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Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by geedee4real(m): 7:39pm On Mar 26
When u get sick, he calls, when he gets sick, he still calls.
you have Airtime He calls, u don't have airtime he still calls.
Your birthday He buys u a Gift, His birthday he still takes u out.
He sends u money, and still calls to confirm if you've received an alert, u only flashed Him and u re already scolding him to know y he hasn't called back.
He invited u for a lunch, took care of your bills, u only dressed better than him, but u couldn't afford your transport.
He met u with your friends u sounded rudely, you met him with his friends he was Caring & polite.
He secretly borrowed money to give u, u always told him the money is too small.
Things turn around for him for good and he became very rich, he left u, Too late, You re now ready to love him and u are shading tears, deceiving other women saying; u were their for him when he had nothing, all guys are same..
Your impact in a relationship would determine if a man will marry u, and not your presence.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:42pm On Mar 26
the reality is that MONEY/POWER will always change a person, regardless of the r/ship they have...

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by coolestofall(m): 7:47pm On Mar 26
Not true. Most guyz do that cos they have now acquired a higher taste in terms of class.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by geedee4real(m): 7:50pm On Mar 26
MrBrownJay1:
the reality is that MONEY/POWER will always change a person, regardless of the r/ship they have...
Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Comedian2019: 7:52pm On Mar 26
With more money, a guy needs variety of soup, ogbono, Ewedu, edikaikon, Mia kuka, and so one. Man needs are insatiable. #franktruth

So If your guy becomes rich, allow him to explore until he gets tired.
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by geedee4real(m): 7:54pm On Mar 26
Comedian2019:
With more money, a guy needs variety of soup, ogbono, Ewedu, edikaikon, Mia kuka, and so one. Man needs are insatiable. #franktruth

So If your guy becomes rich, allow him to explore until he gets tired.
Not for a man that really know what he want

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:08pm On Mar 26
geedee4real:
Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!

bro, you are right, but again money changes people, and as much as a man may not leave his caring GF, he "could" start cheating, be arrogant and/or disrespectful etc you never know what this man will turn into, until he becomes rich.

how can someone (who has never tasted money) know what they will do when they suddenly make money?
- many people out there are in certain r/ship, as a stepback to better days. FACT!
- many are confirmed polygamist but cant afford it just yet. FACT!

Comedian2019:
So If your guy becomes rich, allow him to explore until he gets tired.

would you feel the same way if your GF becomes rich?

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Liutay(m): 8:29pm On Mar 26
I've heard a lot of people saying a guy is a cheat and an evil person because he left his girlfriend when he got rich.
The question is; what did she contribute to his life when he had nothing?
TBH, a whole lot of ladies have nothing to offer and are ready to resort to playing the jilted partner card when things don't go their way.
If truly you contributed something meaningful to his life, no guy would leave you when he gets rich unless he's lacking good sense.

It's non of ma business anyway.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Liutay(m): 8:33pm On Mar 26
Comedian2019:
With more money, a guy needs variety of soup, ogbono, Ewedu, edikaikon, Mia kuka, and so one. Man needs are insatiable. #franktruth

So If your guy becomes rich, allow him to explore until he gets tired.

That's a weird comparison. Human beings and soup.
Mehh!

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:40pm On Mar 26
Liutay:
I've heard a lot of people saying a guy is a cheat and an evil person because he left his girlfriend when he got rich.
The question is; what did she contribute to his life when he had nothing?

if thats is the case and this woman is such a bad person, then what is this man doing dating this woman? if she is such bad person then just fukc and clean mouth, and basta!

TBH, a whole lot of ladies have nothing to offer and are ready to resort to playing the jilted partner card when things don't go their way.

why waste life with these good for nothing women? why not going directly to the best ones out there (that most seek after making money)? were these "better" women HIDING all this time OR is it just that every men is tired of mounting the same babe (after a few years) and want/need fresh toto (whether rich or poor)?

If truly you contributed something meaningful to his life, no guy would leave you when he gets rich unless he's lacking good sense.

but rich people also divorce, isnt it? rich people also drop these babes that have been with them through thick and thin. isnt It Odion Ighalo that is dropping his day one babe after +10years and 3 kids. now that ManU money is about to flow mercilessly?!

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by appliedscience(m): 8:49pm On Mar 26
For me, I tink it all boils down to RESPECT!!
When he had notin, how did u treat him!! Yes u stayed but how did u treat him!! Like a king or u talk to him like he is trash!!
He sees how u treat him, even if he doesn't say or express it!! But once his level changes, it pay back time!!

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Liutay(m): 9:13pm On Mar 26
MrBrownJay1:


if thats is the case and this woman is such a bad person, then what is this man doing dating this woman? if she is such bad person then just fukc and clean mouth, and basta!



why waste life with these good for nothing women? why not going directly to the best ones out there (that most seek after making money)? were these "better" women HIDING all this time OR is it just that every men is tired of mounting the same babe (after a few years) and want/need fresh toto (whether rich or poor)?



but rich people also divorce, isnt it? rich people also drop these babes that have been with them through thick and thin. isnt It Odion Ighalo that is dropping his day one babe after +10years and 3 kids. now that ManU money is about to flow mercilessly?!

If she's bad, most guys would endure in the hopes that she'll change. When money comes along, their eyes become open and they stop tolerating what they've been tolerating.
Rich people divorce, true. People fall out of love everyday

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 26
appliedscience:
For me, I tink it all boils down to RESPECT!!
When he had notin, how did u treat him!! Yes u stayed but how did u treat him!! Like a king or u talk to him like he is trash!!
He sees how u treat him, even if he doesn't say or express it!! But once his level changes, it pay back time!!
You deserve an award
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Danielkupiejo: 10:15pm On Mar 26
Na lie.
MrBrownJay1:
the reality is that MONEY/POWER will always change a person, regardless of the r/ship they have...
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Danielkupiejo: 10:17pm On Mar 26
Na lie. Stop saying wot u never experience una know d meaning of love ? He can cheat fine he will only cheat with respect
MrBrownJay1:


bro, you are right, but again money changes people, and as much as a man may not leave his caring GF, he "could" start cheating, be arrogant and/or disrespectful etc you never know what this man will turn into, until he becomes rich.

how can someone (who has never tasted money) know what they will do when they suddenly make money?
- many people out there are in certain r/ship, as a stepback to better days. FACT!
- many are confirmed polygamist but cant afford it just yet. FACT!



would you feel the same way if your GF becomes rich?
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by CAPSLOCKED: 10:21pm On Mar 26
There's honesty in the post but
..
It is not as if all women in the country are as wicked and malicious as forum men present them to be.

There are many great females in Nigeria. Great in every way.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:18am On Mar 27
Danielkupiejo:
Na lie. Stop saying wot u never experience una know d meaning of love ? He can cheat fine he will only cheat with respect

cheat with respect... thats a new one, as if there is any respect when cheating... BWAAAAAAAAAH!!! cheating and respect are two opposite things, you cant possibly cheat and at the same time respect your partner.

Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Homers123(m): 12:52am On Mar 27
We guys endure many shit from dem gals when we no get shishi, when we dey invest in ourselves most of the girls refuse to invest in themselves and step up their games but the one that causes break upost time is the Attitude and difficulties they gave a nigga when he had nothing.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Sixfeetbelle: 1:30am On Mar 27
geedee4real:

Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!

I believe 'sensible' is the major factor here.
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Sixfeetbelle: 1:39am On Mar 27
A guy dropping his girl after he makes money isn't always because of the girl. Majority, yes, but human beings are fickle, and would always deviate from the expected result.

Like someone said above, most people don't truly know themselves until they undergo certain tests and trials. A man who suddenly becomes rich may turn arrogant and change his taste, hence dropping his babe and moving on to finer, classy babes to suit his new lifestyle. That's a fact. Also a fact is that some guys in relationships now have no future plans with the girl, so once their future arrives in terms of financial upliftment, they drop her and move on.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Zeal0000007(m): 1:44am On Mar 27
geedee4real:

Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!
my brother that's my condition now, I and girl has been together for 5years now.she's very supportive and very caring but she lacks manners and she Is disrespectful and I can't continue with that anymore cos it's causing my joy now that things are beginning to get better . but I'm looking for a way to compensate her and move on since I can't change her. so you see, it not all you will get married to when u blow and it's not your fault.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by gozie112(m): 2:17am On Mar 27
Chaiii...nairalanderz are too intelligent...nice write up boss
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Danielkupiejo: 9:07am On Mar 27
We dey talk from experience. So guy u chill, my frds and I get money so we cheat and we still respect and show our main chick respect. I'm a guy now u won't want to use ur babe anyhow
MrBrownJay1:


cheat with respect... thats a new one, as if there is any respect when cheating... BWAAAAAAAAAH!!! cheating and respect are two opposite things, you cant possibly cheat and at the same time respect your partner.

Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Danielkupiejo: 10:57am On Mar 27
Spotted. Youre on point. They will treat u like trash wen money no dey and u go still dey give dem at all at all. But when beta money enter they go wan humble and d guy go wan humble dem too.
Homers123:
We guys endure many shit from dem gals when we no get shishi, when we dey invest in ourselves most of the girls refuse to invest in themselves and step up their games but the one that causes break upost time is the Attitude and difficulties they gave a nigga when he had nothing.

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Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by Bartork(m): 10:58am On Mar 27
geedee4real:

Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!

You are right.

But you see support is relative. No matter how much support you get from a person you still never forget how they gave it.

Have you seen how people with rich parents who would have nothing without their parents talk down these same parents even after all the support.

No matter how supportive you are to a person ensure you have their hearts.


Guys s***x ladies for years only to show up with another girl and call the former one a slit... Why

Ladies get sponsored by a guy through school and she come up to marry someone else.... why

It goes beyond allowing him into your pants

It goes beyond giving out support.
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by AfroKnight: 11:47am On Mar 27
Lol. No one should blame the guy.

This is the story of many guys today. The girl was a factor in his struggle. She contributed to his woes and lack. Why should he continue hanging out with a girl like that after escaping this dark time of his life?

He needs to shed dead weight.
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by baralatie(m): 11:56am On Mar 27
geedee4real:

Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!
Olamide,davido,whiz kid,etc more money more stepping up
Re: Reason Why Guys Leave Their Girl Friend After Making It In Life by dbestuncle: 3:16pm On Mar 28
What's ur understanding of when things are rough
The story doesn't look like someone in love but just there. Na only presence she gets and nothing else.
geedee4real:

Not all relationship bro, no sensible guy will leave a supportive gf that was there for him when things were rough!

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