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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Beliti: 2:55pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Question please! Does it mean Masturbation is not a sin since it isn't highlighted here? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by shadeyinka(m): 2:55pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Olumyco:I will show you an example to show that you are mixing up LOVE with the emotions that may proceed from love. I am sure you have female members in your home: like your mother and sisters. I am sure that you LOVE them Can you please explain the kind of emotion you are currently having for them? If there is not specific emotion, does it mean that you don't love them? No! Love is not an emotion. Love is a choice/resolve to make the other person beautiful, great, successful, joyful..at the expense of yourself. The emotions of love comes whenever you succeed in your giving towards love. How do you feel when you give your girlfriend a birthday cake and she receives it with joy in her heart. You too will feel greater joy. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by OkpanachiMax: 2:57pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
ehmmy11: Don't you love your parents? Are you sexually attracted to them? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
PrecisionFx:lol, laughing in Spanish... Read what u typed, English is using you to play leg over.. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by shadeyinka(m): 3:17pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
BERNIMOORE:I called you wicked because you didn't care of the act will affect her relationship with God (I assume she is a Christian). Anytime you sleep with someone, part of your self gets imprinted forever in that person. My point is that you could have gotten all the information without sleeping with her. And marriage decisions are not made based based on sex alone. Do you feel sexual enjoyment cannot be faked (for the purpose of getting you to marry)? After your questioning, if you feel you can't go on with the relationship, so be it. 1 Like |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by greatdave(m): 3:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by BERNIMOORE: 3:37pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
shadeyinka:We are not created perfect, I guessed that you are not married, if you have not settled down with a woman you are far from making decisive decisions here because sound advice comes from personal experience... You need to take some calculated risk at times....if you follow what you hear at times without testing it yourself you will lose gallantly.. About her relationship Wit God leave that part...individually we seek forgiveness... We are in talking terms before she traveled out.. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Dranoid: 3:46pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
mrkings84:I understand and agree that sex before marriage is sinful but where in the bible is this above statement proven true? This is not the first time i'm hearing it and that's why i want to ask this question. The example of joseph you gave doesn't really convince me cos joseph's reason for not doing it was because it was a sin against God and also like 'stealing' his master's property. There was also no biblical record of potiphar's wife having demonic spirits. so once again I ask, where is it in the bible? 1 Like |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 3:46pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Great piece op |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by shadeyinka(m): 3:47pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Bahddo:Fornication have various shades of meaning including sexual immorality. Now in the case of Matthew 19: 9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication , and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery The word fornication specifically as used by Jesus is NOT 1. incest, 2. bestiality, 3. sodomy, 4. rape, and 5. sex with another man's wife/husband or 6. sex with a woman engaged to another man BUT 7. sexual immorality All you need to do is slot each in as a synonym for fornication and see if the scripture remain valid. Note that Jesus was referring to a MARRIED woman. Whoever she sleeps with outside her husband is SEXUAL immorality which constitute adultery against the husband. Secondly, So that you will not think it absolves dating couple. Can you please answer what happens if I married a wife but on consummation I discover that she isn't a Virgin? (Her excuse was that her former boyfriend deflowered her). Does this argument hold? Deu 22:20-21: "But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she has worked folly in Israel, to play the LovePeddler in her father's house: so shall you put evil away from among you." Can you see that one who lost her virginity is TREATED as a _whore? Does it matter if it was just once with a former boyfriend? In your view, what is the expectation from a maiden on her wedding day? And Do you think that sexually expressive dating relationship MUST eventually lead to marriage? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by shadeyinka(m): 4:02pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
BERNIMOORE:I've been married for several years now. I courted my wife for 2years 6months before marriage. I was a virgin and so was she. We were both committed to not having sex before marriage. And I tell you that till tomorrow it helps us to trust each other even when I travel for months overseas, she knows with no iota of doubt that I wouldn't sleep with those "willing white girls"! From your writeup, I know you don't mean harm BUT you have unconsciously mislead many young people by insinuating that they could test out their sexual compatibility before marriage. As a married man, I am sure that you know that there is a difference between a once-a-week/occasional sex with a girlfriend AND an almost daily sex with a wife? A girl you sleep with once or twice a month will act differently when she sees that sex is and average of 4-5 a week endlessly, year after year. In other words, a girlfriend's sexual disposition does not guarantee any continuity during marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by OkpanachiMax: 4:08pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Beliti:It is punishing yourself by yourself, It is very abnormal. (Question not to the quoted) But my question is this, pre-intimacy in marital sex is that masturbation too? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Aderewah: 4:18pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Youngsage:You did, to come up with yours? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by ehmmy11(m): 4:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
OkpanachiMax: In the context of the post you should be able to understand that i meant romantic love?? Not agape Then why avoid the first question?? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by futasu(m): 4:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
a boy and a girl dating without kissing and sex is it a sin or not |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
greatdave: I have enough fiction books I don't want any for now |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by OkpanachiMax: 4:27pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
ehmmy11:Love is love Their no romantic or bla bla bla |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by ehmmy11(m): 4:31pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
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Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Senorprinz(m): 4:36pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Lol, you're funny, we're all suffering as a result of Ishmael today, what's the repercussion of the millions of children produced by concubines, abi na only Ishmael own be sin. mrkings84: |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Proudlytips: 4:46pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 5:11pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
knacker: Comon, why not. In as much as you find it worthy of sharing. Thanks for making me know my efforts in putting this together wasn't a waste. I am encouraged! |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 5:16pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
paxonel: No bro, just as you quoted 1Cor5:1, a man sleeping with his father's wife is just the height of it. Fornication is the sex between two unmarried adults. Incest is when two adults who are related by blood have sex. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 5:23pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Freeeanijor: Pls can you back this up with biblical reference? Like are always taught, marriage is the oldest institution on Earth and this was ordained by God when he joined Eve to Adam right from the beginning. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:25pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
PRE4: I will check the verse, thanks. by the way, I know you only joked with being single and never touch toto before. it is also easy for me too to claim the same on NL whereas, I destroy pussies offline. I know u go wan come defend urself against that, but the truth knows who's saying it sha. btw, pls, pray for me make God forgive my sins cos I no go lie, I am single and i don fvck many times. pls, quote me with prayers. thanks. I hail u, nigga. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 5:27pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
shadeyinka: What I mean is, all sensensual sex is SIN before God in as much it's outside marriage, that God does not kill you once you commit it doesn't justify it. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by mrkings84(m): 5:30pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Freeeanijor: I never said that God destroyed the world cos of sexual sins, rather he destroyed Sorom cos of this. Or is Sodom the world? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
MrNipplesLover: I am single by the grace of God and have never seen the unclothedness of woman.God bears me witness to it. You need proper follow up how is that possible?are you on facebook? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:35pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
PRE4: yeah. I dey on Facebook. |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
MrNipplesLover: Send me friend request now:Talented Fidelio whats ur name on facebook? |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by cerpvad(m): 5:45pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
The right teaching about sex is the one devoid of religion inhibitions shadeyinka: |
Re: What Every Christian Youth Should Know About Sex by shadeyinka(m): 5:46pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
mrkings84:Perfectly said sir! |
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