Please how can I get her back

Move on

You cant eat your cake and have it

See

EmekaBlue:
Move on

You cant eat your cake and have it

Why you saying this, If I could remember very well i didn't broke up with her

I'm shocked you guys went through an educational institution with the level of grammar I'm seeing.
I would easily comprehend Russian than to understand what you guys are saying.

sarqwest:
Please my fellow nairaLeader pls help a brother, please I need your piece of advice

There is this girl have been dating she's a Yoruba girl and also a Muslim, she stay in abuja while I school here in owerri and am a Christian

We met 2018 it was love at first sight.. Had the opportunity to travel to abuja during the holidays, to remained you we meet on Facebook, but seeing her physical made me love her the more. At the early stage of our relationship things was moving smoothly so much love and care, she didn't lack anything I know I could provide, sex wasn't our problem

So I travel back to the east to continue with schooling, am studying civil engineering, you know how stressful studying an engineering course is, those in this line can testifier and I was also trying to find my feet, seriously this was how I totally lost contact with her.. She thought I didn't have her time, maybe was cheating on her since we have to deal with the distance... Now this upto two years and I thank God for how he has lifted me up both in academic and finance...
I wasn't able to get a new girlfriend because I was busy with my work and I thankGod its paying off now

But the problem is, I want to settled down, most of my mate are married.. I don't have much friends not to talk of girlfriends, I love this girl and it seems she already have a boyfriend because I neglected her for the past two year, but am not sure if her relationship with the new guy is serious though..
She lost her dad of recent, she's still not financially buoyant, can't talk for her recent boyfriend though , I feel she has nothing to loss coming back to me. I love this girl, I want her to see reason why I was reluctant about giving her attention, I wasn't giving her much time as of then.. Now am ready and I want her back, I don't want to force her so she won't feel am desperate about her but to let her see reason she need to accept me back .... your advice are needed. Thanks

Bros move on.
1) you are not really a Christian if you can accept to marry a Muslim without thinking of the issues it will cause.... Are you ready to change religion or his she the one you expect to change when she is enjoying islam?

2) you can not be going back for a lady that has moved on, you need to explore your options and know if you are emotionally and psychologically ready because you both are from different worlds. Not the one that after you sleep with her then your eyes will now open and you will be pointing flaws and errors with her and looking for a way out.

3) Are you really wanting to marry for the right reasons of you just want to quench peer pressure and upgrade like your married friends? Life is not like that, what is she bringing to the table, dont tell us the superstory that u have enough money for both of you, marriage is not between two people but two families, can you support her entire family?

All am saying is put feelings and pressures aside then shine your eyes wella.

what is the meaning of "wot"?

Please deactivate your profile. Both you and your worthless story does not deserve to be seen let alone read.

Koboko444:
Please deactivate your profile. Both you and your worthless story does not deserve to be seen let alone read.

I swear this is total crap.

“But you keep asking same question”

That’s fvcked mehn.

If I so badly wanted to have a headache, I’d have gone to hit my head on a wall. What’s with graduates and bad grammar these days?

sarqwest:
Please my fellow nairaLeader pls help a brother, please I need your piece of advice

There is this girl have been dating she's a Yoruba girl and also a Muslim, she stay in abuja while I school here in owerri and am a Christian

We met 2018 it was love at first sight.. Had the opportunity to travel to abuja during the holidays, to remained you we meet on Facebook, but seeing her physical made me love her the more. At the early stage of our relationship things was moving smoothly so much love and care, she didn't lack anything I know I could provide, sex wasn't our problem

So I travel back to the east to continue with schooling, am studying civil engineering, you know how stressful studying an engineering course is, those in this line can testifier and I was also trying to find my feet, seriously this was how I totally lost contact with her.. She thought I didn't have her time, maybe was cheating on her since we have to deal with the distance... Now this upto two years and I thank God for how he has lifted me up both in academic and finance...
I wasn't able to get a new girlfriend because I was busy with my work and I thankGod its paying off now

But the problem is, I want to settled down, most of my mate are married.. I don't have much friends not to talk of girlfriends, I love this girl and it seems she already have a boyfriend because I neglected her for the past two year, but am not sure if her relationship with the new guy is serious though..
She lost her dad of recent, she's still not financially buoyant, can't talk for her recent boyfriend though , I feel she has nothing to loss coming back to me. I love this girl, I want her to see reason why I was reluctant about giving her attention, I wasn't giving her much time as of then.. Now am ready and I want her back, I don't want to force her so she won't feel am desperate about her but to let her see reason she need to accept me back .... your advice are needed. Thanks

Its ridiculous the way you type. A civil engineering graduate for that matter.

Anyway, bring marriage into the equation. Promise her marriage in the nearest future

Rubbish, nonsense, stupid, baseless, meaningless... name it. Thats the definition of the bullcrap u put up there

After forcing myself to read this chat, one brain cell died

ValCon888:
I'm shocked you guys went through an educational institution with the level of grammar I'm seeing.
I would easily comprehend Russian than to understand what you guys are saying.

Oga education is not determined by the standard of your grammar, like the OP said he studied an engineering course, so you can cut him some slack.

Grammar 101

sarqwest:
Please how can I get her back

Just. Ove on and focus on herself... Sh Wil Com back after abt 2years,dey always do......

Gals just move from guy to guy searching for greenest pasture.. Just get ur life better...

Cut the young man some slack...if we check well, that guy fit get enough money to feed all of una linguistics whole family for many years...
Your mates dey make money una dey form processors on social media...spits

I seriously don't know why someone would come to this forum to ask for advice and all some people can see is the grammar, if you can't solve problems must you add to it? Some people have nothing reasonable to offer but yet they have chosen to be a problem to peoples problem. The grammar you have been speaking since 1960 is it putting food on your table?

sarqwest:
Please how can I get her back

Oga OP you left a girl you claimed to love for two solid good years all in the name of studies and some financial ish abeg when you were doing the do did you forget you were in school then? what happened to love conquers all or oh now you are single and lonely and you couldn't find someone as good as her and who is ready to accept you, you now remembered you once had a girl. In fact shame no catch you as you mentioned two years sef? The lady will be out of her senses to accept you back.

phemmyfour:
Its ridiculous the way you type. A civil engineering graduate for that matter.

Anyway, bring marriage into the equation. Promise her marriage in the nearest future

they call it engineering English