Oluromantic:
I am not anti woman but not everything you stated up there are the way they are especially the divorced, separated and widowed part. You had a bit of generalization there. Some women prefer being single mothers especially those that have good jobs because the essence of women being in marriage if well-observed is not basically for companionship but for children sake so even if their husbands are at fault they are already willing to be single before the fault came. And everybody knows that that a man died does not mean his wife is behind his death so be realistic.

In addition most of those that uphold all these beliefs against women are fellow women themselves especially the illiterate ones in the village. If women(the affected ones cus not all women are saints as you make it seem) are to be liberated from this culture, what you need do is campaign for education. 65% of Nigerians are illiterates and its these illiterates that are upholding these archaic cultures.

Forget the illiterate talk. Even the so called literate say the same thing abeg

Till u start making glorious inventions,occupying top parliamentary Chambers,thinking better like a man,feminism will continue 2 be an abstract term.........Everything u see that is above d ground was establish by men...How do u compete??....Men take actions,men take risk men put their lives on d line nd we never one day complain.......Take it if u can

Ayt27:


People need to understand that when one mentions women or men do something, the person means the majority not ALL OF EM

If i say men are cheats I can't obviously be referring to all the men being cheats, I mean it as a general rule that most men cheat

You go con hear person talk say "Not all Men" like say I no know before

But that is the problem with English comprehension. A statement like 'Men are cheats' means "all men are cheats". Until you quantify it, no one will assume you meant 'most men"

It's just like saying to a white man who hasn't been to Nigeria before that 'Nigerians are black'. He takes it to mean all of us but we know some Nigerians can pass off as white people.

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Klass99:


Lol , how can you even be asking this question?

So the Lord God Almighty creates you first, gives you authority over all things, has communion/fellowship with you on a daily basis, you know his heart's desires, likes and dislikes, in fact you know him better than all of creation did at the time.

Then along comes the companion he created for you, because he saw your loneliness and how bereft you were without one Somehow this second human creation, manages to convince you (without a gun to your head) to go against your better judgment and everything you knew about God before her existence and arrival.

Haba guy, make una dey learn to take full responsibility small nah! Eve didn't force Adam, she didn't seduce him with her naked body either. How she got Adam to eat that piece of fruit is still a mystery to me. And when asked why, he had no excuse or justification. other than it is this woman you gave to me.

Till today, you all continue to blame us for everything that goes wrong in your lives.

I am crying here.

FunFact:

I swear the men that invented both these Religions were losers who put everything in their own favor.


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Forget that bullshit bruh, Eve never ate any apple, think about it, the Bible was created to support only one group, it was meant to put women under and make them feel inferior. It called black people cursed, slaves, called homo sexuals evil, it made everyone look bad except for a particular group of men.. Think about it, the Bible only favours white males, every good person in it including Jesus was white, even the only great civilization Africa had (Egypt) was tagged as evil people who suffered god’s people. All these just to make things in their favour. The truth is White Men created Christianity to put everyone else under except themselves. Reason why most white supremacists are Christians, like Donald Trump for example.

even the KKK is based on christian doctrines....

Klass99:


Lol , how can you even be asking this question?

So the Lord God Almighty creates you first, gives you authority over all things, has communion/fellowship with you on a daily basis, you know his heart's desires, likes and dislikes, in fact you know him better than all of creation did at the time.

Then along comes the companion he created for you, because he saw your loneliness and how bereft you were without one Somehow this second human being created after you, manages to convince you (without a gun to your head) to go against your better judgment and everything you knew about God, before her existence and arrival. She deserves a round of applause

Haba guy, make una dey learn to take full responsibility small nah! Eve didn't force Adam, she didn't seduce him with her naked body either. How she got Adam to eat that piece of fruit, is still a mystery to me. And when asked why, he had no excuse or justification, other than, it is this woman you gave to me. Till today, you all continue to blame us for everything that goes wrong in your lives.

Lmao. @the bolded, dearies, is just the point.
Y'all have left your mark, no doubt, on the sands of time. Women definitely have some power and influence on men regardless of their seeming weak frame and tbh, it's a mystery to many how that works, as you said. BUT just before you and Hathor5 start the "round of applause", cheering, crying and hugging, have you noticed it usually tilts to the negative more often than positive?
Ok, look at it this way: so Adam was in a perfect world before Eve came, everything going right and all, no troubles. Then boom! Eve shows up with all the goods Adam would enjoy from her and just when you thought she's the best thing that ever happened, finally leads him into big trouble.
And why Adam let her, you say? She was prolly playing the inclusion and gender equality card on him and Adam be like: "okay, today, let me make this woman feel special and listen to her." Now you see how that usually goes?
Fact. I'd say my guy was better "lonely and bereft", wouldn't you? Once again, judge for yourselves.

cococandy:
Exactly. That’s why men make money and decide to sleep with everything that has breathe and wears a skirt around them

Yes, that's because most ladies have become so useless that the only language they understand is MONEY

No gender sizes people up like the females

Even among ladies, there's always competition going on with envy being the predominant feature

As a result, the rational ones prefer to make friends with guys than their fellow women

Forget it, most women are terribly complicated people

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Oluromantic:
I am not anti woman but not everything you stated up there are the way they are especially the divorced, separated and widowed part. You had a bit of generalization there. Some women prefer being single mothers especially those that have good jobs because the essence of women being in marriage if well-observed is not basically for companionship but for children sake so even if their husbands are at fault they are already willing to be single before the fault came. And everybody knows that that a man died does not mean his wife is behind his death so be realistic.

In addition most of those that uphold all these beliefs against women are fellow women themselves especially the illiterate ones in the village. If women(the affected ones cus not all women are saints as you make it seem) are to be liberated from this culture, what you need do is campaign for education. 65% of Nigerians are illiterates and its these illiterates that are upholding these archaic cultures.

you are wrong
97%of Nigerians are illiterates

Klass99:


Lol , how can you even be asking this question?

So the Lord God Almighty creates you first, gives you authority over all things, has communion/fellowship with you on a daily basis, you know his heart's desires, likes and dislikes, in fact you know him better than all of creation did at the time.

Then along comes the companion he created for you, because he saw your loneliness and how bereft you were without one Somehow this second human being created after you, manages to convince you (without a gun to your head) to go against your better judgment and everything you knew about God, before her existence and arrival. She deserves a round of applause

Haba guy, make una dey learn to take full responsibility small nah! Eve didn't force Adam, she didn't seduce him with her naked body either. How she got Adam to eat that piece of fruit, is still a mystery to me. And when asked why, he had no excuse or justification, other than, it is this woman you gave to me. Till today, you all continue to blame us for everything that goes wrong in your lives.

Why she no just chop am and lock up?


Why did she give him?


Man, imperfect, had no one else around apart from her, to seek advice from. His imperfect nature and the woman's influence made him ignore God's warning.

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Lol , how can you even be asking this question?

So the Lord God Almighty creates you first, gives you authority over all things, has communion/fellowship with you on a daily basis, you know his heart's desires, likes and dislikes, in fact you know him better than all of creation did at the time.



Then along comes the companion he created for you, because he saw your loneliness and how bereft you were without one Somehow this second human being created after you, manages to convince you (without a gun to your head) to go against your better judgment and everything you knew about God, before her existence and arrival. She deserves a round of applause

Haba guy, make una dey learn to take full responsibility small nah! Eve didn't force Adam, she didn't seduce him with her naked body either. How she got Adam to eat that piece of fruit, is still a mystery to me. And when asked why, he had no excuse or justification, other than, it is this woman you gave to me. Till today, you all continue to blame us for everything that goes wrong in your lives.


It's only men that doesn't want to take responsibilities or bear consequences of their decisions and actions keeps blaming Women for everything. Projecting their mistakes and failures unto innocent women.

udopee:
It's very unfortunate nowadays how our ungrateful society has given women negative tags which are unbefitting.
If you are Unmarried: She is irresponsible, not resourcesful and worthless.

Single and successful: She is chasing away all potential suitors..or must being ‘funded’ unholy, not wife-material⁣ (just wondering how many yards of materials will do for her to qualify)

Married: She is her husband’s property and should no longer have anything that vaguely resembles ‘fun’, baby making factory, she shouldn’t be wearing cloths she used to wear when single.⁣ ⁣

Divorced: She can’t keep a man, she is not submissive, the man could no longer endure her⁣. ⁣

Separated: She is out of control. No sane man fit in for her or can tolerate her excesses. ⁣

Widowed: She must have killed her husband….. to take over his assets and properties. ⁣

Tries to get on with life after widowhood: She didn’t mourn her late hubby for long enough. How suspicious? How inappropriate? How unacceptable! ⁣ ⁣

Childless Marriage: She is barren; she must have destroyed her womb through abortions. ⁣ ⁣

Rich and independent: She is a prostitute, she flirts around for money.

Child misbehaves: It is all the mother’s fault because she spoilt him/her, she doesn't know how to train children,

Plays sports: She shouldn’t; she’s a girl. ⁣

Speaks her mind: She is bossy; not a good trait for a woman, she doesn't have proper home training.

Spouse cheats: It’s her fault. She caused him to it, she pushed him to the wall.

Victim of rape: What time was it? Where was she? What was she wearing?. ⁣

"WHY ARE WOMEN BLAMED FOR EVERY WRONG THING AND HARDLY APPRECIATED FOR THE RIGHT ONES? ⁣

Real women that understand what it means to be a woman should own their sense of personal value. Don't let people in the world convince you that the role of a woman is a powerless and useless thing.

Decide to be a complete woman in love with her life and her God. As you become complete in God's Love, you will find yourself more satisfied than you have ever been. You are not relying on anyone for validation or your happiness.

"AFTER ALL, YOU HAVE GOT PRINCIPLES"

#FRESH_DEW
#HEAVENS_DEW

It is vice versa. Men and women are the same; filled with envy and jealousy. They are human anyway, the blame is on both sides because they refuse to allow the spirit of God, His knowledge and fear to rule over them. None is perfect because we are weak and limited but through God's word we are guided in His fear to perfection.

Says the gender that never takes responsibility for anything and believes that they are another genders responsibility