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Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by Westniggur(m): 4:16pm On Jul 01, 2020
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Important Reasons Why guys Leave “Good girls”
We have all wondered why most times guys always tend to leave good girls for other girls despite how good they are.
We have taken a good look into it and we have found out three (3) reasons why guys leave innocent good girls.

[/b]1. Respect[b]

If there is anything a man loves from his woman then that will be respect. Every man wants his woman to respect him in every circumstance, in his weakness and greatness. A woman is a key to her man’s greatness and every lady out day needs to understand how serious this is. No matter how good and beautiful you are, once you can not respect your man then he can never build a life with you.

[/b]2. Competition[b]

Your relationship must have been competitive. A man must never compete with a woman for who will be in charge in a relationship as it will make him feel less of a man. This should be kept in mind as it is very important.
This does not mean that the man should take 100 percent control of the relationship as it will seem not fair to both lovers. A good and successful relationship has mutual understanding where both parties have control in certain areas. If this level can not be attained, then there will always be competition and by the end of the day the relationship dies.


[/b]3. Pressure[b]

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Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:03pm On Jul 01, 2020
...unless that babe was GOOD FOR/TO HIM and vice versa, you cant expect ALL men to have a lasting r/ship with ALL good women...thats silly!

many good people dont get together simply because:
- the time aint right
- their life isnt in the right place (at that moment)
- their families
- the charlatan in robe they follow-follow every sunday
- the environment/society they live in

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Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by Westniggur(m): 5:21pm On Jul 01, 2020
Irrespective of all this conditions bro if this three things are not in place it will mever work out.

Even if you are in the right place at the right time it doesn't matter. Both parties have to work together to make things work out
MrBrownJay1:
...unless that babe was GOOD FOR/TO HIM and vice versa, you cant expect ALL men to have a lasting r/ship with ALL good women...thats silly!

many good people dont get together simply because:
- the time aint right
- their life isnt in the right place (at that moment)
- their families
- the charlatan in robe they follow-follow every sunday
- the environment/society they live in
Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:39pm On Jul 01, 2020
Westniggur:
Irrespective of all this conditions bro if this three things are not in place it will mever work out.
Even if you are in the right place at the right time it doesn't matter. Both parties have to work together to make things work out

bro let me help you on this issue..
A) a disrespectful woman can NEVER be viewed as a good woman (the fact that you would even bring up respect is funny)... how can a disrespectful woman be viewed as a good woman... to be a GOOD woman you need to respect your partner, duh! what you wrote is like saying: if you dont have a penis you cant be a man, lol!
B) issue of competition in marriage is for men with misplaced ego.. its all about understanding that you guys both work for the wellbeing of the family. if wifey has the means to provide more than the husband then so be it.... married people shouldnt suddenly suffer and live a miserable life simply because husband cant provide as much as wifey does. sadly, deluded men with misplaced ego will automatically see a more successful wife as a "competing" wife because she brings more to the table than him.

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Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by Westniggur(m): 5:48pm On Jul 01, 2020
Oga read the message very well again. U are missing everything. You will see where it is written "Respect in certain circumstance" understand very well before u raise any argument please.
MrBrownJay1:


bro let me help you on this issue..
A) a disrespectful woman can NEVER be viewed as a good woman (the fact that you would even bring up respect is funny)... how can a disrespectful woman be viewed as a good woman... to be a GOOD woman you need to respect your partner, duh! what you wrote is like saying: if you dont have a penis you cant be a man, lol!
B) issue of competition in marriage is for men with misplaced ego.. its all about understanding that you guys both work for the wellbeing of the family. if wifey has the means to provide more than the husband then so be it.... married people shouldnt suddenly suffer and live a miserable life simply because husband cant provide as much as wifey does. sadly, deluded men with misplaced ego will automatically see a more successful wife as a "competing" wife because she brings more to the table than him.
Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by Westniggur(m): 5:51pm On Jul 01, 2020
Respect was not generalized. A woman can be respectful generally but when it comes to some certain areas its either 50% or zero.

Its like writing Jamb, you wrote 4 courses and got a total of 40/50.
Individually u did well in three courses but bad in 1 course but at the end u still passed.

Understand MrbrownJay1
Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:58pm On Jul 01, 2020
Westniggur:
Oga read the message very well again. U are missing everything. You will see where it is written "Respect in certain circumstance" understand very well before u raise any argument please.

"respect in certain circumstance"... what the hell are you talking about?! a good woman will ALWAYS respect her man (whether up or down), thats why she is a good woman... if a woman suddenly loses respect for you because you dont have any money any longer (or whatever) then that woman was NEVER a good woman and you only played yourself being with some two bit pay as you go olosho!

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Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by Westniggur(m): 6:05pm On Jul 01, 2020
MrBrownJay1 bro, you are on a long thing honestly. Am not being abusive but the way u talk is making me think you have not experienced anything
you talking movie not real Life
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"respect in certain circumstance"... what the hell are you talking about?! a good woman will ALWAYS respect her man (whether up or down), thats why she is a good woman... if a woman suddenly loses respect for you because you dont have any money any longer (or whatever) then that woman was NEVER a good woman and you only played yourself being with some two bit pay as you go olosho!
Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:10pm On Jul 01, 2020
Westniggur:
Respect was not generalized. A woman can be respectful generally but when it comes to some certain areas its either 50% or zero.

Its like writing Jamb, you wrote 4 courses and got a total of 40/50.
Individually u did well in three courses but bad in 1 course but at the end u still passed.

Understand MrbrownJay1

what the hell are you talking about?! if you want to settle for a woman who respects you on monday but insults you on tuesday then so be it but that is NOT a good woman. a GOOD woman will respect you 100% all day everyday (so long as you respect her back) and certainly not 80% as you stated... RESPECT is one of the foundation of marriage, and if the foundation is not 100% then you are just an argument away from disaster. men who settle for less deserve these disasters in their lives.

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Re: Important Reasons Why Guys Leave "Good Girls" by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:26pm On Jul 01, 2020
Westniggur:
MrBrownJay1 bro, you are on a long thing honestly. Am not being abusive but the way u talk is making me think you have not experienced anything
you talking movie not real Life

you can believe whatever you desire, thats is not the issue, i am telling you my opinion on the subject.... and if you believe that a woman (who respects you 80% of the time) is a good woman, then you need to get out a bit more and live in the real world.

unless your woman respects you 100%, you are NOT with a good woman!

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