Theyveedo:
So on a faithful day I was scrolling through my Facebook timeline when I saw this pretty girl among my the friends suggestions. I opened her profile. Went through her pictures, well I guess I liked what I saw so I added her.
A couple of days later I chatted her up n she replied me in a very polite me which made to like her even more. You know how these girls behave and tend to reply someone rudely when u chat them up, but she was the opposite.
So we got talking, and I got to know more about her, she’s also my from my home town to but schools very far away albeit a fresh graduate waiting for call up. So as time went on we started to talk everyday, we chatted on WhatsApp and exchanged calls. One thing about her was her seriousness about God. She always attends church programs and holds a very important position in her church administration and sometimes she would preach to me. I didn’t mind, I could do with a few words of God myself so o gladly listened. She also sent me her church’s daily devotional and made me promise to read it daily and sent her reviews that it will build my spiritual life, I agreed but I was faithful about that, I only read and sent reviews to her like 3 times in a week.
So eventually she come back home to see her folks for a couple of weeks, we met and spent sometime together, I even got to like her more, she is smart, intelligent and speaks really well, something I look out for in ladies. Although she doesn’t dress “churchy”, but would know when u converse with her, I didn’t mind, I felts it’s better to be friends with someone who has God at heart .
So few weeks after she has travelled back to her base I called her on phone to tell her how I felt about her, how I had developed feeling for her and how wanted to be in a relationship with her. Then she shocked me; she said although she has also developed feelings for me and likes my kind of person but she can’t go into a relationship with me because my spiritual life is very low, that she wants someone she could look up to or at least someone at her level In terms of spirituality. I tried to convince her to look at other good qualities that I posses and as regards her concern I could get better and becomes like want. Mind you, I am good looking guy, working and good mannered, I will definitely make a good husband eventually. After much talking she still stood her ground that for her it was the spiritual life above every other thing.

So this got me thinking, don’t get me wrong, I love God and everything about God, I try to be a good Christian and a good person like the Bible instructs. But what if u had pretended to her and shown my true nature deep in the relationship? Why would someone choose spirituality over basic character which one cannot? I mean I could be a very good Christain today and still backslide tomorrow but but characters don’t change like that.
I feel these are some of the reasons many people end up in wrong marriages prioritize on things that shouldn’t come first.
That’s my opinion though, everyone has what he/she wants.
What do u guys think? Sorry for the long read.

Theyveedo:
So on a faithful day I was scrolling through my Facebook timeline when I saw this pretty girl among my the friends suggestions. I opened her profile. Went through her pictures, well I guess I liked what I saw so I added her.
A couple of days later I chatted her up n she replied me in a very polite me which made to like her even more. You know how these girls behave and tend to reply someone rudely when u chat them up, but she was the opposite.
So we got talking, and I got to know more about her, she’s also my from my home town to but schools very far away albeit a fresh graduate waiting for call up. So as time went on we started to talk everyday, we chatted on WhatsApp and exchanged calls. One thing about her was her seriousness about God. She always attends church programs and holds a very important position in her church administration and sometimes she would preach to me. I didn’t mind, I could do with a few words of God myself so o gladly listened. She also sent me her church’s daily devotional and made me promise to read it daily and sent her reviews that it will build my spiritual life, I agreed but I was faithful about that, I only read and sent reviews to her like 3 times in a week.
So eventually she come back home to see her folks for a couple of weeks, we met and spent sometime together, I even got to like her more, she is smart, intelligent and speaks really well, something I look out for in ladies. Although she doesn’t dress “churchy”, but would know when u converse with her, I didn’t mind, I felts it’s better to be friends with someone who has God at heart .
So few weeks after she has travelled back to her base I called her on phone to tell her how I felt about her, how I had developed feeling for her and how wanted to be in a relationship with her. Then she shocked me; she said although she has also developed feelings for me and likes my kind of person but she can’t go into a relationship with me because my spiritual life is very low, that she wants someone she could look up to or at least someone at her level In terms of spirituality. I tried to convince her to look at other good qualities that I posses and as regards her concern I could get better and becomes like want. Mind you, I am good looking guy, working and good mannered, I will definitely make a good husband eventually. After much talking she still stood her ground that for her it was the spiritual life above every other thing.

So this got me thinking, don’t get me wrong, I love God and everything about God, I try to be a good Christian and a good person like the Bible instructs. But what if u had pretended to her and shown my true nature deep in the relationship? Why would someone choose spirituality over basic character which one cannot? I mean I could be a very good Christain today and still backslide tomorrow but but characters don’t change like that.
I feel these are some of the reasons many people end up in wrong marriages prioritize on things that shouldn’t come first.
That’s my opinion though, everyone has what he/she wants.
What do u guys think? Sorry for the long read.

RealEzee:
her choice bro, you don't need to force it, maintain friendship if possible, if possible ooo.
Everyone get their own 'weird' thing they prioritize.

Crownstar01:
My brother, you're here. Nice to see you again.

Theyveedo:
So on a faithful day I was scrolling through my Facebook timeline when I saw this pretty girl among my the friends suggestions. I opened her profile. Went through her pictures, well I guess I liked what I saw so I added her.

RealEzee:
lol monitoring spirit!! My guy how ur day dey go na?

GodWrites:
Op, she doesn't feel the way you do. That was a nice rejection using spiritual blah blah blah.

You might think you're a good catch, but there are billions out there who will disagree.

Everyone has their preference, their ON switch!

Don't be surprised one tout at one local park is fucking her.

That's life bro, e no balance. Move on!

Crownstar01:
Very fine. Though I'm alone. My girlfriend's punishing me for not picking her calls last week.

RealEzee:
lol Ololo ooo my guy nobody wants to be in ur shoes ooo

Crownstar01:
That's true. What I noticed about most Nigerian girls is they always prefer good-for-nothing guys to serious guys. But would later scream that men are scumbags.

GodWrites:


The female specie is biologically engineered to prefer men who are dominating, even if it leads to them being abused.

A strong hunk beating them with a belt while they weep on the floor is a turn on. Check well, she has soaked her panties.

That is the primitive nature of a woman. They don't need nice guys, it's better to be both as a man.

Although civilization has helped a little, it still remains a deep craving many struggles to contain.

That girl shouting she needs a god-fearing dude, check well her deepest fantasy is being choked, bleeped rough, and impaled against a wall.

She doesn't want you to be nice, she wants you to dominate her.. To crush her ego...

Lemme stop here

delectablegyal:
Leave her.


is it written anywhere that you must marry?

let her go.

you know you love her when you let her go.


all these churchy girls. is she a virgin? ubunja told us how churchy girls have sex when they really wanna have sex.