Hello house had to create another user ,am really depressed,sad,right now a marriage of 5 yrs full of maltreatment but i just decided to endure all ,am very aware my man cheat but i didnt let it disturb me or let it affect me,nt until i saw a video of him having sex with a disgusting lady,he even paid for her flight to naija,and he was the one doing the video....i just need to talk to someone right now...

That sucks... But, confront him with the evidence and let's see his reaction

Clap for him and say, welldone.

Tanks

ghettokid1:
Just tell him that there is God and move on

I did dat,he always begin trying to give excuses and hes nt sorry at all.

ghettokid1:
Just tell him that there is God and move on

Use the video as evidence and seek for divorce.

Haaaa very funny.

MightySparrow:
Clap for him and say, welldone.

I have several evident if it for divorce oo,domestic violent pics medical report sef ,marriage na scam sha.

Ningen:
Use the video as evidence and seek for divorce.

serious ooo as this one tie wrapper

Niniolahabby:
Hello house had to create another user ,am really depressed,sad,right now a marriage of 5 yrs full of maltreatment but i just decided to endure all ,am very aware my man cheat but i didnt let it disturb me or let it affect me,nt until i saw a video of him having sex with a disgusting lady,he even paid for her flight to naija,and he was the one doing the video....i just need to talk to someone right now...

Sorry about that but don't let it make u lose yourself or walk out, show him the the video, don't fight, if he is tired of the marriage maybe u guys separate in an amicable way, but please take it easy

Wow this is crazy

No damn respect for marriage again, what's the ego in doing this for fvck's sake He wasn't even remorseful

Sis, once a partner starts cheating, I'd say u abstain from sex for now! AIDS is really in town, don't let him turn down your life and give you life time regret.

Next thing, sit him down and let him know you are aware of his flings and you're ready to opt out if he won't respect his vows! Feel free to discuss this with a family member he respects.

And if you feel your mind is not true with this anymore, feel free to call it a quit pls

Dammn Niga. Dats Wicked. Am Sure If U Try 2 Confront Him, He Will Beat U Up Join. Just Calm Dwn Nd Leave Evrytin To God. If U Are Bless With Child Already. D Child Shld B Ur Partner.

Niniolahabby:
I have several evident if it for divorce oo,domestic violent pics medical report sef ,marriage na scam sha.

Domestic violence too??
You've several evidence & you're still with him?

Why woman? Why??


Yes. What you're into is scam. Not marriage.
And seems like you're okay tolerating the scam.

Am d one whos tired he aint tired of d marriage dats y am surprised my five year of marriage he neva said sorry to me,he said sorry because i have evident of him and hes embarrassed,i just need to talk to someone its shameless telling my frnds abt it,i always make it look like i have a perfect life to everyone,but i dont.

hopeforcharles:

Sorry about that but don't let it make u lose yourself or walk out, show him the the video, don't fight, if he is tired of the marriage maybe u guys separate in an amicable way, but please take it easy

Am nt ok tolerating him,i was scared of wat will pple say but right now i dont care anymore,i keep forgiving him and hes taking me for granted because he knows i will always forgive.he even tank me for been so patient or stupid for 5yrs .

Ningen:


Domestic violence too??
You've several evidence & you're still with him?

Why woman? Why??


Yes. What you're into is scam. Not marriage.
And seems like you're okay tolerating the scam.

Niniolahabby:
Am nt ok tolerating him,i was scared of wat will pple say but right now i dont care anymore,i keep forgiving him and hes taking me for granted because he knows i will always forgive.he even tank me for been so patient or stupid for 5yrs .

Good to know you've had enough.
People like him will never ever change.

Forget about what people will think.
Divorce him abeg.

If you as a human being can stay faithful to him then what's his excuse? Time to end his 5 years of serving you misery. It's never to late to leave.

Better to be alone than to be miserable.
And married to the wrong person.

He cant beat me up,funny part is dat hes nt based here,wen hes in naija dats wen he treat me like this

hgnbello:
Dammn Niga. Dats Wicked.
Am Sure If U Try 2 Confront Him, He Will Beat U Up Join.
Just Calm Dwn Nd Leave Evrytin To God.
If U Are Bless With Child Already. D Child Shld B Ur Partner.

Mmm

Will salute him

Niniolahabby:
He cant beat me up,funny part is dat hes nt based here,wen hes in naija dats wen he treat me like this

Hehe.
If He Cms Bak U Cn Still Take D Beating Nah.

Tanks alot ..its so painful because i love him so much nd he knows dat,he take me for granted but am done dis time i watch d video am digusted abt it all d same man i married can be like dis for a girl whos nt upto me in every area no be say i no dey give am do oo,dis one na dog.

Ningen:


Good to know you've had enough.
People like him will never ever change.

Forget about what people will think.
Divorce him abeg.

If you as a human being can stay faithful to him then what's his excuse? Time to end his 5 years of serving you misery. It's never to late to leave.

Better to be alone than to be miserable.
And married to the wrong person.

He cant nt try dat again,at times its nt too gud for a lady to be too calm in a relationship.

hgnbello:

Hehe.
If He Cms Bak U Cn Still Take D Beating Nah.

Over salute

princeade86:
Will salute him

Niniolahabby:
He cant nt try dat again,at times its nt too gud for a lady to be too calm in a relationship.

Intresting,
So If U Are Nt Calm, What Would U Do To Him?

Am just talking generally ,may be cause of my calmness he took advantage of it .

hgnbello:

Intresting,
So If U Are Nt Calm, What Would U Do To Him?

would show her the video and walk out on her...wen she's done watching, she should jus pack her tinz n follow the man..

I ask him same questions put me in ur shoes if u see a video of me with anoda man having sex wat his gonna do he culdnt talk.

paulolee:
would show her the video and walk out on her...wen she's done watching, she should jus pack her tinz n follow the man..

y will u b depressed. because of a man?? .u saw d video fine..u were supposed to act as if u didn't even see it initially.....but that has happened.. to get over anything, pls don't pay him attention, let him do whatever he wants to do...just channel all ur energy on ur children and business..u don't need to divorce him since he is not abusing u domestically,... pls don't look at his side at all...just focus on ur children and ur work(business) and see aw things will work for u

Its nt easy to see a video of ur man with another babe,i know he cheat but i dnt let it dusturb me ,am after my wrk and business ,nd son.After i saw d video i had to tink abt it all yrs of marriage d maltreatment insult no respect ,i got married at early twenties and i have neva had 5months happyness in marriage ,i just had to make a decision and move on ,i just need to pour it to some1 dats y am here discussing abt it.

Manpoly:
y will u b depressed. because of a man?? .u saw d video fine..u were supposed to act as if u didn't even see it initially.....but that has happened.. to get over anything, pls don't pay him attention, let him do whatever he wants to do...just channel all ur energy on ur children and business..u don't need to divorce him since he is not abusing u domestically,... pls don't look at his side at all...just focus on ur children and ur work(business) and see aw things will work for u

I shuld have left him during d domestic violence days but i still stayed in it ,its nt bcis of the video because i know abt the relationship with him and d babes i know all his gfrd because he talk to them in my present at times i just dont care ,have had enough.i was depressed last year after i got to know he was having sex with my neighbour i confronted him he denial it till i sent d audio record wen he used my fone to call her in to the apartment ,he beat me dat day ,family got involve dey pleaded i forgive right now am tired of his drama.

Manpoly:
y will u b depressed. because of a man?? .u saw d video fine..u were supposed to act as if u didn't even see it initially.....but that has happened.. to get over anything, pls don't pay him attention, let him do whatever he wants to do...just channel all ur energy on ur children and business..u don't need to divorce him since he is not abusing u domestically,... pls don't look at his side at all...just focus on ur children and ur work(business) and see aw things will work for u