If you take an in-depth look into your current or past relationships, you might notice that you tend to display the same kind of behavior in all your relationships.

Some of you will realize that you are always trying to please your partner, others will realize they are constantly trying to assert control over their partners, you might notice that you usually have an idealized picture of what your lover should be, and so on.

This does not happen by chance. Instead, it is a direct result of your experiences as you grew up.

Our experiences during childhood play a very huge role in our lives.

They form the roots of who we grow to be and are the basis on which we react to different situations in adulthood, including our love lives.

Since the moment our minds become capable of understanding the world in the slightest way possible and forming memories, we start watching how the people closest to us – our parents or caregivers – relate to us and to each other.

In essence, it is like they are writing a script for us to follow once we grow up.

Throughout our lives, we continue relying on this script to guide us when it comes to issues such as understanding what love is, expressing our love to others, and our reactions to those who love us.

In other words, our childhood experiences and the scripts that our parents or caregivers wrote for us can be used to predict how we express and respond to love during our adulthood.

most of us can be divided into distinct categories based on how we give and express love.

There are 5 types of love style
1. The Pleaser
2. The Controller
3. The Victim
4. The Avoider
5. The Vacillator

There are several ways to identify where you belong and understand your love style

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