Prompto:
I help destinies like yours. Only God is all I need, your wail of sorrow agony n anguish return to your household on multiple fold n remain with you unborn generation till eternity.

Mikeiron78:
I see a mentally retarded boy that the Nigerian parents failed because the mental health was not sought for, there are many of these kids in the western world that their Nigerian or African parents fail because of the stigma attached to seeking help for these kids. Police was not called because of fear of mental health that will be required.

Prompto:
I help destinies like yours. Only God is all I need, your wail of sorrow agony n anguish return to your household on multiple fold n remain with you unborn generation till eternity.

DexterousOne:



I personally believe in some tough love

And some ass whooping for serious offences

But the way corporal punishment is done in Nigeria

Its messed up and is abuse in many instances


That said

The key in my opinion is that your kids should have a degree of (will I call it) fear in u as a parent


If your kids have mo level of deference to you


Wahala go dey


Our ways are not perfect

But throwing it away in totality is not the best

Some modifications here and there is more like it

revolt:
how can you call the police. She raised that child. No parent should EVER call the police on a child you raised. The child is a product of how you handled him. Its your fault as a parent. Live with the consequences... its very unfair on that child.

linearity:
Am very sure, this is a scene from one of those Nollywood scripts.

It can’t happen in real life!

chiddyok:

Unrepentant fool. Unless it isn’t God that created igbos. You will live to regret every evil word you’ve said about my people.

Beey:
He actually maybe mentally ill. Police will help de-escalate the situation & help him find help. Otherwise, looks like he could attack his mom & it’s wise to keep her distance. In the West, small issue can get you in trouble. I don’t see any problem with involving the cops. They too are parents.

One4me:

I agree with you mostly.
What Children need is NOT FEAR ...but RESPECT for their Parents.
See ehn, if they fear you as a 5yr old to say 15yr old, when they are 16yrs and have even more Muscles and Power than you, that fear will be gone for good!
But when they have RESPECT for you, that respect lasts a lifetime and does not depend on age or size.
And the only way to earn the respect of Children is to BE FIRM and LIVE BY GOOD EXAMPLE.
Ofcourse, there will be times when the "evil in the heart of children" will require that you flog the devil out fo them but it must be done with love and corection, not with Anger or Rage.
Talk to them "quietly but firmly" all the time, encourage them to be good, warn them of consequences if they dont obey orders and follow through with punishment (dont just threaten and do nothing otherwise they get used to it), flog them moderately if you need to but in most cases, if you start early, the mere sight of the cane, without even using it, will make them adjust.
Most importantly, Children learn more by observing the behaviours of their parents, than by what you tell them.
Show them good examples of what you want them to be, by doing same in their presence. This is what commands their RESPECT the most.

A father that beats the Mother regularly or a Mother that regularly abuses the husband in the presence of the Children or incites them against their father, cannot raise well-adjusted children, no matter how much they try.

LoveMynd44:
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NaijaOlosho:
Over petting na cause this stupidity

Philadelphia:
The truth is that all children are not from the Almighty God.
You see, it appears that this kid is the only child.
There are some hidden truths that some parents will never tell you about how they got their child/children.
Some parents can go to any means (out of Jesus) just to have a child. Some of the results are what you see here.
The devil will never give you anything for free.


From the video, don't you think that this boy is possessed by an evil spirit? If he can behave this way at this age, then something got wrong at a very early stage.

Nwaonyishi69:
Useless spoilt son from a useless family.

GoldHorse:
Stupid parents plus rubbish pikin. Na this kain woman go dey quarrel people trying to correct the child when he dey small. Now he is grown and she can't handle him again.

Even there in the US or UK you can't try this nonsense with some parents!

IME1:
Do you think this can happen in Nigeria?
Even among rich people?
Chidera just wasted food that many people need and don't have.
They watched him, they were afraid to approach him cause he might hurt them
Hurt them as in? So if he was plucking the hair from the head of someone they won't have approached him?
They should have stopped him right from the onset
But they left him, as they have been leaving him before he became this tall and ....
Chidera can kill and commit suicide
Chidera has mental issues
Chidera is not in a good environment for his upbringing
He does not understand and appreciate his privileges
He is wasting life, resources and abusing family hood and son hood
He is entitled and feels his mother and father owe him
He feels entitled to rant and destroy because he was ignored by his mum while he was talking to her.


My Nigerian born and brought up people what do you have to say when you consider where you and I are coming from?
Some us came from homes where food couldn't waste because we ate it all, and when food remained we kept it till the next time we wanted to eat.
Some kept goats, pigs, dogs and other ways where we disposed of food. Many of us gave to those without food.
Breaking lantern globe or glass or clay pitcher for fetching water from the river was almost like a sacrilege. We dare not let it slip. It's better you fall let it land on your stomach than allow that glass break.

Oh what a life! We are rich now and we still live prudently, wisely, carefully and sanely.
We don't tear up money, we don't smoke with dollars, we don't smoke anything, we don't drink only to go and pee it out, we don't buy food and leave chunks of flesh on the bones in restaurants or parties just to show that we are not hungry, we don't buy unnecessary gadgets, aso ebi or jewellery, we stay in apartments we can afford, we don't spray in parties, we maintain our cars and phones so don't need to change them every 6 months

We are the prudent generation, the wise ones, the ones with values, the ones with shame and fear, with respect and honour for our elders, the ones with money and sense, the ones who are not entitled but strive to better our lives, we have godly contentment and don't break TV screens or car windscreens when we are angry or upset.

We read comments from people on Nairaland which may be annoying but we don't make it our lives purpose to find the culprit to avenge, we move on, we forgive, we overlook, we are bigger, better, and more mature. We know and believe that we shall reap what we sow. We rever God. We see those who troll, curse, derail, peddle tribal rivalry and political hatred and pray silently for them because we know they'll reap what they sow. The ones they insult end up raising funds for them, giving them lifts or employing them.

Chidera will not always have a mother whose kitchen he can trash.
He may not always be left to be destructive.
One day he will be taken away and his words will be 'mummy, don't let them take me, mummy please!'

But then it will be late and we will be watching with popcorn and sprite

aremuforlife:

Hello bro/sis I am an African man and I will always be at their side. The westerners are not perfect, they are more imperfect than us, but we thought they are more perfect in everything they do because that is what they want us to see and believe,we watch them, we study them, we read them, but they will never show you their imperfections. Just like what the president of the great American is doing, he called Africa shitholes, but America is more sholitholes than Africa. Just look at what he has been doing and behaving, if it were to be one Africa leaders behaving like that, he might have sent a battalion.

EVILFOREST:

I spank my KIDS oooo.
No Dulling.
I keep them away from people and get them spanked.
They speak Igbo.
I enrolled them into Igbo classes.
Neighborhood Matters too.
Raising Kids in Chicago, New Orleans and some parts of Los Angeles dey terrible.

Philadelphia:
The truth is that all children are not from the Almighty God.
You see, it appears that this kid is the only child.
There are some hidden truths that some parents will never tell you about how they got their child/children.
Some parents can go to any means (out of Jesus) just to have a child. Some of the results are what you see here.
The devil will never give you anything for free.


From the video, don't you think that this boy is possessed by an evil spirit? If he can behave this way at this age, then something got wrong at a very early stage.

One4me:


Cant you people just stop all these tribal insults for a minute?
You cant leanr anything if all you do is tribal assaults, l know it gets under your skin at times and you want to defend one of yours but one reply is enough instead of drawing it on and on.
My response is to both of you though.

GoldHorse:


You are doing what is right. Children don't know better. That is why kids who didn't have your type of parenting or were somehow ignored/pampered almost always ends up bad.

Kudos! May you enjoy the fruits of your labor!

One4me:


Trust me, from the way you sound, you dont know 10% of "Abroad".
Ask people, No less than 80% of black Families and Children are from Broken Homes.
It is the 'standard' over there, not just an isolated case.

Even wives that were "good" in Nigeria, once they get abroad and they realise that using the Police/Law, they can drive away their husband from the house and still get more Money from the govt for just doing that, they will use any slight excuse (some dont even need any genuine excuse, they just say :I am no longer interested! ) to drive their husband out of the house and begin to try to raise the Children by their self.

The White people have devised the EASIEST AND SELF-INFLICTED METHOD OF DESTROYING THE FUTURE OF BLACK GENERATIONS by helping the Black Wives to destroy their family, using the White-controlled Court system and the penchant of GREED and Power Abuse by Black women.
The worst ones are the ones taken from Nigeria abroad, by a Husband who thinks he is helping his family to a better life.

Believe me, you dont know abroad yet. at least by as much as 70%

Redman44:
My Uncle in the USA sent his kids to Nigeria for their secondary school education after they completed elementary school in the States. He sent them to a private school with boarding facilities in Osun State. His kids are back in America and they are so well behaved and focused. They are really doing well as University graduates now. There are many good and well organized Private Secondary Schools in Nigeria today with fees ranging from 300, 000 Naira per term to 1.2 Million Naira per term including boarding house fees. Nigerians in diaspora, please take note.