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|Why Blame Women For Everything?? by udopee(f): 7:10am On Jun 12, 2020|
It's very unfortunate nowadays how our ungrateful society has given women negative tags which are unbefitting.
If you are Unmarried: She is irresponsible, not resourcesful and worthless.
Single and successful: She is chasing away all potential suitors..or must being ‘funded’ unholy, not wife-material (just wondering how many yards of materials will do for her to qualify)
Married: She is her husband’s property and should no longer have anything that vaguely resembles ‘fun’, baby making factory, she shouldn’t be wearing cloths she used to wear when single.
Divorced: She can’t keep a man, she is not submissive, the man could no longer endure her.
Separated: She is out of control. No sane man fit in for her or can tolerate her excesses.
Widowed: She must have killed her husband….. to take over his assets and properties.
Tries to get on with life after widowhood: She didn’t mourn her late hubby for long enough. How suspicious? How inappropriate? How unacceptable!
Childless Marriage: She is barren; she must have destroyed her womb through abortions.
Rich and independent: She is a prostitute, she flirts around for money.
Child misbehaves: It is all the mother’s fault because she spoilt him/her, she doesn't know how to train children,
Plays sports: She shouldn’t; she’s a girl.
Speaks her mind: She is bossy; not a good trait for a woman, she doesn't have proper home training.
Spouse cheats: It’s her fault. She caused him to it, she pushed him to the wall.
Victim of rape: What time was it? Where was she? What was she wearing?.
"WHY ARE WOMEN BLAMED FOR EVERY WRONG THING AND HARDLY APPRECIATED FOR THE RIGHT ONES?
Real women that understand what it means to be a woman should own their sense of personal value. Don't let people in the world convince you that the role of a woman is a powerless and useless thing.
Decide to be a complete woman in love with her life and her God. As you become complete in God's Love, you will find yourself more satisfied than you have ever been. You are not relying on anyone for validation or your happiness.
"AFTER ALL, YOU HAVE GOT PRINCIPLES"
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by saucecode(m): 7:19am On Jun 12, 2020|
udopee:You have answered it already. Real women don't bother abt opinions
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by HITsquad: 7:39am On Jun 12, 2020|
Women are more dangerous than men in every aspect... Especially when she has more power and money at her disposal. Even Ancient civilizations knew this... Reason they have always kept women few steps behind.
80% of women lose their minds when they over grow their man... But men? It doesn't matter how big a man gets and how small his woman is? Things will always be stable.
this is just a natural and psychological fact, it's everywhere, Give your last born the authority over his/her older siblings and he will definitely abuse that power. It's just how it is...
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by ednut1(m): 7:49am On Jun 12, 2020|
Must you always play the victim card. It is women themselves that even blame women for many of these things. A woman marries and stops talking to single friends while men still hang out and gist. A man is unmarried his friends use joking tone to remind him, fellow women mock friends or people.
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Mindlog: 8:08am On Jun 12, 2020|
HITsquad:Women are more dangerous than men in every aspect......this is just a natural and psychological fact, it's everywhere........Care to share more on that.
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Klass99(f): 8:23am On Jun 12, 2020|
This blame game started in the garden of Eden na! when the earth was less complicated and populated.
I don't see how that's going to change now, that the earth is more populated and complicated.
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Oluromantic: 8:57am On Jun 12, 2020|
I am not anti woman but not everything you stated up there are the way they are especially the divorced, separated and widowed part. You had a bit of generalization there. Some women prefer being single mothers especially those that have good jobs because the essence of women being in marriage if well-observed is not basically for companionship but for children sake so even if their husbands are at fault they are already willing to be single before the fault came. And everybody knows that that a man died does not mean his wife is behind his death so be realistic.
In addition most of those that uphold all these beliefs against women are fellow women themselves especially the illiterate ones in the village. If women(the affected ones cus not all women are saints as you make it seem) are to be liberated from this culture, what you need do is campaign for education. 65% of Nigerians are illiterates and its these illiterates that are upholding these archaic cultures.
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by bukatyne(f): 9:02am On Jun 12, 2020|
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by gentlestdude(m): 10:21am On Jun 12, 2020|
well you shouldn't be bothered about people's opinions
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by lilmax(m): 10:52am On Jun 12, 2020|
you can't hoe and not be judged
You only get angry when you've not accepted you're a HOE
If you're a hoe and proud of what you're doing, you wouldn't have a problem about other opinions from people
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:05am On Jun 12, 2020|
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:08am On Jun 12, 2020|
Somehow, this is all your brain could come up with from the write up, smh.
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Saintmary(f): 11:25am On Jun 12, 2020|
To all hard working good hearted women and girls out there
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Klass99(f): 8:20am On Jun 13, 2020|
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Klass99(f): 8:21am On Jun 13, 2020|
Absolutely. That history repeats itself over and over
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by udopee(f): 10:07am On Jun 13, 2020|
That is what society and culture have brainwashed you to believe. Most of the men who are scared of their woman success and powerful influence are the ones that will easily pledge their loyalty and respect for another wealthy and powerful woman they meet outside.
Men are just confused especially when they don't know what they really need.
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by HITsquad: 2:59pm On Jun 13, 2020|
udopee:this is not a stereotype, it's not about what the society think, it's about the evidence and what we have all witnessed.
BTW I said "most" women not all, but majority of women just don't know how to handle power and money.
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by eyinjuege: 4:17pm On Jun 13, 2020|
You have the power to change your narrative.
Stop giving a care about what people think, about what society thinks.
Live your life, to suit yourself.
Be your own person
Earn your own money
Build your own family the way you want it to be, meaning marry someone with similar goals. People do change, so be ready to also protect yourself
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|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by tundchip2: 3:29pm On Jun 14, 2020|
Y'all shouldn't give a fuvck tho. Because people gon talk no matter what.
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by ojaydedon(m): 10:08am On Jun 23, 2020|
Too much generalization...
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Slawormir: 10:08am On Jun 23, 2020|
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by GeoandSONSLTD: 10:08am On Jun 23, 2020|
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:09am On Jun 23, 2020|
Maybe because she was the first to eat the apple in the beginning
|Re: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by Perfecttouchade: 10:09am On Jun 23, 2020|
i,m back..every situations u stated above get wetin cause am and if u no know the beginning/reason, u no fit get answers....
See, this blame game na from time e don dey, na so e go be because the moment we begin to accept that a wife and an husband are 2 different people and what can make things easier and better is to accept we are not the same but understanding and tolerance lo lo see(fit e do am) every situation get Why
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