BERNIMOORE:
As an experienced married man, I would have married a beautiful lady that is not good when it comes to sex...we played a lot but when the real matter to have sex comes she isn't interested I don't want to force her because I love and respect her a lot..one day she accept on her own and I noticed that she had pain during sex at a time that I was in the sweet mood I don't want to give a damn earlier but I was concerned about her discomfort and just have to stop midway I was greatly offended and had wished if I had not even started.. She apologized and hug told me that she was circumcised.. Her clitoris cut off and it was a practice very common in their place... I was devastated because if I had not tried to test her in the first place How will I know that we are not sex compatible? Its not a rocket science I don't want to have that experience again... The point is that so many parents have ignorantly tampered with the joy of their children by circumcising their female child and when they got married to a Godfearing man who is sexually active. The man would not enjoy his sexual life which is key....many of these Ladies are there in the churches looking beautiful with every thing physically. Is it curves and many more, but their sex life is not good enough for an active man, So had it been that most parent don't tamper with their child's female organ ...I would say that sex before marriage should be strictly avoided, but from experience I later Married someone that gave me the relaxed type of sex that allowed me to satisfy myself such that I sweat and it was such a good memory for me... Its difficult to have few chances to just get a lady that satisfied your sex preference till after marriage its risky but if you're lucky its worth celebration because many marriage have scatter because of untested sex and high expectations. But besides pray for Gods guidance

Wicked you.
You had sex with a girl and probably deflowered her then dumped her after. Couldn't you have asked a simple question while dating
1. Have you ever had sex?
2. Have you ever masturbated?
3. Are you circumsised?

There is NEVER a guarantee that a Sexually active and experiences girl will be forever be sexually responsive.


A question:
How many men should a girl sleep with to be experienced enough for marriage?

PRE4:



If you are not fit to marry then you are not fit for sex.

To every advantages,there is a disadvantages.
I have read about people who have slept with marine agents and are suffering from it.
Dont just because of how many hours enjoyment and destroy your brighf future.
God that warns against it is not a fool but he is trying to protect us from making mistakes

@bolded. pls, refer me to a Bible verse that says exactly what u said.

I want to learn.



however, I want to ask. there is one man in the Bible story, Solomon. was he married to all his wives and concubines before having sex with them?

I want to learn here too.



another one:

pls, are you married, or single?

if you are married, was your woman your first sexual intercourse experience?


if you are single, have you ever fvcked before?

I want to learn from you.









I hail u, brah.

Giwoni:
If you said so, I have a question for you. Can you tell us exactly when the two opposite sex who are in a relationship or dating made their decision to marry themselves? Do you think it's only when a guy goes to the family of the lady he is dating to negotiate her dowry is when he made the decision to marry her? Or do you think it is only when they parade themselves for white wedding is when they made their decisions to marry themselves?
Let's reason well, sometimes.

The fact you guys might marry each other in future does not give you a ground for sex.
okay since you guys will marry,then why not wait till then or if you cant wait,quickly wed because it is not compulsory you must have an elaborate wedding.

mrkings84:


My brother the only consensual sex is that between married couples, anything outside this is a win before God

What is believe? Believe is what you hold to be true.
Destructive sins are despicable in the sight of God and man. Violence, jealousy, envy, strife, back bitting, gossiping, murder, people who are sexually immoral. Those that practice these are those that will be destroyed.

Consensual sex and the bye product of it is not condemned and designated for destruction. Reproduce and fill the earth was the imbedded program in human.
Marriage is not the only way this can be fulfilled.

mrkings84:


So let's have what your definitions are for sex and sexual immorality and then disassociate the both of them from this context

Sex is Sex.


Sexual immorality is deviant sex like Necrophilia, Beastility, sleeping with prostitutes, Anal sex, homosexualism, etc.

Anuoluwa1234:
mad hooo .. pls can you tell me what sexual immorality means.. please.. and also can u help me diff btw sexual immorality and sex..

Sex is Sex.


Sexual immorality is deviant sex like Necrophilia, Beastility, sleeping with prostitutes, Anal sex, homosexualism, etc.

MrNipplesLover:



@bolded. pls, refer me to a Bible verse that says exactly what u said.

I want to learn.



however, I want to ask. there is one man in the Bible story, Solomon. was he married to all his wives and concubines before having sex with them?

I want to learn here too.



another one:

pls, are you married, or single?

if you are married, was your woman your first sexual intercourse experience?


if you are single, have you ever fvcked before?

I want to learn from you.









I hail u, brah.

For the bolded read:1 corinthians 6:15-18.

In Solomon days,fornication was a grievious crime against the law,that is to say he married the wives legally-

I am single And i know it is not easy at times but I control myself

MrNipplesLover:



@bolded. pls, refer me to a Bible verse that says exactly what u said.

I want to learn.



however, I want to ask. there is one man in the Bible story, Solomon. was he married to all his wives and concubines before having sex with them?

I want to learn here too.



another one:

pls, are you married, or single?

if you are married, was your woman your first sexual intercourse experience?


if you are single, have you ever fvcked before?

I want to learn from you.









I hail u, brah.

Read 1corinthians 7:9 concerning the bolded.

PrecisionFx:


""1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body""

Sexual immorality isn't same as sex

So, what is sexual immorality?

Let me help you here:
Which of the following is not a form of sexual immorality?
1. Sex with someone I'm not married to as a married person.
2. Sex with someone I'm not married to as an unmarried person.
3. Sex with same-sex (homosexuality)
4. Sex with a minor
5. Sex with a prostitute
6. Masturbation
7. Pornography
8. Sex with animals
9. Rape

cerpvad:
Smh, I pity those who will read and swallow all these lies false teaching about sex

Please what is the right teaching about sex?

A guy in a relationship with a girl,is kissing and romance between these two a sin

shadeyinka:
Also, in the bible, there was nothing like "dating". What exists is a "betrothal" which is a formal agreement between two families that their children has fulfilled conditions for marriage and the ceremony will be done at a select date.

that is not different from dating.
In dating, everyone including the families of the couple knows about the relationship, the same with betrothal.

Adultery is sex outside marriage by a married person.

1. What then is fornication?

fornication is when a man have sex with his father's wife or when a woman have sex with her mother's husband. 1 Corinthians 5:1

2. Using your logic, why do you think sleeping with a prostitute make one one in spirit with the prostitute.
BTW

I don't know

Prostitution is sex with consent between unmarried adults with mutual benefits

but prostitution isn't the same as young couples dating and having sex

Well said..
I love the scriptural back up and the explanation

Kweensavvy:


Can you explain more on the bolded? I have heard this before but it's confusing.

Can you have a decision to love someone you have absolutely no attraction towards?

Isnt that some form of self torture?

Love is NOT an emotion. Love is a CHOICE we make to uplift, protect and care for the other person at our own expense.

If you are attracted to someone not because of her intelligence, character, prospects and spirituality BUT sex, you are on the road to your perdition.

orunto27:
LIKE SERIOUSLY, WHY DID GOD CREATE PENIS AND THE VAGINA?


LIKE THE 128 YEAR OLD MAN WHO NEVER HAD SEX IN HIS LIFE, HOW WILL HE ACCOUNT FOR THE USE OF THIS TALENT AT THE JUDGEMENT THRONE?

thanks

fairfora:
Your various posts on ashawo and sexuality fora have said it all about your position in this regard. Case closed

At least I don't blame them when I have problems I blame myself, that's maturity,u are not a baby, don't behave like one.

Lesson for u today:take responsibility for anything that happens in your life.

PrecisionFx:



What a stupid definition.

Sexual immorality is deviant sex like Necrophilia, Beastility, sleeping with prostitutes, homosexualism, etc.

Read up what Pornei means

If it is , why don't you tell your girlfriend's father that you have started having sex with his daughter and tell me you'll be approved.

Fornication is also called stolen sex!

Please explain

PrecisionFx:


""1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body""

Sexual immorality isn't same as sex

Kweensavvy:


Can you explain more on the bolded? I have heard this before but it's confusing.

Can you have a decision to love someone you have absolutely no attraction towards?

Isnt that some form of self torture?

Man is a tripartite being. We have the Spirit, Soul and Body. In the Soul we have Mind (Intellect), Emotion (Feelings) and Will (Decision)

So when you see someone and you interact with the person your sense organ transfers what you see, observe and so on to the brain and then the mind is engaged to process the information. When the information is processed, emotion will be liberated. The kind of emotion liberated is a function of the result of what your mind(intellect) has processed. Since it has to do with look, admiration and so on... Love would be liberated. So we can just say the end result of the mind processing and the emotion liberation is LOVE. So the last faculty in the Soul is the Will where decisions are made. So you are at will/volition to choose whether to follow your emotional result which is Love or shun it. So because you choose to follow your emotion which is Love that is why you were able to love the person. Everything we do as humans work this way. It's like a chain production factory. Mind receives the input.... processes it and give it to Emotion... emotion gives the output and then the Will decides what to do with it. That's why I can curse someone now and the person can decide not to be angry because he chose not to follow the anger emotion liberated when his mind processed the content of the curse.

So when people says Love is decision they are actually telling you the end result of the whole process. Meaning you decided to love. because it's possible to see someone and not love the person emotionally but you just decided to abandon the emotion and just love the person. But most times it is the emotion result that we go for. Emotions are very powerful.

Its also a commitment because you will have to nurse it. because it would have to grow. This is even where those that did not follow their emotion needs work. You will have to work out the commitment so that the love can grow.

Thanks

mrkings84:



Yes it does offend God a great deal. Fornication and adultery was one of the reasons God destroyed Sorom.
And because he detest those who indulge in such sins, He has no place for them in his paradise (Heaven)
(1 Cor. 6:9-10; Revelation 21:

ok,
Obviously you are saying this not because you understood your bible but because you heard people saying it.

We had Isaac and Rebecca dating from the first day they met, they had sex that day, God did not complain.

Fornication is simply what is known as premarital sex today.

wrong!

1 Corinthians 5:1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, THAT ONE SHOULD HAVE HIS FATHER'S WIFE

so, fornication is when a man sleep with his father's wife.
It can also mean brothers and sisters having sex, what is known as incest today.

mrkings84:
SEX EDUCATION

Let's consider 2 verses of the scripture.
1: 1cor.6;18
2: 2Tim.2;22

1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.

2 Timothy 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

Introduction:
We live in a world where sex is celebrated in many ways; On bill boards, advertorials, vulgar language, dressing, etc. The perpetrators are mostly young people.

Sex was created by God for the main purpose of procreation and mutual pleasure and satisfaction.

The sex hormones in males is called TESTOSTERONE. While that in females are called OESTROGEN AND PROGESTERONE.

WHAT IS SEX EDUCATION?

Sex Education can be defined as the introduction of sexual topics within an educational context.

Sex Education is very large.
Some topics that can be taught in this are;

* PSYCHOSEXUAL DEVELOPMENT
* SEX ORGANS, SEX CRIMES
* SEXOLOGY
* SEXUAL ORIENTATION
* SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES
* PARAPHILIA
* PAEDOPHILE, ETC

Listen up everyone,
That your body will not itch for sex because you're born again, is a fat lie.

Boys have an erection especially early in the morning for no reason sometimes.
Don't be ashamed, it means you're active and virile..

Girls have ovulation within which period their body will be doing them Paulina Paulina.
Don't worry yourself girl, you're normal.

However, between the various itches and sweet body we get, lies your DESTINY....
If you misfire at this time, there are very dangerous and regrettable mistakes you'll make..

So, ZIP UP and do it with all your soul...

Note this,
Sex is not running.
You'll soon be tired of seeing a naked penis or vagina.
Sometimes in marriage, it will stair at you and you'll have no desire especially when you get caught up with the issues of life...

Note again,
God will not wear you an Angelic bra, so that guys won't behold your boobs.
Big lie.
God won't wear you an Angelic garment so that girls won't crush on you.
Big lie.

The more they crush on you, the more you're being prepared for the slaughter...
Someone is preying on your DESTINY

Note;
THERE'S NOTHING LIKE CHRISTIAN HORMONES OR BORN AGAIN HORMONES..

Note also, that Pastors think about sex just as you the floor member. Otherwise, our Pastors wives wouldn't get pregnant.

There are certain facts you need to know about sex;
1) sex is permitted by God ONLY within the confines of the marriage institution.

If you're doing otherwise, you're a SEX THIEF..

2) Every act of sex goes with a consequence.
Sex is always tied with some kind of responsibility.

3) sex and Love are two different thing.
Sex is a desire or appetite, while Love is a decision and commitment.

4) sex does not make people to love each other.
Otherwise the world would have been a very lovely place.

5) If you marry because you have problems with sexual control, you'll still commit adultery.

Sex is much more than putting an erect penis in to a willing vagina. Premarital sex is the major cause of the incessant and frequent cases of divorce we now have in society.

A vagina that is always ready to receive an erect penis will soon become as wide as river Niger and as deep a borehole.

Also,
An unguarded and uncontrolled erect penis is one of the key reasons why society is full of bastards, idiots and criminals.

Men actually go by what they see.
That's why JOB prayed in JOB 31;1, It says:
"I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?"

While Women go by what they hear..
That's why ordinary simple I love you, you are beautiful etc, a girl is already falling in love.

Anyone you have sex with automatically transfers to you every spirit he or she has.
That's why Joseph had an understanding and fled when his master's wife wanted to cut short his destiny.

Conclusion:
Sex is sweet.
After Jesus Christ, it is the next sweetest thing on Earth.
However, in between the sweetness, we have a five minutes pleasure that has destroyed Nations...
Let's be careful..

Now, all fornicators are sex thieves like I said earlier.
Why?
1) There is guilt after sex.
2) There is fear of pregnancy.
3) If they're in church they have daily confessions and secret fears. Etc

Just so much to talk about sex education but I have to end it here for now before it becomes boring to read....

Stay blessed, stay safe!

Credit: My mentor, pastor, teacher, coach PST DADDIE JOEL PhD.

Can I share dis...
Very concised n straight .
God bless u

mrkings84:


Not so man, I'm just returning from the church now, will take time and go through all the mentions/ questions and react to them accordingly.... thanks!

ok

mrkings84:


You falsifying everything... I laff you!

paulolee:
going by things we do see today..e no easy oo

.
If u can control what u watch and hear, it starts becoming easier. Repent and allow Christ to change ur mindset. Start hating sin.

shadeyinka:

Wicked you.
You had sex with a girl and probably deflowered her then dumped her after. Couldn't you have asked a simple question while dating
1. Have you ever had sex?
2. Have you ever masturbated?
3. Are you circumsised?

You jumped exegical holes... I am not wicked she did consented on her own... And I didn't disvirgined her she already had sex with someone before.... So you would have recommended that I must Mary her after all she had painful sex issues.. You try....she later got married to an older guy over 50+ and they moved to Germany

IF YOU Bleep ASHAWO, YOU AND HER BECOMES ONE AUTOMATICALLY

shadeyinka:

Love is NOT an emotion. Love is a CHOICE we make to uplift, protect and care for the other person at our own expense.

If you are attracted to someone not because of her intelligence, character, prospects and spirituality BUT sex, you are on the road to your perdition.

See this thing needs understanding. Love is an emotion. But as humans because of the presence of the Will faculty in the soul you can decide to go with your emotion or not. However the result of the emotion faculty cant be brought to fore without the Will faculty acting on it. Therefore when you love someone it means you have decided to love the person either based on what your emotion gives you or otherwise. So that is it

Example of emotions are Love, joy, peace, fear, sadness, anger etc. They are all product of what your mind processes. If I abuse you in English language the reason why you get angry is because your mind understood English and processed the statement and then an imagination is formed which is passed to the emotion faculty and the emotion liberates Anger instantly but waiting for your decision whether to go with it or shun it. So if you React negatively by abusing me back or fighting me then it means you took a decision to go with your anger emotion but if you refuse to abuse or fight me and just walk away or not react then it means you shun the emotion produced.

So in all everything is decision based. Love is an emotion but cant be used on anyone without decision.
So Love in full is Emotion, Decision and Commitment.

Thanks

femmyapson:

Let me know when you finish dreaming.
We both know no one is going to get to that level keep deceving yourself

The money you are looking for is in the business you are avoiding Brother

10000 people deligently committed to the course is all that is needed oo

Everything begins with a step. Be the first step now

shadeyinka:
Also, in the bible, there was nothing like "dating". What exists is a "betrothal" which is a formal agreement between two families that their children has fulfilled conditions for marriage and the ceremony will be done at a select date.

Adultery is sex outside marriage by a married person.

1. What then is fornication?

2. Using your logic, why do you think sleeping with a prostitute make one one in spirit with the prostitute.
BTW
Prostitution is sex with consent between unmarried adults with mutual benefits

what is fornication? Which part of the Bible gives you that definition of sex between single persons? Also, why did Jesus use the term fornication (KJV) for married persons at Matthew 19: 9?

And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery

The term rendered fornication in the new testament is the same as 'whoredom', 'prostitution', and 'sexual immorality' used in the old testament - illicit sex in the context of the Mosaic law.

There are many laws regarding sex, and not one of them outlaws relations between a man and a woman engaged to him. Not one.

There are laws in the Mosaic law against incest, bestiality, sodomy, rape, and sex with another man's wife or a woman engaged to him. If a man entices/seduces and sleeps with an unengaged woman (not rape), he simply has to marry her. No punishment, no sin offering, nothing.

So where do you guys get this definition of fornication that you throw about?

Sleep is the sweetest thing on earth after. Christ... NB.

My Contribution

Sex is like money. There is nothing wrong with any of them. It is the way we use each of them that tells whether one is right or wrong. If I use the money that does not belong to me or have no right over... then it means I am a thief. Same with sex, if I have it with someone who does not belong to me ( by marriage) then I am a thief also. This means when you have sex with someone who not your spouse then you have sinned.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed by two people who are legally married and not otherwise.

Any sex which is not marriage binding is wrong. Whether is with animal or siblings or whatever... as long as marriage is not binding... it is a sin. And marriage has rules... someone saying he or she is married to animal or another same sex or whatever is wrong and does not define marriage. Marriage is a legal union between two opposite sex who are humans that does not have a marriage union existing already.

Also, dating or any relationship does not automatically mean marriage. Intending husband and intending wife are still yet to be married and they must not have sex. Marriage is marriage and it has rules. Once you know this is the person you will marry... proceed to do the necessary things... if it is engagement or white wedding or whatever... or even family consent with witnesses and rites... do it and make sure you fulfil all righteousness and then you have married legally and then do whatever with your spouse. Having sex in dating or courtship is a sin. Sex is only permissible in marriage.

Once we understand marriage... the the issue of sex wouldn't be a problem.

Aderewah:


Ishmael had nothing to do with Islam. Muhammed is not a direct descendant of Ishmael.

You traced his genealogy and came up with this conclusion?