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Re: A lady by SweetCunt97(f): 11:56pm On Jun 28, 2020
uthlaw:
only a mad man will make money and still love women!
This ur comment is born out of hurt. Sometimes it's not really about just making money you know.

From that writeup, the woman advised him against getting such loan or not paying back but he did not listen. Now shit hit d ceiling he should have kept it to himself.

Women lookout for men who have money management skills, not just money making skills.
Re: A lady by Adunaanuoluwa(f): 12:00am On Jun 29, 2020
maryann opara
i know one maryann opara(ogbara) the one i know na scam and She like money ehn mmmmmmmmmm
Re: A lady by lilmax(m): 12:02am On Jun 29, 2020
It's a learning process


The good thing here is, you will laugh at this next year, it will only take time
Re: A lady by Ayemileto(m): 12:19am On Jun 29, 2020
lilmax:
It's a learning process


The good thing here is, you will laugh at this next year, it will only take time
Lol.

It doesn't happen automatically. If he wants to laugh, then he will need to start correcting his mistakes. From the things he did that got his accounts frozen.

And he'll also need to start taking responsibilities for his own mistakes, start making better decisions, and stop being petty.
Re: A lady by Raeheemwayne: 12:35am On Jun 29, 2020
This story is half baked. A lot of unanswered questions.
Re: A lady by uthlaw: 12:48am On Jun 29, 2020
SweetCunt97:
This ur comment is born out of hurt. Sometimes it's not really about just making money you know.

From that writeup, the woman advised him against getting such loan or not paying back but he did not listen. Now shit hit d ceiling he should have kept it to himself.

Women lookout for men who have money management skills, not just money making skills.
ok I ear you!
Re: A lady by Omar09(m): 1:01am On Jun 29, 2020
genesistearz:
A lady I supported during her hardest moments in life, dump me just a week after my bank account was freeze,
Hmm... You didn't take care of her very well that's why. You see, you need to love women hard enough to realize that you have been loving the wrong person. Hey don't stop on her or my account, unblock her and try one more time. She will give in this time. I have a hunch!
Re: A lady by Omar09(m): 1:04am On Jun 29, 2020
genesistearz:
She is a single mom
Obviously, this story is half baked. The op has something he is hiding.
Re: A lady by Liposure: 5:55am On Jun 29, 2020
Eh ya
Re: A lady by Dshocker(m): 6:49am On Jun 29, 2020
genesistearz:
Even after she cheated on me I forgave her, now dis wat am getting for being a nice
Dude you are the cause of your problem
Re: A lady by cezarman(m): 7:34am On Jun 29, 2020
Fu¢k outta here niqqa!

Don't disturb us.
Re: A lady by icenti: 7:45am On Jun 29, 2020
genesistearz:
A lady I supported during her hardest moments in life, dump me just a week after my bank account was freeze,
Many men make the same mistake like you, if she's not your wife, you owe her nothing. If she's not carrying your child don't spend on her. So when the relationship ends you won't have loss to count.
Re: A lady by icenti: 7:58am On Jun 29, 2020
So I broke up with a girl yesterday whom we've been together for 10 months only for her to tell me she's gonna blackmail me online with rape story and all if I dare leave leave her and I did. After we ended it, guess what I had no loss to count because I made sure I wasn't a simp all through the relationship. You don't spend on women else when the ship crashes you'll count your loss alone
Re: A lady by excanny: 8:15am On Jun 29, 2020
genesistearz:
A lady I supported during her hardest moments in life, dump me just a week after my bank account was freeze,
You should never support a woman who isn't ur wife.

You have been foolish, learn from it and repeat such sin no more.
Re: A lady by Mandela27: 8:58am On Jun 29, 2020
Swallow red pill,you no hear.
Re: A lady by genesistearz(op): 3:58pm On Jul 02, 2020
lefulefu:
just try and increase the money u spending on her..explain to the bank that u need to borrow more cash to spend on the girl u love so much
if u do that she will change her mind and come back to u
Lol
Re: A lady by genesistearz(op): 4:01pm On Jul 02, 2020
Ayemileto:
Lol. Going by that chat, it's obvious you took a loan without any intention of paying back.

I've met many people like that, that keep jumping on every loan offer, and when you ask them about repayment, they will simply tell you they won't be repaying back, especially if it's one of this federal government social intervention loans that don't require collateral.

And failure to pay back your loan is fraud. Go clear your name first.



Back to the matter with your ex:
Firstly, you only uploaded a part of the chat that suit your narrative. Why not upload the chat from the beginning and let us judge?

Also, from that chat, you can't even deny all she stated but resorted to cheap blackmail, by stating that she was with another man throughout the day. You couldn't counter any of her points in the chat, but would rather come here to tell us knowing fully well she isn't here to defend herself?

You also didn't tell her about what you did for her in the chat, but came here to tell us you gave her your all when she was at her lowest moments.

How do you want us to know everything you said is true?


To me, you're keeping a lot of information you obviously don't want us to know, including important parts of the chats because you know fully well that it might sway people's sentiments against your narrative.

Also, no smart lady will want to have a future with a criminal. From that chat, she obviously asked you about your repayment plan before taking the loan, but you don't have any plan of paying back from the onset.

Now, you want to blame her for your bad decisions that led you into your current predicament.


I personally dislike people like you who go around taking loans with the intention not to pay back. It irritates me.
Do you want to see the full chat
Re: A lady by Greensquard(m): 4:17pm On Jul 02, 2020
genesistearz:
She is a single mom
You are pathetic man..so na even single mum wey de cheat on u dey do u anyhow like this?a cheating single mum?Godforbid if u were related to me i for don poison u,u r even a more disgrace to manhood than a simp..if u like nongo work on ur low self esteem o angry
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