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Good day ladies and gentlemen.... I need advice on something bothering me.


I and my ex broke up maturely more than seven years ago. We both went different ways though we communicate once in a while since we are on good terms even though our relationship dint work out.


The issue now is I have feelings for my ex friend but dunno how to go bout it... I'm also considering the fact she's a friend with my ex which seems like a bad omen.


Should I express myself to my ex friend or just find another lady entirely??

Go ahead and make sure that you eat her very well than her friend ( former ex). Always spoil her and buy her gifts. Don't talk about your previous relationship with her.

I give you a green light for her.

And u said you were mature 7 yrs ago. By now u shd be overmature.

There's something about u and ur ex that's not right. You seem to still discuss love n affectionate things.

If your feelings for the new girl is genuine and may lead to marriage, she shd be the one to tell her friend. Except three of you know each other. If that's the case, then both of you shd tell her at different times and not formerly cus u're not under obligation to tell her...just tell her on a friendly basis. But you may be surprised that the break up u said u had maturely was only about you and she wasn't mature at all. A mature lady would be happy for both of you which is not common. So prepare for the opposite also.

You also need to be sure of ur new girls loyalty. Is it to you or to her friend, to avoid future catastrophe. If their friendship is deep and ur ex is acting up then I'd advice you wash out ur hands from both of them.

If it's giving you a moral dilemma; then you probably should not do it.

u na wahala too much for nairaland o

MrSensor:
Go ahead and make sure that you eat her very well than her friend ( former ex). Always spoil her and buy her gifts. Don't talk about your previous relationship with her.

I give you a green light for her.

Noted. Thanks

longetivity:
u na wahala too much for nairaland o

Why? How?

Stephenomozzy:
If it's giving you a moral dilemma; then you probably should not do it.

No dilemma... Just asking