xzibukz:

Am in love with my igbo gfriend.but my little sister which is about 18 years of age dislike her.i buy phone for my gfriend which cost 5k and give my sister my nokia N72 cos i just got a new htc hero.my gfriend vexs dat i surpose give her d phone and buy small phone for my sister.
This last week both of theme were playing in my room while i was off to work.so my gfriend start to talk her language to my sister with red eye and my sister think she was abusing her so she talk but in yoruba language to abuse her,my igbo girl just to fight her and collect the nokie N72 from my sist and bring it to me @ the office,after an hour my sister came to my office & explain things to me.i beg her & return d phone to her but she insist my gfriend bring it to her.i call my gfriend but she swear she cannot do dat.i av made up my mind to dump my igbo girl cos if i continue & we get marry,she may not let me remember my family.pls advise me

justwise:

If your gf were 'yoruba', would u have dumped her cos you younger sister doesn't like her?

Mygoldie:

@OP,if you really want to be with your girl friend, you should set a boundary between your girlfriend and your sister.

D-sense:

Guys think before you type jor  . . .! . . .The issue is not bout ethnic but maturity and good attitude,After all his sister didn't hate her cause she's an Igbo girl but simply because she's rude to her. ''even she's older than she is'' but according to what the poster stated here . . . His gfriend is not mature at all and not respectful neither.His sister might be kinda rude to her or to her brother but still didn't deserve that crappy act.

OP.
You have just done the right thing ,  . . . . ''i know you if she was yoruba girl you would treat her the same way''.

saintneo:

>>>>>>, so why did the poster bring in ethnicity in the post.

D-sense:

Guys think before you type jor  . . .! . . .The issue is not bout ethnic but maturity and good attitude,After all his sister didn't hate her cause she's an Igbo girl but simply because she's rude to her. ''even she's older than she is'' but according to what the poster stated here . . . His gfriend is not mature at all and not respectful neither.His sister might be kinda rude to her or to her brother but still didn't deserve that crappy act.

OP.
You have just done the right thing ,  . . . . ''i know you if she was yoruba girl you would treat her the same way''.

Mygoldie:










Did you even bother to read my post,before quoting it,how was my post anti-tribal, huh??

justwise:

Oh please! don't be silly, what is the point of bringing his gf's tribe into this post? Why not say my gf and NOT my IGBO gf?

xzibukz:

@all
My purpose of ethnic bla'bla was because my gfriend was disrespectfull not to beg my sister abd she even av d gut to collect d phone i gave my sister and she bring it to me,dis is something a yoruba girl cannot do.a yoruba gitl used to respect her inlaw but my gfriend did not respect my sister. The worst part is dat i think igho lady will let a man forget his family after marriage becos my gfriend fight me dat i give my sister a phone worth 20k but give a phone worth 5k.

D-sense:

Thank you for clarifying the case.
@Justwise.
Hope you have read this?
It's never about ethnic but attitude.Being mature, friendly,Lovely and respectful to your inlaw!

xzibukz:

@all
My purpose of ethnic bla'bla was because my gfriend was disrespectfull not to beg my sister abd she even av d gut to collect d phone i gave my sister and she bring it to me,dis is something a yoruba girl cannot do.a yoruba gitl[b] used to [/b] respect her inlaw but my gfriend did not respect my sister. The worst part is dat i think igho lady will let a man forget his family after marriage becos my gfriend fight me dat i give my sister a phone worth 20k but give a phone worth 5k.

D-sense:

I did read you rcomment before qouting you honey,YOUr point is that if the guy is really serious bout his relatioship and ready to be with his girl then he should set a boundary between them. . , But what i'm saying is that the sister is never to blame,The faulty part here is ''The gfriend''.
And what assures you the point of bringing gf's tribe is to bash or discriminate Igbo pple? This is how you pple instigate issues oo
The guy mentioned her tribe with mean of clerifying his case,That he could not be a perfect medium btween his sister and his gfriend who's from Igbo tribe. . . .Tell me if the guy discriminates why would he date an Igbo girl in the first place?

D-sense:

xzibukz link=topic=591088.msg7586321#msg7586321 date=1295782977:

@all
My purpose of ethnic bla'bla was because my gfriend was disrespectfull not to beg my sister abd she even av d gut to collect d phone i gave my sister and she bring it to me,dis is something a yoruba girl cannot do.a yoruba gitl used to respect her inlaw but my gfriend did not respect my sister. The worst part is dat i think igho lady will let a man forget his family after marriage becos my gfriend fight me dat i give my sister a phone worth 20k but give a phone worth 5k.

akoraye:

That your gfrnd dey mad? sorry to say, has she 4gotin dt your sister is her sister in law 2 be. she go beat your mama if u,

Bro its not only his Gurlfriend,

Ibo ladies (No offence) are generally like that~

190:

Bro its not only his Gurlfriend,

Ibo ladies (No offence) are generally like that~

akoraye:

That your gfrnd dey mad? sorry to say, has she 4gotin dt your sister is her sister in law 2 be. she go beat your mama if u,

justwise:

I take that as a joke. . .as usual

Then you havent met the real ibo!

Its only an ibo woman in nigeria that dropped Hot pressing Iron on her man's azz while
he was sleeping cos he refused to get her BB

190:

Then you havent met the real ibo!

Its only an ibo woman in nigeria that dropped Hot pressing Iron on her man's azz while
he was sleeping cos he refused to get her BB

190:

^^I was an eye witness

190:

^^Believe it or not.com
Ibo women are the most beautyful, aggressive,carefree but best mom's in nigeria

190:

Then you havent met the real ibo!

Its only an ibo woman in nigeria that dropped Hot pressing Iron on her man's azz while
he was sleeping cos he refused to get her BB

190:

[color=deeppink]^^so you see i completely know what im saying
While back in school, An ibo girl arranged with boys to beat her BF up
cos he was broke during valentine period[/color]

justwise:


Yea. . .she doesn't want a broke-backside bloke lusting over her 'kitten' on valentine

Justwise my advice to you is drop that ibo woman!
So she's dating him cos of valentine period,

This was a Gurl that her Man helped gain admission into school~
Its only an Ibo woman in Nigeria that would look @ your pocket
and know how much is in there, One Kobo wont be left out,

If you see an Ibo woman,she can look @ you from head to toe, toe to head, head back to toe
and tell you exactly how much you have in your account,trust me, alot of them are capable of doing that,
even among us here on nairaland,the same ibo women go after the guys who claim they are wealthy

I heard one of them was nairaland female winner of the year