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Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by colyx1(m): 1:37pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
The lady should have called before visiting. I personally don't like someone visiting me without first calling to let me know. I sha get bad habit, you go knock tire I nor go answer as long as I nor invite u. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Risentouch(m): 2:03pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
I hate someone invading my space |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
The only thing I see there is if you don't meet the person at home aside from that my girl friend or fiance do not have to call me before coming |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Geesaintagape: 2:21pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
If I agreed with a girl to marry and I can't pay her a surprising visit then the marriage cannot hold n relationship terminated. Divorce is on the increase cos of stupid civilization n modern idiot. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by phemmyfour: 2:29pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
chiddyok:If you find yourself in his neighborhood, courtesy demands that you branch and say hi 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Geesaintagape: 2:36pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
blackboy:Don't mind those that use 21st century excuses to deceive themselves |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by myles16(m): 2:57pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Kachi11061998: Na which kind cloth you wear go Paint stain everything?? |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by snadguy007(m): 2:58pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Nickymezor:I'm okay. Guess u are fine as well. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
phemmyfour:Courtesy demands I call him first. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by frozen70(f): 3:33pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Sermwell: We have different categories of dates Dating with intension to marry Dating for the fun of it Dating for companion ship Dating for part time Dating because of availability If they really want to wed if not for corona, then she doesn't need to inform him, besides if the guy doesn't have a side chick, it shouldn't be an issue Men always wants to eat their cake and have it 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by mrksquare: 3:34pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
I once took my girlfriend unawares by paying her a visit. And i met a guy in her house. And when I inquired who the guy was she told me he is just a friend. A friend she has never mentioned to me before. And to compound my woes, what she was wearing on that said day was a short top and a pant. The top was displaying all her thighs. Since that incident I have been very suspicious of her. In short, there and then, I resolve not to take our friendship to the next level. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by rayval(m): 3:57pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
No.. It is wrong. I do not know why people think it is all about cheating.. c'mon It is proper you let me know you are coming to my house. Even If I am always going to say yes. I personally decline sometimes when I have exams, excess work or something that requires the whole of me. And because she has sense too, she somtimes tell me, Ishe is not coming because she wants me to focus. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by phemmyfour: 4:35pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
chiddyok:even if you are out of call credit 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
phemmyfour:I’m a woman, women don’t go out without call credit. If I don’t have credit for emergency I sit in my house. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nickymezor(f): 5:33pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
snadguy007:Yes I am 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Proudlytips: 6:15pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Dont |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by evwodere(m): 8:00pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
There's a friend of mine..him and his gf was discussing on the phone one afternoon. After a well flowed discussion, he ended the call. It wasn't up to 2 minutes Just for him to hear a bang on the door. He open the door. He opened the door, my dear it was his gf. Right at the door he asked her why she didn't call him before coming. She smiled n said it was a surprise. My friend's brother was inside the house sleeping oo. Bt my friend came of the house, took a padlock and lock the door. Told her to go back home.. That's her punishment.. Cus d rules was "call me before coming to my house" I saw her going home then asked her why she was crying. She said I broke my boyfriend's rule, I thought he would appreciate my coming surprise.. Lwkmd day. She fit say she go catch am with another babe. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:56pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
chiddyok: Hmmm 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:28pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
I think it’s really just a matter of courtesy. Even the house that I have a spare key to, I still call to give a heads up that I’m coming. And even when I have to go there when the house owner isn’t home, I still call to inform. It’s how I like people to deal with me, too. But @the OP’s case, if your fiancée visits without a heads up, it’s not enough to degenerate into a fight. Stating simply that you’d have preferred a heads up is enough. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by CurvyDestiny7: 11:33pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Austherm(m): 11:57pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
My own opinion is dat it is nt normal cos u were nt invited nd u did nt also give de person a notice then i dnt think its normal cos u might come when de person is angry or if de is in a bad mood nd u yourself wont like it |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by PremierGuy(m): 12:04am On Jun 11, 2020 |
With the present pandemic lockdown, courtesy demands a phone before embarking on any visit. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by franugo(m): 12:09am On Jun 11, 2020 |
kenzysmith: Are u sure u read d op?? |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by romenna: 10:09am On Jun 11, 2020 |
until we are married, my house is not ur house, dont come uninvited. is dat clear? |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 9:41pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
fallingsky:yes o , any body who has a problem with their spouse visiting is a cheat, girl or boy |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Liliantalks: 9:43pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
One4me:and that’s why marriages do not last nowadays , they create a lifestyle that can’t accommodate another person. Marriages nowadays are two selfish people coming together with no genuine commitment to each other . Never works . Divorce keeps rising and threads like this tells us the reason why . |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by KingsJohnson(m): 7:50am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by moonraker(m): 9:38am On Jun 12, 2020 |
KingsJohnson: ermmm I beg your pardon? |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by KingsJohnson(m): 11:48am On Jun 12, 2020 |
moonraker: Can we make it private |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by Nobody: 6:04am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Bizibi: Hmm... To each his own though. |
Re: Is It Normal To Visit Someone You Are Dating Uninvited?? by abdabass: 9:18am On Jun 13, 2020 |
Sincerity is what matter here. If the two are sincere and trust each others, then case is simple. It could be either ways. The only thing are the risk its involved. 1. You can visit each other unannounced, if the lady has the key to her fiancee house and as well having money on her, so as to avoid being stranded. 2. Transit risk nowadays requires one being monitored while on the way. |
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