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Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
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Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:06pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: Had you chosen your career more wisely ... right? 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:07pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: Sweetheart, Can you quote one post on this thread I said running a husband's bath water is the only ticket to being a wife? Would you feel better if cooking or washing was the example I kept using? |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Has anyone ever said anything about being independent on this thread? Please direct me to such post, I missed it. 9 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:You used it more than once, you directed a question to me on it then went on to emphasize on it making the difference between a wife and mistress. See Bukatyne, the problem with most of you is you see these things as duties, running a bath, cooking, washing etc. Once people see these things as natural things you do out of love, you won't see it as a duty. Finance or Not . Love is the most important thing. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Klass99(f): 10:14pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
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Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Plead:Lol. Thank you |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: bukatyne: See, I brought the post here for people to read before you go on and on how you can read me I am not made for traditional 9 - 5 Hit your head on the wall. I hope your associates are seeing that you can twist their words and lift it out of context tomorrow. I knew you will always show your content and breeding. 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Mariangeles(f): 10:17pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
I believe a wife should be allowed to do what she's able to and enjoy doing, and to contribute what she can to the home. She should not be pressured into overexerting herself. It'll break her down mentally and physically. It is also important that she's happy doing what she's doing. If you're a man, protect your woman by not allowing her do too much even if she wants to. Remind her to take breaks from time to time. Look out for her. It is for your good. Most times, women, especially mothers forget to take care of themselves. You want your wife and the mother of your children around with you till old age don't you? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:18pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: @bold: I jump and pass. All I have preached is love. |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:23pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: I hit a nerve! Sorry! 7 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:24pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: Funny how you never reap what sow. You must be the only exception on earth. 7 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:24pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:I've never seen you do that, not on this thread or any other. But I guess this is where I tell you: You are RIGHT. 8 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:25pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
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Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:26pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: I am responsible for what I say, you are responsible for what you understand. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:28pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: You must be talking about your self. Pray to God, He will deliver you (if you believe in Him). I sow goodness all around me and I reap bountiful goodness with His grace, love and mercy. I am a blessed, favoured child. |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:29pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: It's ok to not like one's job and console oneself that others don't like their jobs either. Not everyone can make a wise decision when it comes to something you will have to do for decades until retirement. 7 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:30pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: Yes, we can see that. 8 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:32pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5: Awwwww Sorry if your job is all you look forward to towards retirement or if you are so stuck in it that you cannot make changes if necessary. I am looking forward to making impact with the gifts God has graciously given me. Now, I feel sorry for you. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5:Lol. "if it doesn't come from Buka, it isn't right" I used to have a friend like that, after trying many times to correct that attitude and she refused to desist ,I just let her be. Anytime she claims an opinion or suggestion of mine as hers and echo it, I will just say yes That's true, you are a genius. Lol. No time for arguments. 9 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne:Please just carry your wahala and go Biko. You are very RIGHT ma! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:39pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: You are the greatest Buka. Feel better? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:40pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: She is just preaching love, I don't understand why so many people feel rubbed the wrong way. It must be everyone else, never her. I disagree with some people here all the time but they don't radiate the same bitchiness. It's one of a kind. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by bukatyne(f): 10:43pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Palema007: Hathor5: You must mistake me for the airheads plagued with victimhood mentally or out of touch with reality You girls still don't get it: Your opinions of me don't matter Whether you think I am the greatest, not, the best, always right, always wrong, whatever, I don't care. It is your opinions and are fully entitled to them. Goodnight ladies. |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 10:44pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: But they mattered enough for you to tell us how great your life is and deny that you hate your job. 12 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Hathor5:Get her points where she's sensible, ignore when she's not. That's the magic 5 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Romangalactic(m): 12:18am On Jun 26, 2020 |
Soooo who is to find and fund a househelp?
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Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by ayomipoosi: 7:30am On Jun 26, 2020 |
@nobone never bothered to contribute further, nice! Let me ask you mariangeles, How much is school bag, lunch bag, food flask for 2-3-4 children put together? It could amount to 15k.(some women spend these on hair and make up like every month) Now do you buy these for your children every month? She said she pays the fees, do you think its every time? Did you read where she said she has access to the husbands accounts, not just one account? I see a woman who wants to help her husband stand firm first. Did you also read where she said as soon as she lost her job, she paid her nanny off, and he husband took over all responsibilities 100%? If that Guy's business was overwhelmed with too such expenses then it was still trying to grow, do you think he can stand firm and take up responsibilities 100% noe that she's not working? She wears the shoes, she knew where there was a hole and she worked hard to support the hole not to open further. Mind you I believe all these happened because of their sincerity to each other. My take Mariangeles: 5 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Hathor5(f): 8:11am On Jun 26, 2020 |
Palema007: You want me to ignore her when she contradicts herself by saying that it easier to make money and more difficult to show your husband love to later admit that she finds it hard to work 9-5? 4 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 8:54am On Jun 26, 2020 |
bukatyne: This has always been my suspicion, but now that it's confirmed, loool It now all makes sense, all your threads, your posts, your desperate attempts etc. Lol 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Thegamingorca(m): 10:58am On Jun 26, 2020 |
Palema007: Your definition of love includes washing pant, Running baths, cooking and house chores? Nah wah for una |
Re: Who Is To Find And Fond A House Help by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
Thegamingorca:Please read to understand not to give a mention. |
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