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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Xavfra(m): 8:58am On Jun 25, 2020
mmars:

Ohh i see so your definition of respect is as result of the fact that your dad feeds your mum pays her bill feed you guys pays your bills and provides shelter in the house in short he covers 99% of all the expenses in the house and the only thing your mum does is Bleep your Dad and give birth too more simps

sorry to burst your bubble kid your mum is the definition of a married hooker and her parents are her pimps




Oohhhh, I see

You just defined what your mom does....


Mr man, my mom ain't lazy....she worked for her money.....

She foots the bills when she has the money or she splits it....

Go and marry a good woman.....all you see in women is sex objects that's why you are sorrowing for me.....

Open your eyes..... shocked shocked

Women aren't sex objects.....

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by seanwilliam(m): 9:00am On Jun 25, 2020
Warlord2012:
Baba back off ...but if u want help her ministry as a friend,you can do.

Relationship this day supposed be 50/50 after all na them they clamor for gender equality.
there is no benefit in being a friend with a lady.. he would pay more than he bargained for if he did that... if you are not in relationship with a lady, no point in being her friend..even if na your co worker, keep it on business line only..


It is of NO benefit In as much as the OP is not after her pussy




And let's face it, it is plain stupidity to pay for what you didnt owe.. even if her debt is 50# she should find a way to clear it.. ok as yourself, when she borrow the card, who did she use it to call? Any lady demanding for petty petty things at the initial stage of relationship is sending a red flag..


This is 2020, there are some dumb excuses to ear.. how on earth will a working class lady be borrowing card to call? And indirectly begging for card?
And u will be surprised the kind of rubbish the girl will be spending her money on o..
I just hate the fact that most guys on here are alpha-simp..

Can a guy ask a lady for card at that point? Afterall they are advocating for equality..


And one God forsaken idiot up there was saying " na the man go meet her na ".. u go read some posts and you will feel like strangling the life out of the posters...



Relationship in 2020 should be 50/50 shares .. u do me I do u na hin supposed be..




Run away from a broke girl...

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Xavfra(m): 9:01am On Jun 25, 2020
mmars:

Ohh i see so your definition of respect is as result of the fact that your dad feeds your mum pays her bill feed you guys pays your bills and provides shelter in the house in short he covers 99% of all the expenses in the house and the only thing your mum does is Bleep your Dad and give birth too more simps

sorry to burst your bubble kid your mum is the definition of a married hooker and her parents are her pimps



You see, all these so called useless adults on this forum are the craziest people I've ever discussed with.....

You're calling me a kid meanwhile you're acting like one.......

And my mum ain a hooker neither are her parents pimps.....

Probably your mom, wife, grandmother and daughters are.....

Be wise boy!!!!
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by frubben(m): 9:03am On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:

Thanks Man. The thinking has kept me awake. God bless
sleep no catch you.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by HomerTimpson: 9:06am On Jun 25, 2020
We won't see girls/ladies and the so called feminist on this kinda thread
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by cezarman(m): 9:35am On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.

See this one... She's just building the trust.

But get ready for a SHOCKER mahn! A SHOCKER that'll end in TEARS cheesy

You think you got her figured out? Wait and see...

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Stephenmoka4(m): 9:41am On Jun 25, 2020
Xavfra:



If he likes her, he could get her a business or job..... cool shocked
Won't that be a form of manipulation.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by ArticleBeast: 9:41am On Jun 25, 2020
mmars:
I know you are one of those useless ladies that offer only sex in a relationship and rely on there partner for the livelihood
live a beggar die a beggar
K
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 9:44am On Jun 25, 2020
Xavfra:





Oohhhh, I see

You just defined what your mom does....


Mr man, my mom ain't lazy....she worked for her money.....

She foots the bills when she has the money or she splits it....

Go and marry a good woman.....all you see in women is sex objects that's why you are sorrowing for me.....

Open your eyes..... shocked shocked

Women aren't sex objects.....

The hoes son is talking
look boy you already said your mum doesn't make any reasonable contribution to the family i am pretty sure she is even worst at her one job satisfying your father on the bed which means she is not just a hoe but a lazy one

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by engrelvis(m): 9:45am On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?
most network v free MMS or talk time so no excuse. She deos nt like u.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Chidonc(m): 9:50am On Jun 25, 2020
cezarman:


See this one... She's just building the trust.

But get ready for a SHOCKER mahn! A SHOCKER that'll end in TEARS cheesy

You think you got her figured out? Wait and see...
grin grin grin
It's over two years now. Bells are already ringing
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by cezarman(m): 9:50am On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

Thank you. I actually don't take their comments to heart. Do I blame them, NO. When you are raised by healthy parents you turn out great. When you are raised in a toxic family you most times turn out toxic. If your father always beats up your mum, it won't be a surprise if you do same to your wife and vice versa. From most of the comments, you can deduce the kind of family they are coming out from.

So in otherwords you were raised by parents who love insulting people's family members over online arguments right?

Your parents no try for you at all... They turned your thoughts Upsydan oh!

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 9:54am On Jun 25, 2020
Xavfra:




You see, all these so called useless adults on this forum are the craziest people I've ever discussed with.....

You're calling me a kid meanwhile you're acting like one.......

And my mum ain a hooker neither are her parents pimps.....

Probably your mom, wife, grandmother and daughters are.....

Be wise boy!!!!

You first tried to play the mom card like your useless mentor up there, now that am playing it back, you are not happy,well i don't give a Bleep . Your whole family might be full of simps who don't know, when a woman is using them just to survive, starting from your great grand pa to you, and dependent hoes who doesn't knows about anything other than sex for feeding, and living like you mothers whole generation and your siblings. It your fucking problem simp not mine

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Xavfra(m): 10:14am On Jun 25, 2020
mmars:

You first tried to play the mom card like your useless mentor up there, now that am playing it back, you are not happy,well i don't give a Bleep . Your whole family might be full of simps who don't know, when a woman is using them just to survive, starting from your great grand pa to you, and dependent hoes who doesn't knows about anything other than sex for feeding, and living like you mothers whole generation and your siblings. It your fucking problem simp not mine



Smh at your stupidity which you're mistaking for alpha males......

It seems you've got hoes in your family grin



Don't be jealous that your mom was a baby factory and mine was and reminds a woman of great life.....

You're just ranting
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Vickho6(m): 10:16am On Jun 25, 2020
At the beginning of the relationship,,, I do most of the call... You know that how desperate you gonna if u want something.... So it get to a point I don't call nor chat cos I do it on a purpose to see her reaction... To ma surprise she was pleading that I should please reply her text and call.. she will call me and we do talk for 40-50mins . Without sending her airtime.... So bro if she truly love u she won't use her broke stuff as an excuse.. Be wise and shine if eye,, u can clear half of her debt and see what will happen

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Xavfra(m): 10:17am On Jun 25, 2020
mmars:

The hoes son is talking
look boy you already said your mum doesn't make any reasonable contribution to the family i am pretty sure she is even worst at her one job satisfying your father on the bed which means she is not just a hoe but a lazy one



I'm done replying to your stupidity since you have comprehension problem......

But have the fact in your empty skull that my mom ain't a hoe......

Probably you should bring your mom and all the females in your family so that she'll teach them how to be successful......

Enjoy your stupidity sir!
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Xavfra(m): 10:18am On Jun 25, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
Won't that be a form of manipulation.


How.....

As for me, I can still support my girlfriend or my ex.....everyone helps you no matter how bad they treated you.......
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by 2cul2care: 10:39am On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?



Give it a try, a trial won't hurt you, you never know, she may be your soul mate.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by purples25(f): 10:47am On Jun 25, 2020
When a woman is not even up to the level of your male friends who you help with money, giving money to her becomes .........extortion. Why be with a woman who cannot even qualify as a friend, who you would help without feeling 'used'. Why are you with a woman that is less than a friend to you?

When you have a negative view of women, then you will view even doing your duty towards your WIFE as patronising a gold digger.

Lol in relationships, both people invest in each other. If you feel she is not up to fiancee or wife that you would invest in by helping her out, while SHE ALSO INVESTS IN YOU...... then why are you with her in the first place.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 10:51am On Jun 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
Wic one be customized tears biko?
The one that will make everyone interested in why you're crying cheesy

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Angelacruz: 10:52am On Jun 25, 2020
Hahaa...
Dicktion:
The one that will make everyone interested in why you're crying cheesy
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 25, 2020
Xavfra:




I'm done replying to your stupidity since you have comprehension problem......

But have the fact in your empty skull that my mom ain't a hoe......

Probably you should bring your mom and all the females in your family so that she'll teach them how to be successful......

Enjoy your stupidity sir!
Like i said your mom is a lazy hoe who has nothing good to offer to your family the whole world at large and depends solely on her simp your father
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by MedicH: 11:04am On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.

Behave like working class is by having 50# or 100# to make phone call. In your tiny little mind, a working class behavior for a young woman is by having #100 to call a man she's dating?

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by BoboKush(m): 11:06am On Jun 25, 2020
Xavfra:




I agree somehow......

At least a better opinion from a well reasoning man...

People like you are the real alpha males

Real alpha male lipsrsealed
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by BoboKush(m): 11:07am On Jun 25, 2020
MedicH:


Behave like working class is by having 50# or 100# to make phone call. In your tiny little mind, a working class behavior for a young woman is by having #100 to call a man she's dating?

U dey mind m
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 11:10am On Jun 25, 2020
Xavfra:




Smh at your stupidity which you're mistaking for alpha males......

It seems you've got hoes in your family grin



Don't be jealous that your mom was a baby factory and mine was and reminds a woman of great life.....

You're just ranting
Yes useless simp my mom made babies and at the same was independent had her job and never relied on my father for almost anything

she took care of me and taught all of us to be independent and desist on relying on people for our needs
An independent woman who knew what she wanted married my father because she loved him and not because she wanted to rely on him for life support

But your hooker mom on the other hand taught the opposite of what my mum taught
to always go for a simp and live the life of a lazy hoe with no means of living except her simp

Typical married hooker way
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Chidonc(m): 11:30am On Jun 25, 2020
MedicH:


Behave like working class is by having 50# or 100# to make phone call. In your tiny little mind, a working class behavior for a young woman is by having #100 to call a man she's dating?
Lack of comprehension is actually a big problem.
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Prophetdoctor(m): 11:34am On Jun 25, 2020
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For your peace of mind and to be able to focus on your goals, please never date a broke girl. Drop her! Let her find someone who is as broke as she is.
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Eagba(m): 11:37am On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

It's obvious you are more stupid. Do I blame you, no, since the only thing your mother contributed to your Dad's life is sex and the reason why your sisters are still at home is because the only thing they can offer to a man is sex. Why should I be surprised at your frustrations.
truly truly you are a simp. you are just responding emotionally and from your write up, you seem to be struggling to want to proof yourself to the opposite sex and you want t be accepted.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Eagba(m): 11:50am On Jun 25, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left
you are hailing him cos he seem to be the type that pander to your kind of bidding.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by maximusprime2000: 12:01pm On Jun 25, 2020
julybaba:
She is sincere. If you truly love her, then do all the callings, when she reach the level of sufficiency, she will pay you back.

u neva learn, if she doesn't pay back. he bears the emotional loss. investing in a broke girl is odi kwa risky. neva stack what u cant afford to lose is the rule of the gambler. or else its usually ends in customized tears. take this to the bank

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by luminouz(m): 12:04pm On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

Ask her how much she's owing and clear it. Atmost is 1k. Add #200 card then observe if she calls you or not. From there, draw your conclusion, remember different people and different experiences. The current lady am dating, when we started, she was working. But she do flash and most times her phone is on minus. I cleared her debt, and started sending her airtime occasionally, I realize, if for instance I sent MTN #200, she do call me over 30mins, which u know that she used all the card on me. Gradually her confidence came back and she started recharging just to talk to me. The day I lie I don't have card, she recharges me. Don't be in a haste to call her broke. Let her fall for you also.

Lmaoooooo...


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