .

I've never been a lover boy she make me love her she post pictures of her male friends in school wishing them happy birthday and have alot of male pictures on her phone telling me they are her friends , I really dont want to be a bf that complains and not give her privacy but sometimes I get worried because I feel shes not proud of me enough but why does she keep telling me about marriage and I'm not ready to settle down because I'm not ready financially

She wont post my pictures and she get jealous when a female friend post my pictures... she's caring and always calls me , text me and want to know everything I'm doing , anytime shes needy im always there for her ..recently she start complaining I ask for sex too much and we are not married ...she said my dick is too big and the other night we had sex and my friend was at the living room she went ahead to ask me weather my dick is bigger than my friend dick I was shocked and told her what kind of question was that...

Recently I felt like she has something shes hiding from me and most time when I ask her questions she get upset and she lies about some questions ..she told me she has never dated any one since we start dating but I went through her chat with her friend and notice she was telling her she broke up with the man wish was not me and and I confronted her she lied that it was her ex she was with before she meet me .please nairaland I need advice .

My friend leave that toxic relationship that won't hide you anything in your life... Tho it will pain you but keep your self busy and download this motivational talks and listen to them. Delete everything pictures that will being memories back to your brain. With that you can forget her.. she doesn't love you.

That was what my ex was doing posting other but can't post mine. Saying rubbish but when I post other girls she get jealous.

if she's smart you should be smarter....
women knows how to be deceitful with emotions, so whatever you do keep emotions out of the picture. think LOGICAL.

luwiizy:
if she's smart you should be smarter....

women knows how to be deceitful with emotions,
so whatever you do keep emotions out of the picture.
think LOGICAL.

I couldn't read this,stopped after the first.someone should quote me with the abridged version.

JustEdward:
My friend leave that toxic relationship that won't hide you anything in your life... Tho it will pain you but keep your self busy and download this motivational talks and listen to them. Delete everything pictures that will being memories back to your brain. With that you can forget her.. she doesn't love you.

That was what my ex was doing posting other but can't post mine. Saying rubbish but when I post other girls she get jealous.

Thank you for the information

Maybe she's also trying the dick sizes of the guys she has in phone too....if she can ask u such a private question if your friend dick is bigger than yours... Watch out before she trys your friend too.... thoughts

Vivianagoja:
Maybe she's also trying the dick sizes of the guys she has in phone too....if she can ask u such a private question if your friend dick is bigger than yours... Watch out before she trys your friend too.... thoughts

Hmm that was deep .. thank you

JustEdward:
My friend leave that toxic relationship that won't hide you anything in your life... Tho it will pain you but keep your self busy and download this motivational talks and listen to them. Delete everything pictures that will being memories back to your brain. With that you can forget her.. she doesn't love you.

That was what my ex was doing posting other but can't post mine. Saying rubbish but when I post other girls she get jealous.

I'll accept my fate and move on .. one of those things ...

She's obviously not committed to you alone...
OP it's time you use your brain don't become a fool because if love

Olalan:
She's obviously not committed to you alone...
OP it's time you use your brain don't become a fool because if love

I thought as much .. thank you

She's a runz girl. That's how they do, they want to get married but will not leave their miserable life while still dating. Run before you regret it.

I don't really understand you? Is it the password or posting of your pictures on Facebook or the big dick I think both of you are not matured enough especially the op.
That posting of pictures on Facebook got me laughing seriously here When you are yet to pay are bride price Both of you are still doing corner corner relationship I just pity the lady, is she a intimacy gadget

Bola146:
I don't really understand you? Is it the password or posting of your pictures on Facebook or the big dick I think both of you are not matured enough especially the op.
That posting of pictures on Facebook got me laughing seriously here When you are yet to pay are bride price Both of you are still doing corner corner relationship I just pity the lady, is she a intimacy gadget

You're so matured my dear .. Thank you .

it will end in tears..
meanwhile she is single, I think this one here is available. dm her

Brother, you are dating YOURSELF.
You'd be truly blind not to see the RED FLAGS.

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bro anytime you ask your partner a particular question and he/she flare up ....that not a good sign man.... she trying to go emotional to save herself.

she hiding something ..... just lock up and move on.

Richardonald:
it will end in tears..

meanwhile she is single, I think this one here is available. dm her

Lol , that cracked me up .. nothing will end with tears
We learn every day.. I mean what is life without experience...

Ningen:
You'd be truly blind not to see the RED FLAGS.

I'll be cautious next time .. thank you

Bola146:
I don't really understand you? Is it the password or posting of your pictures on Facebook or the big dick I think both of you are not matured enough especially the op.
That posting of pictures on Facebook got me laughing seriously here When you are yet to pay are bride price Both of you are still doing corner corner relationship I just pity the lady, is she a intimacy gadget

Look at this fool

Godoverevery:
bro anytime you ask your partner a particular question and he/she flare up ....that not a good sign man.... she trying to go emotional to save herself.

she hiding something ..... just lock up and move on.

Yes it's clear to me .. thank you

Bola146:
I don't really understand you? Is it the password or posting of your pictures on Facebook or the big dick I think both of you are not matured enough especially the op.
That posting of pictures on Facebook got me laughing seriously here When you are yet to pay are bride price Both of you are still doing corner corner relationship I just pity the lady, is she a intimacy gadget

You pity the lady
Yea it must always be about the lady.......see the way anyone decide to run there relationship isn't of ur business / doesn't need to make sense to you.
me and my fiancee post our pic on social media anytime we hang out ....that how we want it and has nothing to do with maturity.

we all have our style of running our affairs....if that wat he wants from his gal it common sense u no it doesn't matter whether you like it or not.

Aykush:
Look at this fool

You be monkey, oniranu oshi

The red flags are there but you are ignoring it...you are not the only one in her life...she is still in the game of flirting ..damn!!! that girl is bit.ch

Bola146:
I don't really understand you? Is it the password or posting of your pictures on Facebook or the big dick I think both of you are not matured enough especially the op.
That posting of pictures on Facebook got me laughing seriously here When you are yet to pay are bride price Both of you are still doing corner corner relationship I just pity the lady, is she a intimacy gadget

Please let's learn to give sound, intelligent pieces of advice to those who need them.


He clearly mentioned that she passwords her phone. That's a red flag. And I won't accept the agrument that it's her privacy because it's hypocritical to to lock her phone while her privates are left unlocked.

He also mentioned her uploading the pictures of Male "friends" on her social media while she never uploads his. Ironically, she gets jealous when other females uploads his pictures. This is self explanatory on it's own.

@OP this is plain and simple.

1. You're not the only one she's dating.
2. You're at the bottom as she's obviously hiding you from those that matter in her life hence your not being introduced to her family and
3. She's not proud of you and sees you as an option

Fearcom:


Please let's learn to give sound, intelligent pieces of advice to those who need them.


He clearly mentioned that she passwords her phone. That's a red flag. And I won't accept the agrument that it's her privacy because it's hypocritical to to lock her phone while her privates are left unlocked.

He also mentioned her uploading the pictures of Male "friends" on her social media while she never uploads his. Ironically, she gets jealous when other females uploads his pictures. This is self explanatory on it's own.

@OP this is plain and simple.

1. You're not the only one she's dating.
2. You're at the bottom as she's obviously hiding you from those that matter in her life hence your not being introduced to her family and
3. She's not proud of you and sees you as an option

You sabi the gizzard , leave that girl she dey talk with her teeth....

Fearcom:


Please let's learn to give sound, intelligent pieces of advice to those who need them.


He clearly mentioned that she passwords her phone. That's a red flag. And I won't accept the agrument that it's her privacy because it's hypocritical to to lock her phone while her privates are left unlocked.

He also mentioned her uploading the pictures of Male "friends" on her social media while she never uploads his. Ironically, she gets jealous when other females uploads his pictures. This is self explanatory on it's own.

@OP this is plain and simple.

1. You're not the only one she's dating.
2. You're at the bottom as she's obviously hiding you from those that matter in her life hence your not being introduced to her family and
3. She's not proud of you and sees you as an option

Op said he isnt ready for marriage...perhaps to her it means op isnt ready for a commited relationship so I think shes just having fun.
Op run for your life o.

If you can't marry her, tell her. You too are cunning by not telling her where the relationship is heading.

Once a girl starts acting funny in a relationship especially being secretive my man there’s someone else or she no longer loves you

Niqqa, u are dating ur sef

AngryIgboMan:
Fake thread.... You just want to advertise your dicck size to thirsty ladies.....

Nonsense

are you being serious right now...

Dande55:
If you can't marry her, tell her. You too are cunning by not telling her where the relationship is heading.

I'll hold onto that , thanks for the advice