jeffizy:
You have been sidelined.

I hate to tell you this, but in your own interest, consider stepping down from the marriage plans for now.

She has started enjoying the lustful attention of men........ Men that work, that earn money.

At this stage, only luck can bring her passion for you back.
Bro take this advice.. She have seen guys more loaded and frosh than you.

You can talk to her, let her know how the situation affects you and set a time frame in your mind for her to change .
If she doesn't, make yourself very single and ready to mingle.

Donjay2:
I met this girl three years ago when I came to abia state. ASA girl precisely.we both goes to same church. After her graduation last year, we started dating, I found out that we both loved each to point that I called my mom and inform her that I have seen my wife. So she urge me to bring her home wish we still making plans to go cos am from Delta State. Just one morning she called me that she is tired of sitting at home waiting to go for her NYSC that she intend working since her in-law is the HRM of the company I worked, I said no problem. Right from when she started working, I started noticing some changes. She no longer pick my calls on time, anytime I see her, she is always with different guys, if I don't call her, she will never call me. If I ask her to come over now so we talk, always giving me excuse.but this was the same girl that will always do everything to hear my voice three times a day, always doing anything possible to be with me. Now am confused, don't what to do.

shawnfamous:
u haven't talked her into what u are passing through, she probably doesn't even know it's affecting u this bad, u come here to ask different people of their opinion concerning ur relationship. I don't know how u guys think sef.. pathetic. I suggest u kill her. maybe u will take this advice

shawnfamous:
u haven't talked her into what u are passing through, she probably doesn't even know it's affecting u this bad, u come here to ask different people of their opinion concerning ur relationship. I don't know how u guys think sef.. pathetic. I suggest u kill her. maybe u will take this advice

stanliwise:
Omo you wan tell me say she nor know wetin she dey do? I dey laugh you.
Talking to her at this moment about how you lack her attention is like giving her your power and her pride will raise to x3. even if you must make her know she is doing well it must be some indirect ways.